Chapter 60: There is no peaceful life, only a peaceful heart
1. There is no peaceful life, only a peaceful heart.
2. There is no need to make a lot of friends, because not everyone will stand up when you need it, on the contrary, a lot of dragonfly feelings will cause trouble. The older you get, the smaller the circle you care about, it's not a bad thing, you just need to protect the people you should protect. It's this handful of people who, when you thought they were going to be alone, would have stood there long ago.
3. There are too many things to love in this world, and when we discover this, we will not be afraid of pain and loss. Don't be afraid to be alone, you have to learn to spare no effort in what you love.
4. When you are young, don't despair because you don't have money, because you must know that you will have a lot of days without money in the future.
5. Don't quarrel on the phone, be sure to face to face, because maybe when you see the look on her face when she says something, you can't bear to do that.
6. If we suspect that a person is lying, we should pretend to believe him, because he will become more courageous and confident, and will lie more boldly, and finally will unmask himself.
7. Don't choose love because of loneliness, in fact, you can have a lot of beauty alone.
8. People and people's feelings, sometimes like sweaters, knitting a stitch and a thread, cautious, when dismantling as long as a gentle pull, maybe just a joke, maybe a small misunderstanding unintentionally, all emotions are never seen again! friends are not many, expensive in the wind and rain together; no matter how long, the emphasis is on responding to requests.
9. Uncertainty is not in each other's hearts, emotions do not need to be tempted at all, it is enough to have those feelings that you know.
10. A good-tempered person does not get angry easily, which does not mean that he will not get angry; a person with a good personality just pretends to be confused, which does not mean that there is no bottom line.
11. The only way to let go of yourself is the following nine words: eat and eat, sleep and sleep, and love whoever you want.
12. A person's biggest opponent is often not others, but his own laziness. Don't expect to be lucky, luck can't always be on you, and you have to rely on your ability to eat at all times. You have to do your best to be qualified to say you're unlucky.
13. In the early stage of life, if you are more troublesome and lazy to learn, the more likely you are to miss the people and things that make you tempted and miss the new scenery.
14. Trees should not grow too fast. One year is used as firewood, three years and five years are used as tables and chairs, and only ten years and a hundred years can become pillars. Therefore, it is necessary to accumulate deep and wait for time.
15. Do what you're afraid to do. And then you'll find out, but that's it.
16. Only the weak will be strong, and only the strong will know how to show weakness. Mean because the foundation is thin, and bitter because the heart is sour.
17. Instead of being lively and eye-catching, pressing step by step, it is better to tend to be a real and natural person in the crowd, not publicity, not pretentious, and keep a backward position at any time. The mind is determined, just focus on doing things.
18. Learn to maintain a certain degree of loneliness in the crowd, and don't tell others immediately if you have any ideas. Also, don't take what others say too seriously. Don't expect too much from others, both morally and intellectually. An attitude of indifference and indifference to the views of others should be cultivated, for this is one of the most practical means of cultivating commendable tolerance.
19. If you want to train a person who can do great things, you must make him endure hardships and be unsatisfied, so as to develop a stoic character.
20. Lovelorn people understand love better, and frustrated people understand life better.