Chapter 466: This Is My Good Husband
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It stands to reason that Ou Zhigang used to be a hotel owner in the hotel, and he was also considered a senior management, and the chairman transferred him to the design department as a minister, even if he didn't understand design, but the management ability should always be there. Now, Ou Zhigang's so-called management, the intervention in the affairs of the design department, seems to be decided by a pat on the head, let alone systematic and efficient management.
The chairman transferred Ou Zhigang to an important department like the Planning and Design Department as a minister, if he is really confused, he will not be so confused that he doesn't even know how many catties Ou Zhigang has, right?
Ou Zhigang's choice of Bai Xiaofang as the leader of the indoor group this time is very surprising, I don't know what considerations he based on to make this decision.
Tao Yunfeng, who was originally very popular, was very embarrassed.
After thinking about it, Huo Jinliang said to Tao Yunfeng again: "Wife, the new leader of the indoor group, the personnel department has not yet approved, if you really want to be the team leader, we can fight for it." ”
Even if he is only in charge of design work, within the department, the selection of the team leader will take into account his opinions, rather than Ou Zhigang.
If Tao Yunfeng is to be promoted to the position of team leader, he is completely sure.
"Forget it!" Tao Yunfeng shook his head repeatedly.
"That's it, give up?" Huo Jinliang was a little surprised.
According to Tao Yunfeng's personality, he will not give up so easily, and he will fight for whatever he says.
"It's not that I can't be it, it's that I suddenly don't want to be it. Tao Yunfeng also felt that she could fight for it, but this time, it was not that she couldn't fight for it, but that she took the initiative to give up.
Looking at Huo Jinliang's puzzled expression, she explained: "Before getting off work, the president came to his office and asked me to fill the position of team leader, and asked me if I had confidence, I refused, and suddenly I didn't want to be the team leader. Because, compared to being a team leader, I have a better choice for promotion and salary increase. ”
"What better choice?" Huo Jinliang was surprised again.
Zhuo Tingyu actually took the initiative to find her and asked her to be the team leader, but she actually refused!
She suddenly didn't want to be the team leader, did she really have a better choice, or did she have something to do with Zhuo Tingyu?
Tao Yunfeng tilted her head, leaned on Huo Jinliang's shoulder, and told him her choice: "I have decided, next, in addition to doing a good job of the project, we must free up more time to prepare for our wedding." If we are fast, we will have a child next year, which will make everyone happy, and grandpa, father, and mother will not urge us to have children again. After I have a baby, I can put more energy into my work, and then I can go for a promotion and a raise!"
"Tao Yunfeng, do you really think so?" Huo Jinliang was still a little skeptical, and asked again uncertainly, "Have you made a decision and made up your mind?"
"It's decided. Tao Yunfeng nodded.
She was willing to give up the opportunity to be promoted and give birth to him first, which made Huo Jinliang very moved.
But he didn't want her to regret it, and he might regret it later when he thought about it.
He was very serious and asked again: "Wife, you have to think about it carefully, when we have a child, you may put more energy into the child, slowly relax at work, and then give you the opportunity to be promoted and raised, you are not willing to do it, just like Zhao Jing now." In the future, will you regret missing out on a great opportunity?"
If you miss this opportunity to be promoted, and you don't have a chance in the rest of your life, then of course you will inevitably have regrets.
But there are more opportunities than this time, and there are not only opportunities in YAD company, so Tao Yunfeng doesn't think that she will feel regretful in the future, and she regrets not being at the beginning when she thinks about it.
Tao Yunfeng simply fell down, lay sideways in Huo Jinliang's arms, raised his hand to touch his face, and laughed: "Husband, if I don't work in the future, take care of the children at home, be a rice worm, and you don't dislike me, I have nothing to regret." ”
Huo Jinliang grabbed her hand, put it to his lips, and kissed her palm: "As long as you want, I don't dislike it." ”
That being said, he didn't think Tao Yunfeng would be willing to sacrifice his career and take care of his children at home as rice worms.
They have discussed this issue many times, and the first time, Tao Yunfeng was resolute.
At that time, her point of view was very clear: "Women do not create value for themselves, just create value for the family, it is not cost-effective! Do you think, a woman at home husband and children, although she has paid labor, time spent, and created value, but the value she created has been exploited by the family, and it is taken for granted that women should pay for the family in this way, which is the duty of women!" Women sacrifice their careers, sacrifice their own life pursuits, teach their husbands and children at home, and dedicate themselves to the family, but as a result, they will be treated as rice worms, and they will be disliked if they become yellow-faced women. ”
That's when he said: "Wife, don't worry, you have become a rice worm and a yellow-faced woman, and I will not dislike you." ”
His words were thought by her to be sugar-coated cannonballs: "Cut! This kind of sugar-coated cannonball of your men, I don't know how many women have been deceived and poisoned! How many beautiful women, because of men's sweet words, are willing to be rice worms, and they have made themselves yellow-faced women, but men dislike them, don't be too ruthless, don't be too ruthless!"
