readx;? There is a saying: A daughter is extroverted, and she dies and is buried. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

Qiao Xinman slowly realized that there was some truth in this.

When she was a child, her parents and brothers doted on her a lot, so that when she first got married, she couldn't turn a corner, and she felt that her mother's home was her own home, and when she went home, she pointed fingers at her mother's affairs, and because of this, she had a lot of conflicts with her parents and brothers. She feels that she is still a member of her mother's family, but the people of her mother's family no longer regard her as their own family, and think that the daughter who marries out is already a member of someone else's family, and should no longer interfere in her mother's family affairs.

At that time, she and Tao Jianlei worked hard in F City, and she had no concept of her in-laws' family, and she was very restrained when she went to her mother-in-law's house, and she didn't feel that she was a member of her mother-in-law's family.

After giving birth to Tao Yunfeng, she appeared, whether it was her mother's family or her mother-in-law's family, it was not her own home, and the small family formed by herself and her husband was her own home. Slowly, she became more and more estranged from her mother's family, she didn't care about her mother's affairs, and when she wanted to contribute money and efforts, she could do her best.

Even so, she is still a little psychologically dependent on her mother's family. After she sold the house she bought with Tao Jianlei, she gave her in-laws 200,000 yuan to her parents-in-law for the elderly, and then took her daughter to marry Pei Hongqiu, and broke off contact with Tao Jianlei's hometown. During that time, the eldest brother and the second brother had an urgent matter and needed money urgently, so they asked her parents to ask her for money, but she still didn't say a word, and gave her money if she had it.

Later, when her hometown was demolished, she thought that she was also the child of her parents, and she had a share of the demolition compensation, so she went home to fight for it, but she was very disappointed and even chilled. Her parents and brothers all agreed that she had married out, and it was just the water that was spilled, not her own family, and her mother's money and belongings did not have her share. She wants to make a fuss, maybe she can get some money, at least let her brothers return the hundreds of thousands of dollars they borrowed from her, but she doesn't want to make trouble, and if she doesn't take the money, she won't starve to death. She just felt too cold, her parents and brothers made her feel cold, as if everyone spoiled her when she was a child, but it was just an illusion when she was a child.

In the countryside, the ideas of her parents and brothers, similar to those of her parents, are the vast majority. When a daughter marries out, she is a spilled water, she is a member of someone else's family, and she is no longer her own family. When you have no money, ask your daughter for it, if you don't give it, you are unfilial, and when you have money, you don't have a daughter's share, everything belongs to your son.

After Qiao Xinman was cold, she had to accept it, just splash the water that was spilled, she couldn't go back to her childhood home, and she didn't want to go back to that place. She has only one home, which is her own home with her husband.

On the second day of the Chinese New Year this year, her eldest brother called, saying that the second daughter and son-in-law went back to their parents' house, only to remember that they had not been in touch with her for a long time, and almost forgot, and there was a younger sister outside, saying that she had not been back for a long time, when would she take the time to go home to see. She answered a few words, saying that she would go back when she was free, but she had no intention of going back at all.

Now that her daughter is going to have a wedding, whether to invite someone from her hometown to attend, Qiao Xinman is really entangled in her heart.

Her mother's side doesn't treat her as her own family, and she doesn't want to continue to walk around with her mother's side.

Tao Yunfeng's impression of her grandmother's house is that during the Chinese New Year, everyone eats and drinks together, her uncle and aunt give her red envelopes, and set off firecrackers with her cousins and cousins.

Later, her father passed away unexpectedly, her mother remarried, she screwed her head for several years, quarreled and fought with Pei Yiming, had an awkward fight with Pei Hongqiu, and also had an awkward relationship with her mother, and never went to her grandmother's house with her mother again. Gradually, her impression of her grandmother's house, her uncles and aunts, and her cousins became more and more blurred, and now she can't tell who they are, and what their names are.

Later, except for the death of her parents, her mother did not return to her parents' house, and she did not talk much about the people and things of her mother's family, and she was even more indifferent to the relatives of her mother's mother's family. If someone hadn't mentioned it, she wouldn't have remembered that she still had relatives like uncles, cousins, and cousins.

For her wedding, whether to invite her uncle and them over, she listened to her mother's decision.

Pei Hongqiu's side, there are no relatives who move around each other.

His parents came to work in F from another province and city, settled in F city, and had no relatives in F city.

He used to have a younger brother, who left the society at the age of sixteen or seventeen, and was in good order for the first two years of work, but later said that he would go to business with the boss, and he had not heard from him for several years. His parents thought of his brother, and they were worried about their own speculations. Finally, one day, his brother came back, but he didn't look like a man or a woman, his parents didn't recognize him, and he brought a man back. His younger brother choked his parents so much that he quarreled for a few days and went out again. More than a year later, when there was another news from his brother, they were told to identify the body. His younger brother committed suicide by taking sleeping pills in a rented house, and he got sick and didn't want to live. After the death of his younger brother, his parents stopped mentioning this son, as if they had never given birth to this son. Within a few years, both of his parents died.

Now everyone is discussing, which relatives and friends should be invited to Tao Yunfeng and Huo Jinliang's wedding, Pei Hongqiu has not spoken much. At most, he invited a few old colleagues.

Let's discuss, whether the wedding is a simple version or a lively one, who you want to invite must be listed first, so that you can make an invitation and make a wedding plan.

