Chapter 1293: Adult
Because of this, Yan Zhang's family has more worries about her daughter's marriage that is not in the right household. Because her marriage is obviously on the right path, she is inevitably afraid that her daughter will live a happy life because of the nod and promise she made with her husband.
Yan Shunhua didn't want to fight, her mother chattered about the past, and suddenly fell into the worry about her marriage again, so she just smiled and asked, "Mother, then my father washed a lot of diapers for me, right?" I have to find Brother Pan to show off, saying that my father has spoiled me more since I was a child, even my grandfather is the same, what if he is a son?"
I'm a daughter and I'm still a son, he has to see me as a big brother in the future, hehe, my father and mother I also have to support the elderly, he wants to be a big filial son, and he has to go past me, and he can't do it without using the strength to eat milk. ”
Yan Zhang suddenly couldn't cry or laugh, "Is your focus biased? You are showing off to Brother Pan, and your father is going crazy."
Although he loves you, he is not a person who has no self-esteem at all, the father washes the child's diapers or something, even in our countryside, it is a unique thing, let alone in the capital, if it is known, it will definitely become a historical event that he will be difficult to get rid of for the rest of his life, as if it was stamped. ”
Yan Shunhua laughed, "My father has done everything, he is a gentleman, of course he dares to act and dare to act, how can he be afraid that others will laugh at him as a father who loves to wash his children's diapers?
Well, I have decided, if I have a daughter in the future, I will also let Shen Jingyuan wash his baby daughter's diapers!"
Yan Zhang suddenly felt that he was causing trouble to his son-in-law, and always felt that if his daughter really asked his son-in-law to do this in the future, would his son-in-law be stunned, like a thunderbolt from the blue?
"Don't do this, your father is happy and stupid, I want to be confined, so I will rush to wash your diapers at that time. The son-in-law is a person who does great things, and there are so many servants in the house, you don't even need to wash diapers yourself, how can you be embarrassed to let your son-in-law do this? Your father used to feed you and wipe your farts, is it possible that you also let your son-in-law do this?"
Yan Shunhua's eyes lit up, "Oh, my mother proposed a good idea, in order to make Shen Jingyuan a good father and not be emotionally alienated from the children because he is always absent, let him wash the children's diapers, wipe their butts and feed them from the beginning."
It's a pity, my sons have grown up, they no longer pee their pants, and they don't need anyone to help wipe their butts and feed them, they miss a good time, and they can basically do their own things, really, they are growing up too fast, or am I teaching them too well? ”
Yan Zhang's family was almost overwhelmed, "Isn't the son-in-law still going to teach them martial arts every morning?
In the past, when Brother Pan was young, your father always took a bath together in order to cultivate a relationship with Brother Pan. It is said that since a long time ago, the Lao Yan family has circulated such an unwritten rule, before the child is seven years old, the father must take the child to take a bath when the conditions allow, in order to enhance the relationship between father and son. ”
Yan Shunhua was surprised, "There are still such rules? Why haven't I heard my father talk about it?" This is interesting, Shen Jingyuan will definitely like it, and the children will definitely be crazy." In the future, when I give birth to a daughter, I will also take a bath with her. ”
She really completely forgot about this stubble, even in modern times, when children are young, in order to save time, parents will occasionally take a bath with their children.
If it weren't for the fact that her sons were older, she could actually join, but Shen Jingyuan wouldn't agree.
Thinking of a certain jealous guy, Yan Shunhua's face was full of smiles.
"Mother, did you take him to take a bath when Brother Pan was a child?
The corners of Yan Zhang's eyes twitched, "Men and women don't kiss, even if they are their own children, how can they take a bath together? ”
Yan Shunhua smiled, and didn't say that he planned to give birth to a son in the future, he must give it a try, and make Shen Jingyuan jealous, it must be fun.
She was secretly refreshed, and when Yan Zhang saw her expression, she knew that she definitely didn't know where to go.
"Don't have any bad ideas. No matter how young the children are, they are also men, you can't really be interested, just take them to the bath with you, and your son-in-law will be unhappy. ”
Yan Shunhua touched the bridge of his nose, he didn't expect to be seen through by Yan Zhang's at a glance, "Okay, okay, I'm just joking, even if I really want to give it a try, I will definitely find my future daughter to wash it together." Shen Jingyuan won't even drink his precious daughter's vinegar, don't worry. ”
"You still don't give up this idea, how can I rest assured?
Your father did this because the ancestors had such rules, although it can't be said to be a hard and fast rule, but it is all like this, and it has been passed down from generation to generation, and the relationship between father and son is indeed much closer than that of many families around him, so the descendants will continue to do so.
That's a man's rule, and it has nothing to do with us women. We don't have to learn.
Daughters are going to marry in the future, you learn to do it, and your son-in-law can tolerate you, but in the future, your daughter will also marry off, how can you be sure that other families will be happy to accept such a strange practice? After all, most people will not do this. For some conservative people, it's like a bolt from the blue. ”
Yan Zhang persuaded her daughter bitterly, not wanting Yan Shunhua to really learn her father's set.
Yan Shunhua nodded, and said several perfunctory hmmmmmm
"Mother, I'll teach you to swim, right? Anyway, Brother Liang also wants to learn, so stay for a few more days, if you don't worry about Brother Pan'er, let Dad go back first, anyway, Aunt Hong's family is here, and I'm not afraid that they won't be able to eat." I can teach it myself, and it's really good. ”
"Encouraging me to do some messy things behind your father's back?"
"No. I can't go into battle to teach my dad to learn together, even if I don't care, my dad doesn't want to. Even if it's a father, it doesn't matter, and my mother definitely doesn't want to. That's why I didn't count my father, and I didn't deliberately omit my father's meaning at all. ”
Yan Shunhua nodded matter-of-factly, indicating that he had absolutely no intention of instigating, but Yan Zhang's didn't believe it at all, "It's strange that my mother believes you." You kid, you're getting more and more unscrupulous, can you just mess around in your own home? It doesn't matter what the child does, you're an adult. ”
Adults are not comfortable, they are not adults, they are adults, and they can't do what they want.
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