Before you give up, ask yourself these 6 questions

It is always easier to give up than to persevere, it only takes one day to give up, but it can take years to persevere, it is easy to give up, it is very difficult to persevere, which is why there are always a few people who can succeed.

Before you give up, try to talk to yourself and find out what is best for you.

Before you give up, ask yourself these 6 questions!

1. Have you lasted long enough?

"As long as we keep walking long enough, we will be able to reach places that others have not reached, and we will be able to go beyond what others have not. 」

Whatever it is, before you give up, you should think about whether you have persevered long enough, maybe you've only lasted a few days, a few weeks, a few months, or maybe you need to put in more effort to get a good result.

Don't give up until you've stuck with it long enough, unless you're sure it's not the path you want to take.

2. Does giving up on this matter make you regret it?

The five things that people regret the most at the end of their lives.

1) I wish I had the courage to live the life I really wanted, not the life that others wanted me to live

Live.

2) I wish I hadn't put so much effort into my work in the first place.

3) I wish I had the courage to express my feelings.

4) I wish I could keep in touch with my friends back then.

5) I wish I could have made myself happier.

It's easy to give up, just spread your hands out and say to yourself, "I'm not going to do it. The burden on you will be lifted from your body at once, and you will be relieved. But... Is that really good?

Ask yourself, "Does giving up on this thing make you regret it?" Does it make you regret on your deathbed that you didn't stick with it.

3. Would you be happy if you gave up?

At the end of the day, if you give up, it's yourself and not someone else who really makes you give up. Ask yourself, "Will you be happy if you give up on this?" If the answer is no, it means that you really like the thing in front of you, then it may be a good choice to continue to persevere.

4. Have you tried all the methods?

"A life of trial and error is not only more honorable than a life of idleness, but also more meaningful. Many people want to give up not because they are on the wrong path, but because they are tired of not getting a good result, and they should ask themselves, "Did you do it the wrong way?"

Trying the same method and trying to get different results will never happen, maybe what you should do is not to give up, but to try it in another way.

5. Do you like the thing you gave up?

"If you never give up on what you love and keep going, you may be able to achieve your dreams or find another good possibility. 」

If you don't like something, the best way to do it is not to get involved and ask yourself, "Do you really like this thing?" If so, then you should keep going.

6. What do you plan to do after giving up?

There must be a reason why you want to give up, but if it's because the process is too difficult, maybe it's not a good reason, ask yourself, "What are you going to do after you give up?" If you decide to do something else, will that thing be better than the one in front of you? Before you give up, remember to think about what to do next.