"He doesn't admit it, but we admit it. This Xiaobao is the child of our old Zhao family, and if he doesn't get close to the child, he will let him go out alone. I discussed with your mother, and after we are a hundred years old, all the things in this hometown will belong to the two children, and I will not leave half of it to him. ”

"The law stipulates that private sale of land and homesteads in rural areas is not allowed. As for the house on this homestead, when the two children grow up, it may not be what it will become. If these children have a chance, they can go back and renovate it, but if they don't, I'm afraid they don't even have the ability to renovate. ”

"Then we won't leave it to him."

"I'm afraid it's not up to you to have the final say in this matter, he is your son and the only legitimate heir of your old Zhao family." Nan Sheng smiled: "That's the end of this matter, I still have to work here." ”

"Hey!" Zhao Guangwu sighed: "This is a good home, and Zhao Yang has ruined it." ”

"That's his own choice, and as parents, you can't help it."

"We don't feel sorry for him, we feel sorry for the child." Zhao Guangwu sighed: "How good this used to be, if you want a house and a house, you want a car and a car, and your children don't have to be inferior to other people's families when they go out." Now, you have to save money on food and drink. ”

"I didn't believe in fate before, but now I do." Nan Sheng tapped on the keyboard: "Some things may really be destined." ”

"I also believe in fate, and I think that whatever a person can have in this life is arranged by God." Zhao Guangwu glanced into the side bedroom: "When I was young, I was much more popular than Zhao Yang, but I am different from him, I don't have ambiguities with people." When I was eighteen or nineteen years old, I fell in love with a girl that your mother told you. She and I are on the same production team, usually working together and playing basketball together. Don't look at her small size, she won't lose to a boy when she plays. ”

Zhao Guangwu fell into his own memories: "Her family conditions are not good, her mother is sick, and she has a young brother, so the burden is relatively heavy. You also know your grandmother, she sees the problem more practically, and thinks that my marriage to that girl will affect me, so she forced us to die and insisted that we be separated. ”

"If you really like it, you should fight for yourself and for her."

"Your grandmother had a hard life, her parents died when she was a child, and she grew up with her sister. At the age of seventeen or eighteen, it was said that the matchmaker married your grandfather. But your grandfather's side is also a big family pointing at him, and his life is also tight. Your grandmother has to be strong, and her temperament was forced out by the environment at that time. As her son, I have witnessed her hardships and hardships, and I don't want to make her angry again. ”

"Filial piety and marriage are two different things, filial piety is a matter between mother and son, but marriage is your own thing."

"I was young at that time, and I didn't think about it so much, I just knew that your grandmother was for my good, and she didn't want me to live so hard like her. She wanted to find a woman who could help me, a woman who could make my life better. ”

"She chose Zhao Yang's mother?"

"It wasn't chosen from the start." Zhao Guangwu touched his head: "I have met many times before her, to be honest, other girls like me a lot, but your grandmother thinks it's not suitable." Either they dislike that they are short, or they dislike their dark skin, or they dislike that they are thin and not easy to raise. I finally met someone who was similar in all aspects, and I didn't agree with each other. In retrospect, those who are not suitable are more suitable than your mother. ”

"The child is his own parent, and the wife is the good of someone else's family."

"That's not what it means." Zhao Guangwu waved his hand: "It's not that I dislike your mother, I just just think that the two of us are not suitable." ”

Zhao Guangwu sighed: "Let's be honest, your mother also belonged to that kind of condition when she was young. He was tall, white-skinned, and had big eyes, and he was also bright when he was young. Although people don't like to work in the fields, they like to go to work, and they entered the factory at a young age, which is a flower in our town. ”

Zhao Guangwu squinted his eyes: "In addition to his own good conditions, other people's families are good, my father is an old Chinese medicine doctor who gets a salary, and he is famous in our area." As for the mother, she is also a scholarly family. This has to be put aside in the past, with my background, I really don't deserve others. But at that time, the ingredients were important, except that the workers were farmers, and your mother had no better choice. ”

"We always say that the door is right, the door is right, but in fact, this door is the family, and it is the concept of living in the world. The two of you are different in the three views created by the different growth environments, and you can't talk about it together, and you can't go together. ”

"Yes, that's it." Zhao Guangwu said: "But how could this person think so much when he was young." Your grandmother thinks it's suitable, and I can't find anyone who is not good at all, so the two of us just came together. ”

"And then?"

"I regretted it when I first got married, but divorce was not in vogue in those days, and I have to continue to regret it." Zhao Guangwu shook his head: "As for me, I don't have any big pursuits, and I can be more casual and peaceful." Your mother has pursuits, ideals, and her own goals. But your grandmother in our family has the final say, and she always thinks that women shouldn't be so tossed, and I think that I, the husband, should press her everywhere. ”

"Isn't grandma quite strong herself?"

"Yes!" Zhao Guangwu nodded: "But your grandmother doesn't think she's strong, she thinks that the reason why she's capable is because your grandfather can't take care of that big family." As a wife, she can only share the burden for your grandfather. In our lifetime, she thinks that with me, your mother, as a daughter-in-law, should sing and follow her husband, and she should listen to what I say. But your mother is not such a person, people grew up in the city, and they didn't return to our countryside until they were teenagers, and their ideological consciousness is not the same as ours. ”

"One mountain does not tolerate two tigers, you are indeed having a hard time this day."

"It's not like that, your grandmother thinks that I should press your mother everywhere and let her honestly teach her husband and children at home. Your mother thinks that your grandmother is very wide and thinks that she should not meddle in the affairs of our small family, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are often on the tip of the needle. As a husband, as a son, Nan Sheng, what do you say I should do? ”

Zhao Guangwu spread his hands: "If I help your grandmother, your mother will be sad, and she will make a fuss at home at every turn, smashing tables and bowls." If I help your mother, your grandmother will make your grandfather cry on the grave, saying that I, who is a son, helped my daughter-in-law bully her, and said that I married a daughter-in-law and didn't want a mother. I've also thought about helping my relatives or not, but they all think that they are the ones who are reasonable. In a dilemma, I had no choice but to hide. ”

"You've gone into hiding, but have these problems in your house been solved? Not only did it not solve it, but it became more and more intense, and it directly affected Zhao Yang's character development. ”

"I regret it too, but it's too late to regret it, Zhao Yang and his sister have already grown up." Zhao Guangwu said: "So I strongly oppose your divorce from Zhao Yang, not because of you, but because of the children." This adult can live without anyone, but what about children? What about the kids? This is a change of parents, and they are not real parents. ”

This marriage