Chapter 14: No matter how tired you are, remember to love yourself
Once when I was watching my friend's dynamics in the space, I saw my friend post such a message saying, "The embarrassment of this world is that not everyone is at your quality level, you are polite, others push and push, you are humble, others are arrogant, you swallow your anger, others pull your nose and face, you dress up with a fancy and graceful demeanor, and others will knock you off the subway with an elbow and make you embarrassed." Quality can't be required from others, only to restrain yourself, so you are committed to the world to remind yourself to stay a little arrogant, and you can squeeze into the rivers and lakes to remind yourself not to give up Qinggao. After reading it, I felt a lot of feelings, thinking that each of us is like this, and it is really not easy to survive in a situation full of embarrassment.
I have a friend who works in sales, and he runs around all day, just to be able to make his performance outstanding, get the appreciation of the leader, and then raise his salary and get promoted. Once chatted with him, he said that since he started this job, he has never taken a serious break, running around on the street under a big sun, often being rejected, his own sales mouth is dry, what he gets is a thank you or something like that, I feel physically and mentally exhausted, but I still believe that as long as I am willing to endure hardships, the future Avenue of Stars will belong to me. From his words, I can feel his love and yearning for this job.
Get up before dawn, start a new day's work, squeeze the crowd to get on the bus, run to the business location in the morning light, and start a busy day's work. I do admire people who are paid a meager salary every month, facing the sea of people, with their backs to the railing. Even if you are blinded and coldly refused, you will not be discouraged. Smiling face to people, stalking, completely with the spirit of Xiaoqiang.
I can imagine how much sweat and bitterness goes into his work. But looking at it from a different position, it's also a very happy job. With a vision of a happy life and a yearning for a better future. Even if you wake up earlier than the chickens and go to bed later than the dogs, you are happy enough.
It is said that he is a young, energetic, and positive person in life, as long as he works hard, he can get a higher salary within five years, and then marry a virtuous wife, have a well-behaved and sensible child, and live a life without worrying about food and clothing, and everything is smooth.
Even if we admire their spirit of hard work and envy their success, we don't really see how many ups and downs and obstacles they have experienced on the road to success.
In fact, life is very simple, as long as you are happy, no matter how tired you are, you must remember to love yourself.