"He never told us that!"

"He's optimistic by nature, and he wants to change that through his own efforts. But life is never a one-man fight, and he is far from being as strong as he thinks. ”

"He can tell us."

"What if you tell it, will you change yourselves?" Nan Sheng looked at Zhao Guangwu's eyes: "Don't say what is far away, just say what is close." ”

"What's the matter with the close?"

"Car wash." Nan Sheng said: "Yes, I hate him, I hate him for abandoning the whole family for a Julie, but from the perspective of a bystander, I sympathize with him." ”

"What do you sympathize with him?"

"I sympathize with him for being helpless." Nan Sheng said: "The reason why he is with Julie is largely because he wants someone to rely on. ”

"How old is he, he's almost forty, what else does he have to rely on." Zhao Guangwu said: "We are old, we still want to rely on him." ”

"I'm almost forty, but for me, as long as my parents are there, I'm a child, and I feel like I'll always have my parents to take care of me. This care does not refer to specific events, but to a kind of spiritual dependence, which is what I just said about a sense of security. Zhao Yang: What he lacks is precisely this thing. ”

"Even though I'm his ex-wife, I still know a few things about him. As parents, how much do you know? ”

"He doesn't tell us how we know."

"It's not that he didn't tell you, but he did, and you didn't pay attention to him."

"He told you when he was running a car wash, that he was in partnership. Did you ask him about his partner? You've been to the car wash, but have you helped him? ”

Seeing that Zhao Guangwu was silent, Nan Sheng continued.

"I've been, while he's renovating."

"I'll just say you still have him in your heart. You are the original couple, and there is no stronger relationship in this world than the original couple. ”

"Fifteen years of relationship, ten years of husband and wife, it is impossible to cut it all because of one thing, or because of the word divorce." Nan Sheng did not deny what Zhao Guangwu said. "But my purpose in going to his car wash is complicated, in addition to wanting to understand his current situation, I also want to see his bad side, I hope he is unhappy with Julie, I hope he regrets all his choices. But in fact, when I saw him squatting alone in the doorway and smoking, I was not happy. ”

"You feel sorry for him."

"No, I pity him." Nan Sheng said: "The two shops are next to each other, and his partner is older than him, but when the shop is renovated, people's parents, younger brothers, wives and children come to help others." I saw the concerted efforts of the family, and also saw the joy of the family striving towards a goal. ”

"On the other hand, it's his shop, and he's alone in everything." Nan Sheng said: "Sister Ning knows that he wants to open a car wash, and you know it, but none of you have helped him, and no one has asked him if he has encountered any difficulties in the process of starting a business." ”

"He didn't tell us either."

"He said it, but you didn't take it to heart."

"What did he tell us?"

"He said that he sold the car and used the money from the sale of the car to decorate the shop, and what you think of is not to give him material help, but to accuse him of misconduct and tossing."

"He said he was going to buy equipment and that no one was taking care of the renovation of the store. Instead of helping him look at the renovation workers, you mock him, saying that you know it's not easy to open a store now, and that you know that one person can't do it, right? ”

He said that the store was very busy, and he had no way to take care of Fanfan. The first thing you said to him was not to rest assured, we will take care of the child. It's that you know that you can't take care of your children, so why do you want to be mortal? ”

"What he needs is your support, even if it's not material, financial, it's just a spiritual encouragement, and you are stingy to give." Nan Sheng said in a deep voice: "You are his parents, his biological parents, but what you show and let him see is that you want to see his jokes." He has earned money, and his monthly salary is more than 10,000 yuan, and you say that you teach him well, and you say that you are grateful for supporting him to go to school, and none of you affirm his efforts. He failed, and you lined up to see him laugh at him, saying that he wasn't born to be a successful person. ”

"Even if we are at fault, then he still has you, haven't you been supporting him?"

"A wife can't replace his parents' place in his heart, what he needs is a complete love." Nan Sheng patted his heart: "I love him, but I also love my parents, my children, and my brother, I can't give him complete love, he always feels that I ignore him, and he always feels that he can find something better elsewhere." So, there are these women outside of our marriage. ”

"You know him so well, you can't give him the security he wants, can those women give him?"

"No, so none of his relationships will last." Nan Sheng said: "I am not the first girlfriend he has had, in fact, his search has been since he was in junior high school. The reason why I was able to become his wife is because I can empathize, I give more than others, and I am more tolerant than other women. But even if I have achieved this level, I still can't fill the gap in his heart, and I can't fill the hole in his heart. ”

"What are we going to do as you say?"

"Put yourself in the right position, put yourself in the right position as a parent." Nan Sheng said: "As an ex-wife, I hate him, I don't want him to have a good life in the future, but as the mother of the child, I hope that the father of the child can live a good life, at least in the future, he will not become a drag on the children." ”

"He hates us, he doesn't want to communicate with us at all, he doesn't want to listen to us."

"It's not that he doesn't want to communicate with you, it's that the communication is ineffective. It's not that he doesn't want to listen to what you say, but that what you say is not what he wants to hear. Nan Sheng pointed to the next door: "His mother is still cursing him, saying that she wishes he died." ”

"Don't listen to her, she's bad at that mouth."

I know that she is worried about Zhao Yang, I know that she feels sorry for Zhao Yang, there is no mother in the world who does not love her children. But the method she chose was wrong, for a child who lacked love, whipping would only make him rebellious, not progressive. ”

"Then I talk about her, and she doesn't listen."

"You don't have to talk about her, you just have to be yourself." Nan Sheng took a deep breath: "You don't have to worry about the things between us, you just need to help me take care of Zhao Fan, and by the way, let him work with peace of mind and do things with peace of mind." ”

"If you don't help him, you won't help him." Zhu Huiqin suddenly rushed in: "What are you helping him do, so that he can earn money to support that bad woman?" I don't sympathize with him as a mother, I just hope that he is unlucky, I hope he becomes a beggar, I hope that he dies outside so that I can be happy and happy. ”

This marriage