[002] Five-five open faith
"Why haven't you been in Beijing yet?" As soon as the car drove out for two hours, the mastiff began to complain incessantly, he was tall, and it was uncomfortable to shrink his head in the car, of course, this was not the main reason, the main reason was of course that he wanted to see his future wife as soon as possible.
"Big brother, it will take at least two more days on the road! Don't nag!" Lan Yue'er obviously didn't sleep well today, and she had a big temper, so she immediately rolled her eyes at the mastiff.
"Two days, Beijing is so much farther than Tongzhou!" The mastiff has only been to Tongzhou once, and the wild man is tall and easy to be recognized by the interstellar police, so it is inconvenient to go out, and at the same time, he has never gone to school and can't use the Internet, so he is like an alien and has no geographical knowledge.
Lu Yan smiled and said, "What's the matter?"
"I don't regret it, no wonder I haven't found my wife, it's so far away. After speaking, the mastiff shook his head and stopped squeaking.
The car was quiet.
After the mastiff stopped talking, the car looked dull.
Because there were no other cars on the road, only their car, Lu Yan was also thinking about his thoughts while driving, and he remembered that this time he went to compete for the president of the 'Resistance to Aliens Alliance', there was nothing to do on the road anyway, Lu Yan wanted to hear what Xiong Yuan had to say about this issue.
"Uncle Xiong, how sure do you say we will go to Tangshan to compete for this president this time?" Lu Yan asked Xiong Yuan casually as if chatting.
"It's not easy!"
Xiong Yuan shook his head and said very frankly, and after a pause, he continued: "First of all, this conference was proposed by Huang Tiansheng, which gave him the advantage of taking the lead, and Huang Tiansheng has been famous in the mutant world for a long time, and many mutant organizations are very familiar with him, so he should have a considerable number of hardcore supporters at this meeting." ”
"Then aren't we here to play tricks this time?" Lu Yan's heart sank, but he still asked with a smile.
"Not necessarily!" Xiong Yuan said calmly.
"Uncle Xiong Weishenme said that?" Lu Yan knew that Xiong Yuan must have some plan before he said this.
Looking out the window, Xiong Yuan said indifferently: "Huang Tiansheng's fame has long been good for him, of course, there are also bad on the one hand, as far as I know, many people know that Huang Tiansheng is arrogant, so Huang Tiansheng's early fame is not entirely bad news for us, and we came to Beijing in advance this time to use the prestige of Uncle Gu in Beijing to expand our influence, Uncle Gu's prestige in the mutant circle is not under Huang Tiansheng, especially in the north, if he supports, we still have hope to fight this time." ”
"Husband, Uncle Gu has a good impression of us, and he will definitely support us. Lan Yue'er said happily to Lu Yan when she heard this.
Although there was only one relationship, Lu Yan also felt that he and Uncle Gu were also very good at talking, but after having the hope of competing for the president, Lu Yan still wanted to hear Xiong Yuan's views on how to be a good team leader, which was an aspect of his lack of confidence, so he then asked: "Uncle Xiong, in fact, Huang Tiansheng can come up with the 'Anti-Alien Alliance' conference in Tangshan this time, which in itself shows that he is very discerning, in fact, if Huang Tiansheng can be the president, this is also a good choice, right?"
Lu Yan is asking questions based on retreat, but he actually wants to hear Xiong Yuan's opinion.
"Husband, how can Huang Tiansheng compare with you, if that guy becomes the president, can there be anyone else in his eyes?" Lan Yue'er heard Lu Yan praise Huang Tiansheng, and she immediately retorted dissatisfied.
Lu Yan didn't need this answer, he looked at Xiong Yuan in the mirror, hoping that Xiong Yuan could read the reason for his question.
Xiong Yuan obviously guessed what Lu Yan meant, and after thinking about it, he said directly: "Indeed, this time Huang Tiansheng did the right thing at the right time, and we admit that it was a good idea, so we came to this meeting." But I don't think being the leader of a team can be a leader just because he does something right. ”
"Hmm. Lan Yue'er nodded quickly.
Lu Yan also nodded, but he still wanted to hear Xiong Yuan speak more deeply, so he hurriedly continued to ask about the topic: "Uncle Xiong thinks that as a team leader, what must be done to be recognized by others?"
After pondering for a moment, Xiong Yuan smiled faintly again before saying in a deep voice: "I am not a successful leader myself, so I can't define a leader, and from real life, we can see that all kinds of people can succeed...... It should be said that according to people's living habits, beliefs, races, etc., each type of group of people will produce different types of leaders...... So I can't really say what qualities you need to have when you ask a leader, but I know what kind of person is definitely not a haode leader in a team like ours. ”
Lu Yan was a little dazed by Xiong Yuan's words, frowned and thought about it carefully.
Indeed, as far as Lu Yan knows, there are all kinds of successful people in society, and it is indeed difficult to define success, no one dares to say that a certain kind of person will definitely become a leader, and a certain kind of person will definitely not work, and if according to Xiong Yuan, to define a leader who is not a haode, it is a good way for him to learn quickly.
After clarifying his thoughts, Lu Yan hurriedly asked again: "Uncle Xiong thinks that what kind of person is difficult to become a leader of Haode?"
Xiong Yuan still said calmly while thinking: "In my opinion, there are three types of people who are difficult to become haode leaders, first, people who are not diligent, second, people who give up easily, and third, people who can't accept other people's suggestions. ”
"It's as simple as that?" asked Lu Yan very strangely.
Even Lan Yue'er was staring at Xiong Yuan, obviously letting Xiong Yuan say this, it was too easy to be a leader.
