"Relatively speaking, the proportion of people whose parents are highly educated is not so large, and I don't mean anything else here, what I mean is that they can only use the so-called "keep you fed!" Dress warmly, and even learn to express their intentions without any worries! ”

"Because they don't know how to guide you, they can't do it, because they have to bear not only you, they also have parents and families, so in this case, you go to their problems, instead of reflecting on your own problems, is this the right of children?"

"That's a good point!" Wei Lai's father looked at Ding Yu in the video, and couldn't help but sigh in his heart, "These words are what we think in our hearts, but if we want to express them in such popular words, and even after considerable guidance, I can't do this, don't look at me as a small leader, but this is not within my ability!" ”

Wei Lai's mother listened attentively, and when she heard her husband's words, she glanced at her complainingly!

"It's not your reason, it's a good boy, look at what you have been disciplined into! If it weren't for the Ding family, your son would probably be a gangster by now! You're still a loser... ”

Wei Chun looked a little crying and laughing, does this matter have anything to do with him? If you think about it carefully, it seems that there is really a lot of relationship, and there is a problem with the way you treat your child's education, and there is still a considerable problem!

It's like Mr. Ding Yuding said, a little too successful, didn't notice the child's rebellious psychology, and didn't know what the child was thinking, was trying to guide the child, but for the child's problems, it was always one-size-fits-all, always thinking of correcting all the problems at one time, but how could it be!

This problem is already being corrected by itself! Or the husband and wife have now noticed the importance of learning, in the past there was no time, no energy to study, this is pure, work is relatively busy, this is true, but every day take out an hour, or even half an hour, to read a book, it can still be done!

And I also noticed that I have improved considerably because of my daily learning, and this improvement may be a kind of water grinding effort, but it is definitely not to be ignored!

Now there should be quite a number of parents who are watching the video and pondering, whether it is the problem of the child, or the problem of them as parents, it should be said that there are problems, but they are not able to communicate very well with their children, this is the problem!

The child who was originally very good, because of the family, and there were quite problems, and all the problems could not be attributed to the child's body, and at the same time, they needed to find quite problems from themselves!

As for the Ding family's side? I believe that there are many parents who want to express their gratitude, but it is a pity, what did Mr. Ding Yuding say? It's not easy to move at all, everyone has quite a lot of contact with the old man Ding Linding, but it's really difficult to get in touch with Ding Yu! Because he's really an 'otaku'!

However, I think that there are such big changes in the city now, and it has a lot to do with the farm, but I have never heard of any other excessive requirements on the farm, or the messy situation, and the farm is particularly strict in management!

If there is really something, even if there is any rumor, other departments may not know, but how can they not know about it? The farm has its own supervision department, and the farm is still able to accept the opinions put forward with an open mind, and at this point, let yourself have some admiration!

If all departments and units are on the farm side, then everyone's work is really easy!

However, compared to these, what Wei Chun admires more is the true spirit of the farm, even if it is the slightest problem and situation, they will deal with it with their hearts, which makes Wei Chun and even many staff feel a little ashamed, because everyone really lacks this spirit!

But there is a saying, those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black, under the influence of the farm, everyone's self-confidence and mental outlook have been very improved, the so-called poor mountains and bad waters are more troublesome people, why is this happening, if they can eat enough, who will do those messy things when they are idle, isn't it?

"Uncle Ding, we still can't fully understand it yet, I'm afraid it will take quite a while! But I also have a problem, that is, if it is Uncle Ding, I may be able to maintain it for two or three months, but if it is said by my parents at home, I can hold on for three days, but after three days, I will leave it behind, I also try to let myself reflect, but when I encounter problems, I am a little too busy to take care of myself! ”

Ding Yu's palms merged together, which can be regarded as attracting everyone's attention!

"This question is a little duplicative with the question just now, but it is also an extension, I think everyone has the experience of playing games, don't be afraid, I was at your age, I also went to the game hall, and you are no different from playing games with your mobile phone now, under the circumstances, parents regarded the children who went to the game hall as bad children!"

"Uncle Ding, we basically all have the experience of playing games, quite a while, it is difficult to control it after getting started, I always feel that the game is more interesting than others, it is difficult to get out, why can't we break free of ourselves? Why can't we maintain such pleasure in learning? ”

"You're not engaged in learning!"

