Chapter 61: Not all pain can be confided
There are always some pains in life, only you understand, and there are always some injuries, only you know. In the process of life, not everyone can understand you, accept you, and care about you. Many times, we are not understood by others, we are not understood by others, the pain can only be quietly endured, and the hurt can only be borne silently. Not all the pain in life can be confided, not all the pain can be revealed, walking in the world, enduring, persevering, may be our common choice.
When I was sad, I walked quietly, and when I was sad, I turned around silently, how can everything go well in life, everything goes well. What's more, pain is not the whole of life, hurt, cry, life has to go on, what is difficult in the world is to endure. Hurt and gritted your teeth, and held up your waist in pain, life needs to be like this. In the face of all kinds of misfortunes in life, not sad or sad, just like facing the decline of flowers and grass, natural and calm, and tomorrow will continue.
There are always people who appreciate you in life, and there are always people who hate you, we can't always be ourselves, always care about others, and care about the eyes of others. We can't always wronged ourselves, worry about all kinds of things, and deliberately try to please others. Whether it's good or not, it's your own, no one in life is anyone's own, you do your own things, and your way is your own. In life, it is better to rely on heaven and earth than on yourself. Even if it is ordinary, it is peace of mind, even if it is bland, it will be safe, and in life, you need to straighten your waist. Life may be long or short, and it varies from person to person, and life may be sad or joyful, and it varies from event to event.
On the road of life, we are all going on, whether we are busy or leisure, our hearts are all longing for beauty. Even if it is bland, just oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, we are still safe in our hearts, even if we are busy, we go out early and return late all day long, we are still calm. Life is a kind of peace, a kind of indifference, life is pleasant because of nature, and life is happy because of light. Don't climb or compare, it's all in yourself, don't regret or complain, work hard for yourself.
I always thought that if I let go, it would be relaxed, and if I looked down, it would be quiet, but I didn't know that the scars were still there, and the melancholy was still there. Those regrets of the past will not be blown away with the cold wind, what has been blown away by the wind over the years is only the past, and the rain of the coming year is still regret, which cannot be pushed away and cut constantly. It turns out that it is always difficult for us to let go completely, and after all, we can't look down on the things engraved on the heart, and it is even more difficult to let go. People will not forget easily, and things will not be indifferent immediately, because we are always sentient beings.
Not every mistake is followed by an opportunity to remedy, and not every mistake is followed by an excuse to forgive. No one is a saint or a sage, and mistakes are inevitable and inevitable. If you make a mistake you can correct it, you can return it if you make a mistake, if it can be so simple, there is no need to be sad in life. There are many mistakes in life, which cannot be turned back or corrected, which hurts our hearts and regrets our feelings, that is, we are obviously wrong but we can't do anything.
Wronged silently, misunderstood and slightly smiled, we will inevitably not be wronged in life, it is inevitable that we will not be misunderstood. Grievances are common, misunderstandings are frequent, in the face of grievances, we quietly endure, secretly dissolve, not because of temporary grievances and lingering. Accepting misunderstandings, we wait in secret, explain slowly, and do not become angry because of momentary unhappiness. Bearing grievances is a kind of mind, accepting misunderstandings is a kind of heart, life is free and generous, and it is also a kind of open-minded and beautiful feelings.
Most of the time, we walk alone, we must learn to be patient and strong, and not to pin our life on others. The help you have received is just your luck, and only by relying on yourself to trek, to break through, to fight, can you really win what belongs to you. Those dangerous shoals and whirlpools are the scenery you must pass through, and they are also the justice of fate, no one owes you anything, and only you can be responsible for you to the end.
I can't tell the taste of life, I can't tell the taste of life, the taste of gain, and the taste of loss. In the process of life, there are all kinds of flavors, when we are lost, we can't help but be sad, and when we are proud, we can't help but rejoice. We always integrate all kinds of gains and losses in life into our feelings, and we are happy when we gain and sad when we lose. When we don't like it, and we don't feel sad when we lose it, we will say frankly at that time, it turns out that the taste of life is indifferent.
Life is like this, busy, ordinary, life is like this, ups and downs, ups and downs. No matter how hard we try, there will still be regrets, and no matter how much we pursue, there will still be dissatisfaction. Life is a regret, life is a regret, think about it, and then look at it. It is difficult for people to be perfect, and it is difficult for things to be perfect, and then they are safe. In life, not all pain can be confided, not all pain can be revealed, don't care about things, ask for advice when there are many people, have a big heart and few things, have a wide heart and have more happiness, peace of mind can be peaceful, and gentleness can be harmonious.