There are also brainwashing packages that have been passed down from generation to generation: "You men dominate the society and the family, and when you get cheap, you sell well, use the brainwashing bags passed down from generation to generation to brainwash women, and instill the idea that women should dedicate themselves to the family, while asking women to sacrifice themselves to dedicate themselves to the family, do housework at home, serve their husbands, take care of the elderly, give birth to children, and take care of children, on the other hand, because they make money to support the family, they treat themselves as uncles, treat women as appendages or maids, and dislike women who only spend money and do not make money......"
Huo Jinliang still remembers that Tao Yunfeng made a clear statement: "I can work, I am a designer, pursue my own career, fight for my life, and create more value for the society, why should I be a nanny at home and waste social talent resources." ”
Now, although Tao Yunfeng is willing to temporarily give up the promotion opportunity at work considering having children, she will definitely be unwilling to give up her job completely and teach her husband and children at home, and will think that this is a "waste of social human resources".
Moreover, Huo Jinliang does not need her to give up her work and teach her husband and children at home.
Choosing Tao Yunfeng, marrying her, and forming a family, he is not marrying a woman to come back as a nanny to do housework, give birth to children, and let her teach her husband and children at home, he is choosing a life partner, a teammate who walks on the road of life together, relying on each other, but independent.
"Hehe!" Tao Yunfeng pulled his hand out of his palm and poked at his chest: "Let me take care of the children at home and serve you as an uncle, you think beautifully!"
"I don't want to. Huo Jinliang decisively stated, "I support my wife to focus on work now, and after giving birth to a child, she will return to work, strive for a promotion and salary increase, and create a new career high!"
Hearing him say this, Tao Yunfeng was happy, got up and kissed him on the cheek, and laughed again: "Hehe, this is my good husband!"
On Saturday, everyone was closed, and Tao Yunfeng and Huo Jinliang took the elders on both sides to their new home, had dinner together, and discussed how to arrange their wedding.
Tao Yunfeng wants to have both Western and Chinese weddings over and over again, so that it is enjoyable. Western-style wedding ceremonies can be held outdoors during the day and Chinese-style ceremonies can be held indoors at night.
As long as she likes it, everyone has no opinion, the only question is money, whether to burn money and do it big, or save money to do it simply. Old Man Huo and Jiang Yiqian support the lively and noisy event, after all, Huo Jinliang and Tao Yunfeng have been married once in their lives, and it doesn't matter if they spend more money. And Qiao Xinman thinks it's better to be simpler, they are not rich people, don't be too extravagant and wasteful, and use the money saved to live their lives.
Huo Jinliang said that the budget for the wedding must be within the range they can afford, as for how to arrange the wedding and how much it will cost, this still needs to be planned in advance before it can be estimated.
Now the question is, who are going to invite to their wedding?
Colleagues in their office, definitely want to please.
As for relatives and friends at home, they are a little entangled.
Old man Huo is a lot old, if the wedding is simple, he has no friends to invite, if it is a big event, there are a few old friends to invite.
Jiang Yiqian has no relatives, but he has a few friends. He is an only son, his parents are double workers in the same company, and his family was okay when he was a child, and he lived a small and happy life. When he was a teenager, his parents were killed in a fire in a production accident. After he finished reading the transfer, he came out to work. Later, he came to the printing house and became an apprentice led by Mr. Huo. Old Man Huo saw that he worked diligently, had a good character, treated him well, and often took him home for dinner, so he liked Huo Yutong. After marrying Huo Yutong, Old Man Huo became a son-in-law with him, and he was like a father and son.
Qiao Xinman's hometown is in the countryside of another province and has two older brothers, and after her parents passed away, she basically didn't go back to her parents' home.
Her eldest brother has a daughter and a son, and the second brother has only one son. In the early years, the family was not very good, so-so and passable, Tao Jianlei died unexpectedly, after Qiao Xinman sold the house, the two brothers intermittently borrowed a total of more than 100,000 yuan from her, and they didn't say that they wanted to pay it back, and then Qiao Xinman said that the money didn't have to be repaid, so she gave her brothers to help her honor her parents. After the children of the eldest brother and the second brother grow up, they are quite promising, plus the demolition subsidy, they are now doing well, and the eldest brother and the second brother's family have built beautiful buildings and bought cars.
The living conditions of the eldest brother and the second brother's family are better, but it seems that Qiao Xinman is poor and sour. The things she brought back to her parents' house were all disgusted by her nephews and nieces, and they said behind her back that she had become a city person, and she was as stingy as a city person. When her parents were gone, Qiao Xinman didn't bother to go back, and she didn't contact her much, but she just had a simple phone call with her eldest brother and second brother during the New Year's holidays.