These three points are what I think is a taboo as a successful leader, and other personal habits are both pros and cons of habits, such as: a person's arrogance is a shortcoming, but his vision is empty-sighted, and it may also make him have a kind of courage that others can hardly imagine, so it is difficult to say that this is a disadvantage, such as a person who is greedy for money, which will also make him have a strong sense of financial management, and we don't know if this habit will help him or harm him in the future, so I can only list these three taboos. Xiong Yuan explained to Lu Yan again.
Hearing Xiong Yuan say this, Lu Yan thought about it and nodded, and then he put the three that Xiong Yuan said on himself, thinking silently in his heart:
"The first diligence, I can't say that I am not diligent, but occasionally a little lazy, and if I encounter something I like, I tend to forget to sleep and eat, so I still have the potential to be diligent. ”
"The second one is easy to give up, which I really sometimes do, I hesitate halfway through things, but every time I hesitate for a while, think about it for a while, and finally stick to it, this, this can be regarded as an adjustment process. Lu Yan is helping herself regain a little confidence.
"And the third article of not accepting other people's suggestions has nothing to do with me, and now I'm asking Xiong Yuan, which itself shows that I want to understand other people's suggestions. ”
"So, I still have the potential to be a leader. ”
Lu Yan was using these three to put on herself, Lan Yue'er was obviously also putting on Lu Yan, she thought for a while and suddenly said happily to Lu Yan: "Husband, you definitely have the talent to be a leader, first, you are diligent, this time you gave your classmate Zhang Luo to study, you forgot to eat, this is considered diligence." Second, you don't give up easily, you see that in order to save your parents, you chased them all the way to Beijing to save them. Third, you are more receptive to other people's suggestions, if I ask you to chase Sister Xueying, you will chase ......"
"Ahem!"
Lu Yan hurriedly interrupted Lan Yue'er's words, this is 'Xi Shi in the eyes of a lover' Lan Yue'er looks at himself everywhere, he can't let this little girl talk any more, so Lu Yan hurriedly changed the topic and asked Xiong Yuan: "Uncle Xiong, I think Huang Tiansheng has also done a good job in these three!"
"How can Huang Tiansheng compare with you?"
As soon as Lan Yue'er heard Lu Yan praise Huang Tiansheng, she was dissatisfied again, and immediately shouted: "That guy is unreliable for his first diligence, he is idle all day long, and he knows how to chase Sister Xueying all day long, where can I see the appearance of a leader?"
Lu Yan smiled bitterly, she went to chase Ling Xueying by herself, Lan Yue'er thought it was an advantage, and Huang Tiansheng went to chase Ling Xueying, Lan Yue'er thought it was a disadvantage, hey, woman! Lu Yan looked up at the rearview mirror again, wondering what Xiong Yuan thought of Huang Tiansheng's advantages and disadvantages.
Xiong Yuan was also amused by Lan Yue'er, and after laughing for a while, he said: "The diligence I am talking about does not only refer to the diligence of running around all day, in fact, use your brain more, as long as you are thinking about what you want to do, it is also a kind of diligence, for example, Huang Tiansheng can think of establishing the 'Anti-Alien Alliance' this time, which shows that he is very good at finding opportunities, he has been using his brain, and can boldly do it, which is also a kind of diligence." ”
Moreover, Huang Tiansheng is also a person who never gives up easily. ”
Lu Yan also helped Xiong Yuan to say Huang Tiansheng's second advantage, yes, Lu Yan can feel it from Huang Tiansheng's chasing Ling Xueying, Huang Tiansheng is a difficult opponent to deal with, although Huang Tiansheng has little hope of getting Ling Xueying, but he is still creating various reasons to chase Ling Xueying, at this point, as his competitor, he has to admire his persistence.
Xiong Yuan also nodded, and he could also see Huang Tiansheng's persistence, but he continued: "I'm actually worried that Huang Tiansheng can't do the third point, he is too arrogant. ”
"Yes, it's not just arrogance, it's just arrogance, unstoppable, despicable. Lan Yue'er was scolding to her heart's content.
Lu Yan chose to be silent, he also wanted to hear what Xiong Yuan said about Huang Tiansheng's arrogance.
Seeing Lu Yan's expression, Xiong Yuan explained to Lu Yan again: "I'm not saying that arrogance is a mistake, if a person only does his own things all his life, his arrogance may help him grow into a biased character and become another type of absolute powerhouse, but if arrogance is the leader of an organization, as a habit of doing things with everyone, this habit is very terrible, so, I don't want Huang Tiansheng to do it." The leader of the 'Resistance to the Alien Alliance' is worried that the combination of his two strong personalities, arrogance and persistence, will make Huang Tiansheng prone to extremes, which is very dangerous for an organization, especially a large organization. ”
Lu Yan knew what Xiong Yuan meant, and at the same time, he was also very clear about his own strengths and weaknesses, and Lu Yan was still repeatedly digesting what Xiong Yuan had just said: "Everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, and a sensitive person like me, sometimes even a little timid, although sometimes there are scruples and hesitations, but this will prompt me to arrange things more reasonably...... Huang Tiansheng's shortcomings are a bit terrible when they are analyzed by Uncle Xiong, but how many people can see them clearly? His shortcomings will only be seen by everyone after he becomes a leader, and his persistence and recklessness may be regarded as advantages before becoming a leader, so it is still difficult to say about this chairman dispute...... However, in terms of personal quality, at least we Huang Tiansheng are five or five, I don't have to be afraid of him, and I am afraid that I will be better than him if I have more firmness and perseverance. Then this time, the 'president' has to fight. ”
Lu Yan has found the confidence to compete for the president at this moment.