Chapter 340: Do You Want a Partner? (1)

After ending the conversation with Zhao Guangwu, Nan Sheng first called Tang Yan to ask about her sister's situation, and learned that Tang Hong was in a stable mood, so she was relieved.

was about to hang up the phone, Tang Yan suddenly sighed, and Nan Sheng was so frightened that he hurriedly asked, "What's wrong?" ”

"Do you want someone?" Tang Yan smiled a little: "I'm serious, do you want a partner, I have a ready-made introduction to you here." ”

"Don't!"

"Really?" Tang Yan was anxious: "You can't let go of Zhao Yang's scumbag, right?" I'm telling you, we don't do the garbage recycling. ”

"I didn't fail to let go." Nan Sheng said: "I just don't want to talk about it yet." ”

"What's the reason for not wanting to talk?"

"First, I just got divorced and haven't adjusted yet, and I can't accept a new relationship and a new man. Second, I have no money and no background, I look average, but I have two sons, what kind of local tyrant can accept me. Third, I have to think about children. It's easy for me to change husbands, but it's not easy for them to accept a new man as a dad. Fourth, I am afraid of both relationships and marriage. I can't even look at the man who is my childhood sweetheart, and I can't be sure that I can watch this new man. I'm timid, I'm cowardly, I'm scared. ”

"Let's get to know each other first?" Tang Yan said: "You don't have to fall in love, just know one more friend, and look at it everywhere as a friend first." This is not the ancient times, when you meet, you have to make a decision, and if you decide, you have to get married, and if you don't get married, you will be immoral. ”

"I really don't have that going right now." Nan Sheng pinched his temples: "Just taking a baby and making money has exhausted all my vitality." ”

"The more this is the case, the more you have to find a man to help you, you are not a superman, it is impossible to support a family on your own." Tang Yan persuaded her: "Nansheng, you will also have times when you are tired, and there will be times when you are sick and want to rest." You're not a machine, you can work 24 hours a day. Even if you can work 24 hours a day, persist in half a year, and persist in a year, there will always be times when you can't stand scrapping. What will you do then? Instead of looking for it at that time, it is better to look in advance and find the best one. ”

"Who is the other party, worthy of your vigorous sales to me?" Nan Sheng turned around and looked out the window: "You even said the word scrapped for me." Tell me, what kind of enmity do you have with him, and you need me to help you avenge it. ”

"Look at what you said, if you really have a grudge, I'll do it myself." Tang Yan smiled: "What a good person, a very good person, and a very good person is also very suitable for you." ”

"Who?"

"Remember the day my sister couldn't think about it?"

"Yes."

"There were a lot of firefighters coming."

"Yes!"

"I said I'd introduce you to my sister."

"That's the thing." Nan Sheng nodded: "It's a shame that I wasn't a firefighter that day, otherwise, I don't know how to answer your words." This is a kind of random sales pitch to people and introducing girlfriends to people. ”

"Phew, I'm just introducing it randomly, I'm introducing it seriously. Is my sister in poor condition? Are you in poor condition? It's not bad, is it? Since it's not bad, why can't you introduce it to them. ”

"You have a point."

"It makes sense, it makes sense." Tang Yan said unashamedly: "Don't worry, I have a spectrum in my heart, if this is really the post-90s, the little fresh meat of the post-10s generation is not happy with me." Life is not an idol drama, and the kind of sister-brother love is also staged on TV, and few of them work in life. ”

Tang Yan clipped the mobile phone between her ears and shoulders, and counted with Nan Sheng with her fingers: "We have all been in love and married, and we all know what this real marriage is." You can talk to your brother about love, but you can definitely marry your brother when you get married, at least you can't marry your brother who is too many years old. You are willing to do this, but other people's parents are still unwilling. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the biggest killer of marriage. ”

"Pick it up, my kid is still asleep, wake you up and help me coax."

"I'll coax, I'll coax, I'll go over and help you." Tang Yan said: "By the way, where did I just go?" ”

"Sister and brother love." Nan Sheng had a headache and said: "Zhao Yang and I are sisters and brothers, although I am only a few months older than him, I really feel that raising him is no different from raising a son." If I hadn't met him, I wouldn't have boiled myself into a nanny and an old mother. ”

"If you hadn't met him, you wouldn't have been able to get divorced or become a single mother. Therefore, this sister and brother love us ordinary people resolutely do not talk about it. Outstanding female entrepreneurs and celebrities are exceptional, and what people talk about is not love but capital. ”

"Focus, point, point."

"That's the point." Tang Yan coughed lightly: "I found you a special one that suits you." ”

"How good is it?"

"It's a good fit." Tang Yan said: "You wait, I'll introduce you to the details of this person." Male, 40 years old, retired firefighter. He retired before 2018, and at that time he was still called a firefighter. ”

"And then?"

"Married, but childless." Tang Yan said: "The reason for the divorce is the breakdown of the relationship, to put it bluntly, he dislikes his bad job after retiring, and it is not what he expected." ”

"What is he doing now?"

"Selling firefighting equipment." Tang Yan said: "There is a store in the new area, and the business is still successful, but it can't reach the stage of getting rich. ”

"There are a few people in life who can get rich, and most of them are living an ordinary life."

"We understand this truth, because we are ordinary people, but we can change to others, and others may not understand." Tang Yan said: "I have inquired, the conditions of his ex-wife's family are very good, his parents are in business, and they have a villa in the most expensive community in the city center. The reason why I came together with him at the beginning was not only because of his handsomeness, but also because of his professional charm. You know, Brother Bing is the ideal type for many people, especially this kind of boyfriend. ”

"It's not bad that you can still open your own store after retiring."

"It depends on who you compare yourself to." Tang Yan said: "People's ex-wives have a high starting point, and the snacks used are all good." Material things are not particularly important when they are in love, especially for this kind of girl with a good background, because she can take food and drink from her parents' house, as her boyfriend, she only needs to give her enough security and a feeling of love. ”

"But marriage and love are two different things, it's not good to get married and eat and drink from your mother's house, even if your mother's family is willing, your mother-in-law is not willing. Even if his in-laws are willing, he is not willing to be a husband who has a little ambition. After a long time, there will be contradictions. Therefore, what horse with what saddle, the door is not just talking about these four words. ”

"Then why don't they have children?"

"At first, I didn't want it, I felt that I was still young, and I wanted to live in a two-person world for two more years. Later, the man didn't want it, and felt that the noisy family all day long was not conducive to the child's growth. Later, there was a divorce, and there was a lot of trouble, and the matter of having children was naturally no fun. When they got married, this man was twenty-eight, and when he divorced, he was about the same as you, thirty-six, and he didn't survive the seven-year itch after marriage. ”

This marriage