After thinking about it, Ding Yu pointed to a little girl standing behind him, "Ye Dongdong!" I remember that you did very well in your studies and often occupied the top five in the school! Can you tell us what you think? If I'm not mistaken, you also play games, but I've seen your learning, and it's very interesting! ”

The girl looked at the eyes of her classmates around her, blinked her eyes, and even pushed her glasses, "Uncle Ding, I think it's very interesting, especially math problems, when I have to do problems, I think all the formulas!" Theorems and so on are placed in front of me, for me personally, it's not much different from defeating a boss, but more often, it's like a small creep, and even the poor one with less money and experience! ”

"Also, I usually prepare two exercise books, one wrong and one correct! As for the right one, I already know how to beat it, it's like beating the game, my weaknesses are placed there, I just need to move quite a bit and hit it directly! I can do it even with my eyes closed. As for the mistakes, I often review them, because I haven't fully identified their weaknesses yet, and I need to be familiar with the moves! Wait until everything is familiar! You can chop melons and vegetables, for me personally, it will be a waste of time! ”

"What a vivid metaphor!" Ding Yu applauded again, "We all play games, I play a lot of games, to a certain extent, the game is to better broaden your thinking, but many of our classmates are deeply involved, and can't extricate themselves, just like the classmates just said, it seems to be fun, but in fact? Nothing to gain! ”

"Uncle Ding, isn't playing games for fun?"

"No, happiness is completely different, it's like lol or glory that you are playing now, etc., although I haven't played it, but I've seen it, it's very simple to play this kind of game, but it's also very difficult!"

"Why is it simple, because he is a process of fighting monsters and upgrading, the question is have you found the weakness of the opponent? If you find the weakness of your opponent, you will have the situation of chopping melons and vegetables that Ye Dongdong just said, and even after a long time, you will feel bored! Can't get any interest! Even when you enjoy this process, you will find that your other opponents are already anti-heaven existence! ”

"I'll give you an analogy! Ding Yun is your eldest sister, you want to defeat her alone, no matter what it is, even if it is your most advantageous, or even the most excellent, there are some difficulties, but when all the people are united, maybe Ding Yun is as tall as a mountain, but if you punch and I kick, you will find that Ding Yun has weaknesses! And there are quite a few disadvantages! ”

Hearing Ding Yu say this, Ding Yun quit! Straight to the end!

"Dad, this is not my criticism conference, you can't make me the opposite of everyone, it's too much! I still keep the name of my eldest sister! When he spoke, he raised his little fist left and right, looking at this look, if anyone is not angry, although he can stand up and challenge it!

Ding Yu didn't care, "See it!" This is a manifestation of weakness of heart, relatively speaking, if you are one-on-one, it is a little difficult to defeat Ding Yun, and even at this time, it is absolutely impossible! But when everyone is united, it's different! Just kidding, let's go back to the main theme, and when we play the game, we can actively find these pleasures, because when we win, we are very proud and proud, and then the same is true for learning! At the beginning, I wanted to defeat the final boss, how could it be possible, it needed the experience bonus of the soldiers in front of me, and it required you to control quite a lot of skills, just like Ye Dongdong's two notes, maybe one or two victories, you will find that the boss in front of us is also a papier-mâché tiger, which is simply scaring people! Actually, it's nothing! ”

"How? Would you like to give it a try? ”

"Uncle Ding, aren't you against us playing games? Or is it something else? ”

Ding Yu raised his hand, "What about other parents?" I don't know about this problem, let me talk about myself first, I sometimes play games with the children in the family, to be exact, most of your classmates have played games with me, with a person who can play this sentence to describe, not too much?! ”

"Uncle Ding, when you encounter a MOBA-type game, you won't be able to do it!"

"Isn't that? I'm human too! I'm not God! Ding Yu was not angry at Wei Lai, who was demolishing the stage, but just pretended to be angry, "I am not very interested in the game, play with the children, because my thinking is higher than yours, of course, the operation may not be more spiritual than you, because my thinking sometimes because of too much learning, will fall into a fixed indifference, why do you say that you are the sun at seven or eight o'clock, because you have countless possibilities!" ”

"I want to mention another question here, many students think that it is good to take the road of professionalism in the future? From my personal point of view, I think it is much more difficult and narrow than being a student! ”

"Uncle Ding, can you tell me about it?" There are quite a few students who are quite interested in this! Because there's a lot of interest in it! After all, I am young and want to try everything!

