On the face of it, this matter is indeed a problem of Dahong. Not to mention cheating, he has to divorce his wife who has been in bed with him for seven years, and then marry a third party home.

Abandoning his wife of chaff, morally speaking, Da Hong is obviously at a disadvantage and has become the target of criticism.

It seemed that the emotions were driven by this couple, Jiang Lin took a deep breath, although she still kept smiling, her smile had become a little stiff.

According to the usual practice, Jiang Lin asked questions, and Da Hong and Xiao Min also answered them one by one.

When the two finished narrating each other's pasts, Jiang Lin immediately went straight to the point, "Female guest, do you feel that your husband has become and no longer takes care of you as much as before?"

"Yes!"

Seeing Xiao Min nodded, Jiang Lin then asked, "Can you tell me when this situation started, and why is this happening?"

Xiao Min's eyes were red, and he said, "It's been about two years, right? I think the reason why he became like this must be that there are already people outside!"

Jiang Lin pointed the finger at Da Hong again, "Is what the male guest and female guest said true?"

Da Hong snorted, "Half-truth, right?"

I admit that I was wrong. But why am I like this? Isn't she self-aware?"

Hearing this, Xiao Min immediately retorted, "Is it reasonable for you to cheat? Obviously, you can't control your lower body, and you still put the responsibility on me, is there anything like you?"

Jiang Lin said with a cold face, "Male guest, morally speaking, cheating is not right in itself, I don't know why you can say it so reasonably?"

Da Hong sighed, "I'm very busy at work, and I have a lot of pressure, and you also know that living in a big city, you have to socialize in all aspects, and you have to use money in all aspects, as long as you don't work hard for a day, I can feel a sense of crisis."

It is said that home is a man's haven from the wind, so every time I come home, I think she can be gentle, empathetic, and don't babble endlessly because of some trivial things.

I'm tired from a tiring day, and I just want to go home and enjoy the joy of being with my children. But ask her, has she ever made me feel good?"

Before Jiang Lin could ask, Xiao Min had already taken over the conversation, "Are you tired?" I also went to work for a day, and I had to take care of the children when I went home, and I had to cook and wash clothes for the children. ”

Hearing this, Da Hong immediately interrupted and said, "What class are you in? It's just to pass the time."

Do you take care of the kids? Do you do laundry and cook?

You touch your conscience and say, how many times have you done these things?

It's not my mom or dad who did it!"

was caught in the short spot, Xiao Min suddenly yelled angrily, "What about you? As soon as you get home, you lie on the sofa, cigarette after cigarette, what have you done for this family?"

I don't think I'm gentle, I love to chatter, think about it, since you started your business, how have you ever been as gentle to me as before?

You don't care about me, and you don't allow me to complain?"

"You can send it......"

It seems that Da Hong is also overly angry, and his speech has become a little unspoken, "You send yours, I'll look for mine, you just have to ask." You don't care about me and comfort me, and you don't allow others to care about and comfort me?"

Xiao Min stomped his foot angrily, "What are you talking about?"

As a woman, having the same experience, Jiang Lin seems to resonate with Xiao Min. After inadvertently glancing at Da Hong, Jiang Lin promoted the part of the show, "As the so-called family has a scripture that is difficult to read, how to persuade this couple now depends on our emotional consultant." Okay, let's move on to our emotional puzzle session!"

Lin Jiajia picked up the microphone, "First of all, the male guest's cheating in marriage is indeed wrong, and we have to condemn and warn."

But I can also see from your conversations that it seems that you husband and wife have not had that kind of face-to-face communication for a long time.

I suppose that when you go home, the only communication you have with each other will be exactly the same as just now, right?"

Da Hong and Xiao Min both nodded, although reluctantly, they still admitted Lin Jiajia's words.

Lin Jiajia sighed, "Your problem is actually not complicated, it is a lack of mutual respect, good communication, and care for your lover.

Take the male guests as an example, I admit that working hard in a big city is really tiring and stressful, but that's not an excuse for you to take on the responsibilities of a husband and father.

I have met many people who are more capable and richer than you, and most of them are not only able to navigate the career but are still good hands in the family.

People also do housework, and they also accompany their wives and children, and I don't see a few people who cheat because they complain that their wives are not considerate enough.

You have to understand that no matter what, she also goes to work for a day, and when she comes home to take care of two children, not only is she physically tired, but even the time is tense, and it is difficult to find time to care about your emotions.

In this matter, not only do you not understand, but you also violate the scale of marriage, which is your inadequacy.

That's why I say, don't make excuses for your mistakes.

Let's talk about female guests......"

Lin Jiajia changed her words, "I'm not asking you to be a housewife completely, it's right for women to be financially independent, but it also depends on when."

First of all, your child is still young, and it is the time when you need the company of your parents. But what about you, you left them to your parents-in-law.

Do you really have that much ambition or are you in desperate need of the job?

I don't think so, your husband's annual income of millions is enough for your family.

So why do you want to do this?

Because you are also evading your parental responsibilities.

You may seem like you're not young, but you're not as capable of bearing it as a child in your twenties.

So my advice is that if you still want to live together, the first thing you need to do is to communicate well and be willing to take responsibility for yourself.

The responsibilities of the husband, the responsibilities of the wife, the responsibilities of the parents, and the responsibilities of the sons and daughters-in-law. If you can't afford it, I'm not optimistic about your marriage.

That's all I have to say, thank you!"

Ye Zhenguo picked up the microphone, groaned, and said, "First of all, I want to ask, male guest, from the bottom of my heart, do you still love your wife? If you don't love it, please say it generously!"

was blamed by Lin Jiajia, and Dahong obviously realized his own problems.

Hearing Ye Zhenguo's question at this time, Da Hong nodded, "I should still love it, in fact, I don't want to be like this, since that incident, every time I come back home and see her, I will feel a guilt in my heart." If she had been a little more gentle and considerate to me, I don't think we would have been standing here!"

"What about the female guest, do you still love this man?" Da Hong gave the answer, and Ye Zhenguo threw the question to Xiao Min again.

Xiao Min took a deep breath, "I don't know, from the bottom of my heart, I can't forgive, but for the sake of the child, I still want to live with him." I don't want my child to grow up in an incomplete family, which will be detrimental to the child's physical and mental growth!"

Ye Zhenguo shook his head, "I don't think so, you keep saying that you love each other, but your behavior has never been able to explain your love at all."

Regardless of whether you are a male or female guest, you only care about yourself, and you can't understand the feelings of your lover at all. To put it bluntly, your love is too selfish, you just want to take it from each other, and you are not willing to pay for each other, and this kind of love will not last long.

In the future, whether you want to live together or not, if you are still so selfish, I am not optimistic about your marriage.

That's all I have to say, thank you!"

The applause was thunderous, and it was obvious that Ye Zhenguo's words were on the key point.