Yan Shunhua felt that he was kind-hearted, but the bright moon shone on the ditch and was not understood at all.

"Mother, you are really too cautious, obviously after a fight with my father, the whole person is much more refreshed, and you are more righteous than before, why do you live more and more atmospheric, but ask your daughter to go against you, the more you live, the more careful?

Even if I become a mother, no matter how old I am, I am always Shen Jingyuan's wife, should he tolerate me and let me spoil me and protect me?"

Yan Zhang didn't expect that what he said really didn't go to his daughter's heart at all, and he couldn't help but be angry.

"Are you comparable to my situation? Not at all.

If you marry someone from our village, or even someone from the town, or someone from the city, your father can find someone to help you if he comes forward or shows his face. But is the Dingguo Mansion an ordinary family?

At the beginning, your father has always disagreed, but your child is very stubborn, and his face is not red and his heart is not beating and tells me that you think your son-in-law is good, and you don't marry or something, your mother is so grinded by you that you can't do anything, and you are soft-hearted for a while, and you will go directly to toss your father, if it is not for your mother's uncertainty, your father will not agree anyway, isn't it completely dizzy by our mother and son, so I will nod and agree that you have come all the way to marry in the capital?

Married is married, and the son-in-law is not bad, but people are alive, and many things are not able to make their own decisions, and they have more than enough heart and insufficient strength, not only to refer to the lack of human ability, but also to say that the external environment that cannot be changed by manpower is insufficient.

The marriage between the two surnames has always been a good marriage between Qin and Jin, and it is a matter between the two families. You two have a good relationship with you and me, but even now that you have given birth to four men for the Shen family, in the eyes of the Shen clan, you are not worthy of your son-in-law, but they are just looking at the children's sake, and the son-in-law also values you very much, and they just choose to turn a blind eye to your unsatisfactory match.

The Shen family will tolerate you, but in the eyes of outsiders, there are all kinds of ugly words. They are not members of the Shen clan who need to rely on their son-in-law to live. In the eyes of the world, you will always be unworthy of your son-in-law. In the future, no matter how good your child is, you will still be the woman who has climbed the high branches in the eyes of others.

It's just that I happened to be a little lucky, and my surname is Yan, and I just happened to have the same word, so I was lucky to be that substitute.

If you live cautiously, others will not be able to hold your mistakes on the surface, and if there are any ugly words, they will not dare to say you to your face because of the power of your son-in-law, but if you act openly, sooner or later you will show flaws that you should not have because of negligence, so that others who are jealous of your good luck will be targeted by those who want to attack your son-in-law but have no way to lurk in the dark, and they are bound to bite a hole in your body. What should you do then?

Even if your son-in-law can protect you, you will definitely be annoyed and in a bad mood because of your carelessness. As a housewife, you are in a bad mood, and the people who work under you will definitely be affected badly, and the children who are sensitive by nature will definitely be panicked, and the entire Dingguo Mansion is like being shrouded in a dark cloud, and the aura is broken, which is equivalent to restlessness in the rear. If he is hurt, what will you do with yourself?

The son-in-law is the Optimus Prime of the Dingguo Mansion, he is injured, it is equivalent to the momentum of the entire Shen family weakening, at that time, the offensive momentum of the Shen family will inevitably weaken, and the defensive momentum will inevitably weaken, if the enemies outside are united, surging towards you in all directions, and want to put you to death completely, what should you do?"

Yan Shunhua blinked, a little doubtful that she was hallucinating.

She never thought that one day, the woman Yan Zhang would suddenly talk about one set of great truths after another. Although this is not a difficult truth to understand, it is really difficult for her, a country woman who only revolves around her husband, children and family affairs all day long, to suddenly talk about the big truth.

Of course, Yan Zhang also has a certain amount of knowledge, but even if he doesn't get along with her much, in just a few years, Yan Shunhua has already figured out most of her temperament and habits.

Her mother, if it weren't for her husband Yan Yucheng, would not be able to take the initiative to learn. For her, reading is more like homework that she has to do in order to understand her husband and son, and even if she wants to do it well, she doesn't read often.

On the other hand, the more demure and taïve Yan Liu is the daughter of a talented showman, even if she revolves around her husband, children and pots all day long, but in time she often reads books in the embarrassing years when she needs to rely on female celebrities to help make ends meet.

It's not that I pick up books to get close to my husband and get to know my children, Yan Liushi really likes to read, so she always consciously picks up books, and she will ask her husband and children questions if she doesn't understand, and she never feels embarrassed, and she never feels that as a woman, reading books is so inappropriate.

Although they have been together for a long time, because of their temperament and family background, Yan Liushi rarely gives the children some long speeches, even if they want to teach the children, they are all short and plain truths, similar to the old man's words, secular but concise.

In comparison, Yan Shunhua believes that Yan Liu's will say this, and Yan Zhang's will always worry and talk about trivial daily life, but it is obvious that the poor parents in the world, no matter which mother they are, their love for her is the same, without adding a point or subtracting a point, there is no way to compare more and less.

She always thought in her heart that she was more willing to call Yan Shengguo and his wife father and mother, and regarded Yan Yucheng and his wife as her father and mother, but she actually thought badly.

"Mother, I know. You are all for my good, but seriously, I just talk like this in private, really in public, my daughter and I are a very demure and dignified Duchess of Dingguo, I will never say a word outside, take an extra step, easily do not laugh with others, and naturally will not reveal any flaws in my words that should not be revealed.

I, that is, I am so flamboyant in my own family, that is, in front of my father and mother, in front of Shen Jingyuan and the children, I will be so unscrupulous.

You are all the people I love, and you are all the people who love me, no matter how unbearable I am in the eyes of the world, in your eyes, I will always be a kind and well-behaved daughter, a good wife, and a reliable mother, so I am so confident. ”