If a family is combined for ten years, love will be old, and the rest is just days, just children in the days, using chicken feathers as arrows, excited about things that should not be excited, and others do not boast about themselves. Ignoring your boredom and fatigue, I want to go on without an end.

I have asked many people, do you know your mother's name? Do you know your grandmother's name? Do you know your grandmother's name? Almost no one knows for sure. I thought, it's really pitiful, after four generations, it is not clear where the roots are, and how many couples in the world have spent a lot of trouble to renew the incense, which is actually meaningless!

Marriage and childbirth, originally a very natural thing, melons ripe, grass seeds, now the birth of children is very good, according to the instrument, take tocolytic medicine, listen to music and watch pictorial prenatal education, go to the hospital in advance, the amniotic water is not broken, shouting to the sky, the result is nine out of ten dystocia, eight out of seven postpartum milkless.

Thirteen years ago, I was in the country, and the woman next door had three children, and she had a fourth, and she came back from the field and sat in front of the stove to light the fire, and felt that she was going to give birth, and the child was born in the wheat straw in front of the stove. When the baby cried, the old ladies in the neighborhood rushed to the place, and the child had been packed up on the kang and the rice was cooked, and the woman said, "What is this? Giving birth to a baby is like poop!"

I have lived in the north for a long time, and the most indignant thing is that there are quite a lot of people who cheat me for a small official position, are intrigued, and are in place, but they are incompetent, perfunctory to their subordinates, and they do not have a minimum of political ethics. Later, he went to the south several times and came into contact with many officials, who wanted to do a career in their reign, and they all did a good job. The reason for this is that they say, "If you are not afraid of losing your official position, if you lose your official position, I will go into business, and my income will be stronger than it is now!" This is due to the institutional and social environment. Nowadays, the education of children is not a bit like the attitude of cadres in the north toward official posts? The population is increasing and the traditional concept of employment is very serious, and parents are hoping that their children will get ahead, and many deformed things have happened. Some people take it as their honor to teach their children to memorize Tang poems, and when there are guests at home, they exhale their children, and recite them one by one with their eyes closed. But I have never seen a "prodigy" who can memorize ten Tang poems when he is a child grows up and becomes a person who can make a difference.

Society is made up of all kinds of people, and whatever god is in his place, parents give birth to children, give birth to them, and provide them with normal education, and fulfill their responsibilities by giving them normal education, but if the river does not let it flow, and the square tank is squared, and the round basin is round, there is nothing in vain, and if everyone is Margaret Thatcher and everyone is an artist, how terrible the world will be! When we come into contact with such adults, we will find that the more intense the person who wants to cultivate children, the more mediocre the life of this person. He himself has no self-confidence, so he trusts his children to him. This act should be selfish and cruel, and it is a passing disaster. Children's lives belong to children, don't worry about nothing without your design children, on the contrary, life is unbearable light and heavy, taught him the minimum morality and spirit of struggle, there are formal schools to teach knowledge and skills, and more social schools to teach life experience, every life will naturally shine its own brilliant light.

If it is a novel, writers understand that the so-called plot is the development of the character's character, and the character of the living person is the destiny. I am also a father, and I have been anxious, angry, and even scolded for my only daughter, and I have thought how good it would be if my children were born with the thinking and opinions I had at that time! Why is it that I have learned some culture so easily since I first learned, but I am getting older day by day, and my children are starting from the first school?

However, when I slowly developed my opinion, I no longer molded the child with my will, I only asked her to have a tenacious spirit, and only emphasized and guided her to be interested in everything she did since she was a child, such as kicking the sandbag, you just kicked it to your heart's content, drew pictures, and you drew as you liked. I'm against what you want to do, you first be a human being, be an ordinary person.