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Even if the ending is that the two are sleeping in the same tomb, life and death will separate their beloved, permanently separated, and there will be no day to be together.

The so-called eternal life and eternity are nothing but beautiful lies.

If you believe, you will have, and if you don't believe, you will not. She didn't believe it, so she was kind of open.

It's just that if her life is only a few decades, then she is willing to use the rest of her life to try, be loyal to him who loves her honestly, and enjoy this love, and do her best during the existence of the relationship, but until the day when she closes her eyes and dies of old age, she will never give everything.

Yan Shengguo knew that his little girl was a little stubborn, and to put it mildly, it was a stupid donkey who was stubborn to the end. But he never imagined that her idea would be so different, and her personality would be so distinctive, like a tree that has been rooted for many years and has developed roots and can no longer be shaken.

"When did you start thinking that? Who got you into it?"

Yan Shunhua shook his head, it was not easy to explain the concept that had been engraved in his body and mind for a long time, and said vaguely, "No, it is just a natural idea."

Dad, whether it is a man or a woman, as an adult, in fact, it is better to be independent, so that there will be a lot less friction when living together.

For example, if another person is away from home and there is an emergency at home, then the remaining person can cope well and not be helpless.

For example, when two people have a quarrel, one party is too angry and asks the other person to leave, then the person who is also in an angry state can leave directly, instead of experiencing the same discomfort, but because he is homeless and unable to be independent, he can only stay at home and endure that sadness and helplessness.

Dad, I always believe that as a person, the most important thing is to learn to get along with yourself, not to deal with someone else, or the ultimate goal is to marry a good man and have children, and when you raise your children, you will think that it is the highest achievement in your life.

As a human being, you should have what you want to do, the life you want to live, the knowledge you want to specialize, and the ability you want to polish.

Of course, if the ideal of life is to live a dull life with a husband and children, and all wishes are to revolve around the husband and children, then it is not impossible. ”

Yan Sheng's heart was already roaring, but his face was expressionless, "As a woman, it is her duty to teach her husband and children." According to you, after you marry into the Shen family, will you continue to earn money through your own labor, and then be responsible for your own daily expenses? Not only do you earn money yourself, but you also plan to do it by yourself, whether it is exercising, reading, or going for a walk, you plan to do it by yourself and leave your husband alone?

Are you sure you're not following the example of those who always accompany the ancient Buddhas with green lanterns, so you enjoy the solitude?"

Under his cold gaze, Yan Shunhua was stunned and didn't come back to his senses for a long time.

"Dad, where is this? I'm not one of those people who see through the red dust and want to leave the world, what I just said just now just wants to show that everyone has the need to be alone, as long as they can be independent, whether it is financially or spiritually, then no matter what changes occur in the outside world, they can quickly react and deal with it freely. Even if you are sad because of emotional frustration, when you are not in good spirits, you will not be forced to a dead end by others or yourself.

I don't really mean anything else. ”

She emphasized it again and again, but Yan Shengguo's face was still ugly.

"You are a girl's family, why do you want to make money to support yourself? Although our family is poor, we will never be so poor as to make your brothers and sisters hungry, not to mention that if you marry into the Dingguo Mansion, you don't have to think about the problem of money.

Especially the idea of leaving behind the family and running out to see the world by yourself is particularly bad!

Only homeless people, only people who have a deep hatred for the destruction of their country and family have to be displaced, and only people who are inhumane and will be threatened if they continue to stay at home, will leave anytime and anywhere if they think about being wronged.

I don't think you're such a squeamish and irresponsible girl, but what I said just now really opened my eyes. ”

When he had finished speaking, he poured water violently, as if he was afraid that if he continued to say something terrible.

"Dad, I really don't mean to run away from home without saying a word. I mean, I think that whether it is a man or a woman, if you want to make something happen when you grow up, or just to make life more comfortable, it is best to have your own ideas, not only dare to think, but also dare to do, and be able to solve problems independently.

You can rely on your parents, siblings, husband, and children at the right time, but never think about leaving all your problems to your loved ones. I think that's very irresponsible.

You think, in this life, when we were born in the world, we have no choice, when we are alive, we also have a lot of time to be able to savor the ups and downs of life alone, even if there are people around to share, but the part that should be borne by oneself is still the right thing to do.

Otherwise, if you encounter any problem, you will push others to others, and you will just eat, drink, and sleep, so what's the difference between it and a pig?"

Yan Shengguo was so angry that he almost threw off the teacup when he heard this.

"In your eyes, all the ladies in the world are sows who have nothing to do, they only eat fragrant and drink spicy food, and when they grow up, they keep giving birth to cubs, and then they just live a life that is not interesting in your opinion?"

Yan Shunhua shrugged his shoulders and did not intend to hide it.

"The word 'all' is not necessarily too harsh, I haven't really seen many of the ladies, so a lot of things are pure speculation, so it's not appropriate to say 'most', but one thing is clear, there must be a lot of ladies who grew up like sows and lived their lives in a mess!

Do you think, if it weren't for the boring life of those women in charge of the backhouse, how could there be so many intrigues in the backyard? If it were ordinary people, forced to make a living, the children in the family, regardless of gender, would definitely be busy to the death, where could there be so much leisure and sorrow?

Is it better than a woman who is so cowardly that she can only wrap herself around a tree like a silk flower, and can only rely on her mother's or husband's family to take care of her whole life, that she is the most glorious woman who works most honorably, and who can create wealth with her own hands through legal means, so that she can support herself and even her family.

It's just much, much, too much, right?!

(To be continued.) )