"What the hell are you trying to say? Can our own daughters be counted on and worry about you? We won't rely on you to provide for us. ”

"Even if you rely on me, I won't provide for you." Nan Sheng said: "I have my own son to raise, my own parents to raise, I don't have the time, energy, and economic foundation to support you." ”

"You just beg us, and we won't let you raise it."

"Can we not talk angrily." Nan Sheng said: "What I am telling you is not angry words, let alone nonsense, but the truth." I hope you can recognize it clearly and see that the only thing you can count on for the rest of your life is your unsuccessful son. ”

"We don't count on him."

"Don't count on it, don't count on it, you say you don't count on it, but you keep counting on it in your heart." Nan Sheng pierced Zhu Huiqin's angry words: "Zhao Yang's father is hospitalized, what do you mean by letting Sister Ning, who has a quiet life, go back without notifying, and let Zhao Yang, who is renovating the car wash, go back?" ”

"He's renovated and not renovated, what's wrong with letting him go back for two days? It didn't delay him in earning money. ”

"What does he make money on? His job was gone, his car was mortgaged, he was sold what he could sell in his rental house, and he put all his hopes on the car wash. He has to hurry up to decorate, hurry up and open a business, he can make money when he opens, and only after making money can he pay the subsequent rent, water and electricity, and repay the foreign debts he owes. ”

"We didn't say we wouldn't let him make money."

"You didn't say it, you just stopped him." Nan Sheng said: "Of course, compared with earning money, you should also take care of your sick biological parents. But if you change to other parents, you will definitely consider the actual situation of your children, and you will let your son pay for it and your daughter accompany you. ”

"We won't let our daughter accompany us, we will let him accompany us, and we won't let him earn money."

"Look at your attitude, it's obviously unreasonable, and in fact it's not very reasonable, but behind the scenes, you hide your true thoughts, you rely on your son."

"Shouldn't we rely on him? If we raise him so big and marry him and marry him, shouldn't he raise us? ”

"Should!" Nan Sheng said categorically: "I have talked so much to you, and what I said is what he should." It's because he should, that's why I want you to repair your relationship. ”

"Nansheng, don't say it, I understand what you mean." Zhao Guangwu waved his hand.

"The relationship between parents and children is never subordinate, but mutual cooperation and mutual fulfillment." Nan Sheng said: "The parents took the child out of the hospital and gave him the beginning of life. The child takes his parents to the hospital and accompanies them to the end of their lives.

When parents were young, they worked hard to earn money to support their children. When their parents are old, children struggle to earn money to support their parents. The Father and the Son are one circle. ”

"Nansheng, don't say it, Dad understands what you mean, and I will talk to Zhao Yang again."

"It's not about talking, it's about doing." Nan Sheng said: "It's not about moving your mouth, but about taking practical actions, so that he realizes that you also love him, and you have always stood behind him to support him, even if he makes a mistake, even if he is useless, as long as you turn back, you are all there." ”

"According to you, we have to praise him for his mistakes?" Zhu Huiqin stretched her neck.

"It should be criticized and criticized, it should be praised and praised, and it should be encouraged when it should be encouraged." Nan Sheng gave an example: "Take Zhao Yang's betrayal of marriage as an example. As a father, you should be harshly criticizing him, but you have been working with the mud, trying to ease the relationship between your father and son in this way, trying to make Zhao Yang identify with you and treat you as his ally. ”

"I criticized him, why didn't I criticize him, I kept telling him that this thing was wrong and should not be."

"You're not criticizing, you're negotiating." Nan Sheng said: "You forget, we are there every time you talk to him, and the way and tone you talk to him is not like a father criticizing his son harshly, but like an employee nervously correcting the boss's mistakes." Can criticism like yours make a real difference? Can you make him reflect on his mistakes? ”

"I'm not going to make the kind of criticism you say!"

"It's not that you can't, but you don't have confidence, you don't have confidence when facing this son." Nan Sheng said: "Because you have a weak heart, you also know that you have not fulfilled the responsibilities and obligations of being a father in the decades when he grew up. You know that he resents you in his heart, you know that you are old, you know that you can no longer ignore his resentment as you did in the past, you know that you will have to count on him in the future. Say yes, you're leaving a way out for yourself. ”

Zhao Guangwu looked at Nan Sheng and stopped talking.

"You're right!" Nan Sheng said: "You are old, your legs and feet are not good, and you can no longer take care of yourself like when you were young." Fan Fan and Xiaobao are still young, as a grandfather, you definitely can't enjoy their blessings, and you don't want to invest more in them, the only person you can rely on is your son, only Zhao Yang. ”

"It's not that I don't want to invest in them, I'm powerless." Zhao Guangwu patted his leg: "If my leg is okay, I will go out to work by myself, and I will raise these two children by myself." ”

"I don't blame you, I just said it, you're right. It's not angry, it's what I really think. Nan Sheng said: "But you can't help Zhao Yang by doing this, and you can't leave yourself a way back." He is almost forty years old, and if he has not been aware of his mistakes and has been on the road to find true love, he can't even care about himself. ”

"And what do you think I'm going to do?"

"I've already told you how." Nan Sheng said: "At the beginning of our conversation, I analyzed with you why Zhao Yang became what he is today. He lacks love, he needs a lot of attention, he needs a lot of security. He thought that this attention and security could be found from the outside, but in fact, what he needed was always with you. ”

"Where are we?"

"His inner turmoil stems from your neglect of him in childhood, from your repeated denials of him. I hope that from this moment on, you can stay by his side and become the driving force that sustains him to go on. Recognize him more, encourage him more, and when he is no longer hesitant, no longer afraid, and no longer needs to ask for foreign help, his relationship with Julie will naturally end, and he can find a woman who is really suitable for him, and live the life he wants to live. ”

"What about you?"

"Of course, I can also benefit from this." Nan Sheng said: "A promising ex-husband is better than a non-existent ex-husband." A capable father is better than a father who can't even support himself. ”

"If he breaks up with Julie, you and him—"

"Impossible." Nan Sheng shook his head: "I hope he is doing well, just for the sake of the child." As for the ...... between me and him, Well, the scar can't forget the pain. There is no way to smooth out those injuries. I can't go back to the beginning with him. ”

This marriage