Tao Yunfeng and Huo Jinliang want to customize a set of Western-style dresses, Tao Yunfeng's wedding dress and Huo Jinliang's suit, and also customize a set of Chinese-style dresses, and then give everyone a set of tailor-made Western-style dresses and a set of Chinese-style dresses. In addition, the bridesmaids and groomsmen have to prepare dresses.

Huo Jinliang didn't have many ideas himself, only the ideas put forward by Tao Yunfeng, and he supported them.

Everyone discussed the wedding and had a nice weekend together.

On Monday, everyone paid attention to the bulletin board, but the personnel department did not issue any notice.

Tuesday was calm and it was another day.

On Wednesday afternoon, a notice of the new leader of the indoor group was posted on the bulletin board.

Everyone stood in front of the bulletin board, all of them looking confused: this new team leader came too suddenly!

Their new team leader is not Bai Xiaofang, nor Tao Yunfeng, but Fang Rui.

The day before yesterday, Fang Rui was approached by Secretary Hu and asked him if he had the confidence to do a good job if he became the team leader. Fang Rui was surprised, and kept saying that Tao Yunfeng was the best candidate, so why didn't he consider Tao Yunfeng? Hu Ke revealed that Tao Yunfeng had made it clear that she was not the team leader, so she considered other candidates. In this case, Fang Rui nodded and said that he was willing to accept new work challenges.

Although they didn't know what tricks they were going to play above, everyone felt that it was more acceptable to let Fang Rui be their new team leader than to let Bai Xiaofang do it. As for Tao Yunfeng, I can only express regret.

"Fang Rui, congratulations!" Tao Yunfeng patted Fang Rui on the shoulder with one hand, happy words.

In the end, the person who became the leader of the group was Fang Rui, and Tao Yunfeng was really happy for him.

"Thank you. Tao Yun Feng ......"

Fang Rui turned around and wanted to ask Tao Yunfeng why he didn't want to be the team leader, but he wanted other colleagues around him, and his words came to his lips and took them back.

Tao Yunfeng coaxed again: "Our new official has taken office, shouldn't we invite everyone to have a good time?"

"I can't run, I have to!" a colleague next to him immediately chimed in.

This meal is inevitable, Fang Rui also readily agreed: "No problem! I didn't prepare today, tomorrow, I'll set the position first, and everyone will rub it together." ”

Tao Yunfeng took the opportunity to advertise again: "Where do you still need to go to set the location, just the store where we often eat fish, it is delicious and affordable, and there are many discounts." ”

As soon as she said this, many people agreed.

There are also people who disagree, saying that they have been to that store too many times and are a little tired of eating.

The focus of everyone's discussion quickly focused on the question of "where to go and what to eat", and few people paid attention to what Bai Xiaofang, who was defeated, was in now.

Bai Xiaofang ran to the minister's office angrily, wanting to ask Ou Zhigang, who said that she would be the team leader, why did she notify her, but it was not her!

However, before she entered the minister's office, she was told by Secretary Hu outside that Minister Ou was not in the company this afternoon.

What is the "insider" transaction between Bai Xiaofang and Ou Zhigang, which has been speculated by colleagues in the past few days, everyone guesses and guesses, and they all think that it is more likely, whether it is a skin and meat transaction or a door-to-door transaction.

I think that at the beginning, when Su Momo was unusually promoted to team leader, there were many similar speculations, but Su Momo was better than Bai Xiaofang at work, and slowly everyone was skeptical of her various gossip speculations.

After the notice of the personnel department was posted for a while, Hu Ke went to the office of the indoor group and briefly explained to everyone why the person who was promoted to team leader was Fang Rui: "This time the team leader candidate is considered according to the comprehensive performance of colleagues in the company. Fang Ruijin has been in the company for several years, and he is a veteran employee of our indoor group, and his outstanding performance in the work is obvious to all. Fang Rui has participated in and been responsible for many large projects, and has rich practical experience in project management......"

Fang Rui's work performance in YAD company for so many years is not particularly outstanding, it is decent, although it is not as good as Tao Yunfeng, but he was elected as the team leader, and everyone is still barely acceptable.

After saying something affirmative to Fang Rui, Hu Ke "appeased" Bai Xiaofang by the way: "As for Bai Xiaofang, if you don't choose this time, don't be discouraged, there will be a chance in the future." ”

Bai Xiaofang said no in her seat, her face was not very good-looking.

Soon, someone asked the same question that Fang Rui had asked: "I think Tao Yunfeng is the most suitable, why don't you consider her?"

Hu Ke did not answer this question directly, but threw the question to Tao Yunfeng: "Tao Yunfeng, this question should be answered by yourself." ”

Calling her name, Tao Yunfeng stood up and explained to everyone: "First, thank you colleagues for your trust and support to me, I am sorry for living up to everyone's trust and support." Then, I briefly explained: I didn't try my best to fight for the opportunity to be promoted to team leader, and I gave up on my own initiative. The reason is simple, considering that I will get married at the end of the year and plan to have children next year, if I become the team leader, my future work will be affected by personal and family affairs, I thought about it and simply gave up the opportunity to a more suitable person. ”

Her explanation surprised everyone: "You got married at the end of the year?

Everyone was surprised that Tao Yun broke the news that she was going to get married, and Zhao Jing was even more surprised that she gave up this opportunity for promotion because she wanted to have a child.

As soon as Tao Yunfeng sat down, he received a message from Zhao Jing from the computer: "Yunfeng, are you really, taking the initiative to give up this opportunity?"