"I say two professions, one is our sports profession and the other is esports! Both of these industries are quite involved in the farm aspect! All I know too! ”

"Let's talk about the sports industry first, first of all, it's a matter of physical fitness, what about Europe and the United States? Many people can dunk at 1.8 meters, but what about in our country? Maybe one meter nine can't be deducted, it is true that our physical fitness and other aspects have evolved considerably, but this evolution takes hundreds or even thousands of years to have considerable results, interested students can go home to check the information in this area, a bit too tragic, because it is completely a process of being selected and eliminated! ”

"And what? It's a matter of culture, each other's cultures are fundamentally different, so their pursuits are completely different, we now have a lot of stadiums in the city, let's say that when you were in elementary school, at most you mentioned football in the school playground, played a dozen basketball, but now? There are many stadiums and parks built in the country and the city! ”

"Finally, a competitive issue, the sports profession is intense, and if there is a so-called accident at one point, then the whole life will be wasted! If you can't succeed in your studies, you can't go through the road of sports, what should you do? At least our system is not yet perfect, because the development of the country is law-oriented and takes time, and we can't talk about it today! Tomorrow the country will respond, because we are such a big country! One classmate's matter is easy to solve, but what about ten classmates or a hundred classmates? ”

"Uncle Ding, what about the e-sports profession?"

"It's even more brutal than the sports profession, even a little cruel! Basically, when you need to be sixteen or seventeen years old, you need to get out, but when you are in your twenties, someone will carry you away if you don't leave! Compared with more than ten years of professional sports, the professional time of esports may be only three or four or four or five years! ”

"What about at this time period? It should be the sunniest time in life, you need to replenish your nutrients, let yourself fully grow, ask you, you can sit in front of the computer and mobile phone every day at such an age, just simple training and honing, you will be eliminated if you don't come out, and moreover, the life of the game, the game is not long-lasting, you need to take into account the popularity and so on! ”

"Uncle Ding, is it possible to have both?!"

"It's very difficult, it's not that there are people who can get this far, don't boast and say, what about me? Sort of one of them, what about me? Calling myself a doctor, I've never given up on this, even now, when I have to study until almost the wee hours of the morning every night, and I've basically maintained this habit since I retired! ”

Many students nodded happily, because these students had considerable contact with Ding Yu and knew that what Ding Yu said was true, but the parents of many students were shocked!

"I did it while making sure I got enough sleep and was healthy! You don't have a lot of energy, and you doze off every day and want to study, it's simply impossible! The so-called balance between the two, how to take into account? It's the previous time when I mentioned whether the children in the house will leave! ”

Ding Yu's expression suddenly became solemn! Not only the surrounding students were nervous, but even the parents who watched the video were also very nervous, and they also wanted to know the development of the situation!

"You're all vehicles on the road, and now there's someone in front of you, but how do you control the speed? Smooth now? Is it already making you feel uncomfortable or exhausted? ”

"Uncle Ding, we don't have much of a feeling in this area!" Sometimes students raised their hands to speak and expressed their opinions!

"Yes! You don't feel that right now, because there is someone in front of you who is taking the lead, but what happens when the leader is gone? Will you stall, will you slow down? Will it be because of anxiety, will there be a collision? Will it cause other accidents and so on? You are not a person, but a whole, some students are family cars, some students are sports cars, some students are heavy trucks, how to plan? ”

"Lack of a plan for the future, lack of an understanding of yourself, this is your problem now, because you have been studying for almost a year, there are people in front of you, everyone has some people who follow the crowd, just follow the big army! But when will you be brave enough to take this step? ”

"Uncle Ding, this will be dangerous?!"

"Yes! It's dangerous, but what is the basis for this danger? It's because you don't have a good control of the car, you don't know the basic structure of the vehicle, that is, you lack understanding of yourself, and at the same time you lack the basic perception of the vehicle, that is, you don't know the fuel level of the vehicle, etc., and you lack basic driving knowledge! ”

"Here I will use another analogy, you should all have other cousins and cousins, you would have felt that these children were very irritable at the beginning, and they have already been taught to them, why do you not understand anything? Now ask yourselves, do you understand yourselves? ”