Chapter 32: An Unexpected Ending
It was Huo An's turn, looking back and forth at the male and female guests, and a wry smile appeared on Huo An's face.
He has already turned on the emotion index telemetry, Dahong is 55%, Xiaomin is also 50%, and the two of them can be said to have no love. The reason why I insisted on not getting a divorce for so long is probably for the sake of the children.
Just let the child live in an environment where the father cheats and the mother quarrels every day, is this really good for the child?
Sighing, Huo An picked up the microphone, "Teacher Zhenguo has a sentence that I very much recognize, that is, your love is too selfish.
The male guests dislike the female guests for not being gentle enough, but have you thought about it, have you ever been gentle with her in recent years?
The female guest dislikes the male guest and can't give her too much care, but have you thought about it, have you ever given him care?
Of course, I'm sure that's not the case when you're in love.
I also dare to conclude that when you are in love, the male guests must be invited by the female guests to come and go, and hold the female guests in their hands like princesses. ”
Da Hong nodded, and said with some embarrassment, "Isn't it like this when you fall in love?"
The corners of Huo An's lips rose, "You're right, and you're not right.
For our loved ones, we should give care and tolerance.
But when it comes to giving these things, remember that there are boundaries.
If you continue to give without restrictions, once one day you can't give anymore because you are busy with your career or other things, she will not be able to stand it, feel that you have changed, feel that you don't love her enough, and there is no good communication between you, and there will be daily quarrels.
This is a typical princess disease, and of course, it is also what you are used to.
But what I didn't expect was that at the age of female guests, there would be such a naïve way of thinking?
So in such a vicious circle, she feels that you have changed, and you also think she is annoying, so you feel that your cheating is logical.
But I want to say that there is no logical way to cheat. Neither the responsibilities of a father nor the responsibilities of a husband allow you to have such a logical reason.
Of course, in the final analysis, it's because you're no longer in love.
Let's talk about the female guest ......"
Huo An looked at Xiao Min and said, "It's really wrong for him to cheat in marriage, but have you ever reflected that such a result was caused by you." ”
Looking at Xiao Min's puzzled eyes, Huo An continued, "You must know that love and marriage are two completely different forms. But no matter what form it takes, we must know how to feel sorry for each other and be considerate of each other. Only in this virtuous circle can love and marriage be long and strong.
You just say, since you know it now, have you ever done anything distressed and considerate of your husband?
I don't think so, or I wouldn't be on the stage.
You blindly ask for it until he gets annoyed and scared, and looks for the care of others from the outside world. You woke up at this time, isn't it a little too late?
If you want me to say, your love is not only selfish, but also superficial.
So my advice is, while you're not too old for each other, let's find out what you really need.
Don't talk about your children anymore, do you think living in that environment will help your children's physical and mental growth?
I think that's the biggest hurt!
That's all I have to say, thank you!"
Bang Bang Bang Bang ......
The audience at the scene gave Huo An applause, and Jiang Lin on the stage seemed to have been analyzing and reminiscing Huo An's words, and she was a little distracted at this time. But when the applause rang out, she was awakened.
Glancing at the male and female guests, Jiang Lin said, "Several emotional consultants have already given you advice, how do you decide, you can say the answer now!"
Jiang Lin's voice fell, Da Hong looked at Xiao Min, thought for a moment, and said, "I'm sorry, I can't keep my promise, I can't be the kind of consistent man, and I can't give you unlimited care and gentleness, so let's divorce!"
Xiao Min was already crying bitterly, and Huo An's words pierced her heart like a sharp knife.
Just now, she recalled the past when she was with Da Hong, and indeed as Huo An said, she had never given Da Hong the gentleness and comfort that a wife should have.
It wasn't until she was woken up by Huo An that she felt how failed she was as a wife.
Taking a deep breath, Xiao Min tried her best to control her emotions, "I originally thought I loved you very much, but through the dismantling of several emotional teachers, I realized that what I loved was only your thoughtfulness and care." Maybe it's because I enjoy the feeling of being held in the palm of your hand too much, and I haven't put my attitude and responsibilities as a wife right after I got married.
For so many years, nothing has been given to you. I'm sorry, I didn't do it right. You file for divorce now, and I'll fulfill your request!"
When Xiao Min finished speaking, a systematic prompt suddenly sounded in Huo An's mind.
"Ding.
If the host successfully completes the task, 300 points will be deposited into the host's points account in five seconds, please check!"
Alas......
At this time, Huo An did not have a trace of happiness, but frowned, and picked up the microphone again, "Maybe you used to love each other very much, but unfortunately now there are only two children who can support you to be together."
However, for the sake of the child's healthy growth, it is not necessarily a bad thing for you to be separated.
Of course, if you are both reluctant to have children and still want to live together, then you must let go of everything you have now and try to find the love you have lost.
Maybe you can also try to treat each other as strangers, and re-talk about a normal relationship that each other is willing to give, but does not ask for anything in return, instead of a deformed love that only pays unilaterally like before.
Do you understand what I'm saying?"
Da Hong and Xiao Min both nodded, and then they looked at each other deeply, as if they were also thinking about Huo An's words in their hearts.
Jiang Lin sighed, "If there is anything left unsaid, then hurry up and tell the other party the last words." Okay, let's get into the sixty-second part of our confession now!"
The lights at the recording site dimmed, and two pillars of light shrouded Da Hong and Xiao Min, and the remorseful looks on their faces and this bleak scene made everyone present feel sorry and helpless.
Looking at Xiao Min, who looked depressed in the pillar of light and was still blaming himself, Da Hong stopped talking for more than ten seconds, and suddenly released a different kind of divine light from a pair of eyes.
He took a breath and said slowly, "Xiaomin, do you remember the oath we once made at the ends of the earth?
It's a pity that none of us made it!
Maybe it's my fault, or maybe it's your fault, or maybe it's your fault with me. Anyway, I'm sorry, I still hurt you.
But......
If you let go of everything you used to have, and never talk about my bastards again in this life, would you be willing to have a real relationship with me again?
This time, I'll do the same to you as I did before!"
"I ......"
Xiao Min's tears burst out of her eyes instantly, and she covered her mouth with her excited hands, unable to speak.
Seeing this, Huo An Zhengse said, "Female guest, male guest has a saying that is right, if you are willing, then in this life, never uncover his scars." I think you should understand what I say, so now, please give me your answer!"
Xiao Min still didn't speak, but nodded vigorously!
Unexpectedly, there could be such a result, Jiang Lin smiled after being stunned, "I don't think anyone would have guessed such an ending, recognize your own shortcomings, and then use your perfect self to find that lost love."
Teacher Huo An's mouth is simply a knife, or a bowl of mellow chicken soup for the soul, which not only cuts off the mustard in your hearts, but also repairs your broken love.
Either way, bless you!"
Jiang Lin's voice fell, and Da Hong rushed over violently, hugging Xiao Min tightly in his arms!
"Ding.
If the host successfully completes the task, 300 points will be deposited into the host's points account in five seconds, please check!"
The corners of Huo An's mouth twitched, "Is this okay?"