Chapter 1360: Wife
Yan Zhang has also been exposed to more things in the past few years, and after his eyes were opened, he gradually realized that the problem may be analyzed from this angle.
When she mastered a new way of looking at things, she realized that she didn't know enough about her husband, or that she didn't care enough about it.
Yan Shunhua saw that her mother was trembling a little as she spoke, so she patted her gently with her hand and comforted, "Mother, you did a good job, really, you don't need to blame yourself, if you are another person, you may not be as good as you."
It's just because you care too much about us, so you can't always relax, always want to be perfect, but in fact, there is no one perfect, where can you achieve perfection?
What's more, in that matter, even if my father had such factors, it would have been inappropriate. Just because the family has a heavy burden on your shoulders and you feel overwhelmed, you should not go outside to find someone or a way to relax, especially if the person you are looking for is still the object of obvious damage to the harmony of the family, this is the wrong way to add to the wrong.
But no matter what, my father has learned a lesson, and you have crossed the hurdle in your heart, and the past is always over, and we don't need to mention it again. The important thing is that in the present, we should all live well, only if we love each other, the future will be good, and we will live happily all the time.
If my mother is really uncomfortable, I won't call my third sister's parents my father. Although I am very grateful to her, and even more grateful to her parents for their kindness to Shen Jingyuan, mother, you and your father are the people I must take care of. The daughter is very clear about this.
The Xilong Yan clan is not a big family in the capital now, but their whole clan works together, cultivating the cultivation, doing business, teaching and teaching, being an official and being an official, traveling and traveling, there are people outside who take the rudder, and there are also people who educate inside, and the children are full of learning energy, everyone performs their duties, and now the clan is thriving, and the people are thriving.
Our Liyang Yan clan is now in decline, if Brother Pan and Brother Liang compete, in the future, the brothers can learn from literature or martial arts, or seek achievements in other ways, our family can be regarded as truly confident, and even the whole family can be regarded as a real pillar, with the hope of taking off, and with a solid momentum.
The daughter is doing well now, although she can take care of the Yan family, but she is just taking advantage of the situation, in the eyes of others, it is our Yan family's fox and fake tiger.
If you really want the Yan family to get up, you have to train your two younger brothers to develop your life better. This is also why, in the past few years, Shen Jingyuan and I have paid special attention to Brother Pan. He is the eldest son and grandson of our family, only if he has great ability and perseverance, he will be able to bring up the Liyang Yan family in the future.
And Brother Liang has already been enlightened, and he can't be pampered in the future. If my mother can't help it, she will put him here with me, and I will let him study with Brother Ping, if he has a companion, even if he wants to be squeamish, there is no way, unless he doesn't want his uncle's face, otherwise he will definitely ask himself to do everything better than his nephews, at least not too far behind.
Mother, our family has a good starting point, although the people are not as prosperous as the Xilongyan family, but to the next generation, there will be gains, and then the next generation, your great-grandchildren will definitely be like flowers and bones all over the mountains, blooming one by one, making people dizzy.
The most important and important thing for you now is to take care of your body, adjust your mood well, and be a good example of husband and wife with my father and Meimei, and don't worry too much about other things.
Brother Pan can go out to experience when he sees it, and when his character is more tenacious, quiet and lively, we will let him go to the scientific examination and gain fame.
As for Brother Liang, don't spoil him the most because he is the youngest, thinking that Brother Pan is obedient and well-behaved enough, so the little one will play with him. Children still need a certain amount of discipline, they must be taught what they should teach, they must be scolded, and they must be beaten hard.
Mother, you are the most reluctant to do anything to your little brother. Although I don't remember much about what happened when I was a child, my father told me a lot, he always laughed at your partiality, saying that among the three children, when I was a child, I was beaten the most at first, but then it became only to beat and scold Brother Pan, especially when I was stupid and stupid, if I did anything wrong, you would let Brother Pan take the blame for me and punish me for me.
But now, I am married to a wife, Brother Pan has grown up, obedient to the point that no one can find fault, the temperament of the sister and brother is stuffy like two quail eggs, but the always naughty Brother Liang can always make you smile, even if you do something that we would definitely be beaten up, you always gently peel it off, which is not good.
Even if we are already sensible, we will not really bother with Brother Liang, but we will also hope that in small things, you will also be a bowl of water.
This kind of psychology sounds a little funny. It's just that you also know, people, sometimes you really can't control it, the so-called heart can't help yourself, that's probably it. ”
Yan Shunhua kept talking about the so-called jealousy between herself and Yan Qipan, but Yan Zhang knew that her daughter was really just talking, if she was really unhappy because she doted on Yan Qiliang more, this was no, Yan Qipan was relatively small, maybe there would be a little awkwardness, but it was impossible to be a mother's daughter.
She suddenly felt a lot better, and in the end, she was just a woman who needed to talk to and need to be listened to and recognized. Originally, she thought that her husband would do this, but she didn't expect that in the end, her daughter would come to accompany her.
"No wonder people often say that no matter how good it is to have a son, you need to know after your son marries a daughter-in-law whether he is really good or has a good face. It's good to give birth to a daughter, but whether you are a girl at home or married to another woman, you treat your parents the same way, and you will always be the treasure of your father's mother, and she is an intimate little padded jacket.
If your father could have half as much patience as you have for me, I would feel much better. He always talks non-stop on his own, unwilling to listen to me, let alone considerate. ”
Yan Zhang thought of her husband who had never thought of knocking on the door once, and a sour feeling felt in her heart.
Yan Shunhua laughed when he heard this, "Mother, my father would like to be with you, but he thinks that he is being punished now, so he doesn't dare to come to you." If you let him stay alone in a room and sleep alone, you will punish him. He also regretted it in his heart, saying that he should have been more patient. ”
Young couples and old companions, no matter how fierce they say, they are also worried about it in their hearts.