Chapter 041 You failed Nan Sheng

"I'm not kidding, since I bought a house and took a mortgage, I haven't given Nansheng money. I am responsible for the mortgage at home, and she takes care of her daily expenses. ”

"I'll go, your wife drinks the northwest wind!" Ma Jianping said: "No, not only the wife drinks the northwest wind, but even the children also drink the northwest wind together." You can help me ask Nan Sheng how she can support the family's daily expenses while taking care of the children, which is not something that can be done with one hundred or two hundred. ”

"I don't know." Zhao Yang covered his face: "I know that there are expenses at home, but I have never calculated it, nor have I asked her how her family lives." I just think I'm annoyed and stressed when she tells me those things, and I think she's vulgar. ”

"You just listen to it and you get annoyed. Brother, I didn't say you, your heart is a little too big. Haven't you ever thought that what you heard to her ears was something she faced every day. You are her husband, not her master, and she doesn't tell you these things that she is worried about, who will she tell them? If she really tells other men, you should be depressed, which means that she no longer needs your understanding and love. ”

"I-"

"You're looking for a wife, not a nanny, a nanny washes your clothes, cooks and gets a salary, what about your wife, just complaining about you, and sticking it upside down, you feel comfortable when you think about it like this." Ma Jianping patted Zhao Yang on the shoulder: "I couldn't figure it out before, I thought that if I found her as a girlfriend and a wife, she should be good to me." Why? Why should people be nice to you? Just because someone gave birth to two children for you, you can manipulate others and wantonly call others? ”

"I didn't call her."

"Then let me ask you, if Nan Sheng didn't wash your clothes, would you be angry?"

"Yes."

"Then what if Nan Sheng didn't cook for you?"

"Yes."

"That's it." Ma Jianping said: "Washing clothes and cooking is not my wife's duty, it is because people love you that they do it for you." What about you? You don't have to do anything, you have clean clothes to wear, you have delicious meals to eat, you listen to people complain twice, do you feel panicked? Don't always put yourself in your own shoes. Husband and wife are a whole, not an individual. The relationship between husband and wife emphasizes mutual giving, rather than blindly letting each other give. ”

"I have something to give!"

"What did you pay for? What else have you managed besides your mortgage? Ma Jianping scolded him: "You don't even give people living expenses." Okay, don't complain, when you get to me, you will understand that your wife is the best person in the world for you. Didn't you just ask me why I wasn't afraid of ghosts? Because I have a wife and children, because I know, it's useless to be afraid, I have to live to take care of the people I love. ”

"How are you going to solve Mamina's matter?"

"How else can it be solved, as I just said, on the one hand, start to investigate what happened back then, and see if there is anything hidden here. I always felt that she didn't come to me to ask for her life, but to seek revenge from me. It's not that she's new now, it's that I wasn't sick before, I didn't see it. This old man didn't say everything, saying that when people are healthy, they are full of yang, and they can't see those messy things, and when they are sick, they see yin and yang. ”

"That's what you think?"

"I didn't do anything bad." Ma Jianping said: "I won't associate my own illness with Ma Minna, I'm just unlucky, as long as I actively cooperate with the treatment, my disease will definitely be cured." ”

"I hope you're okay too." Zhao Yang patted Ma Jianping with his backhand: "If you need my help, just speak." There is no money, but people do, and it is still possible to run errands. ”

"Alright, don't worry about me." Ma Jianping handed over a glass of water: "We've been talking about this for a long time, what are you doing with me?" ”

"It's nothing, I just want to come to see you, I want to make small talk with you."

"Come on, who doesn't know you're a busy man." Ma Jianping said: "I heard that you are working in Songxian County now, what is going on over there, if there is a suitable job, I will introduce it to my brother." You've also seen my store, I'm afraid it won't last long. ”

"I'm not doing well over there, and I'm about to quit and do something on my own."

"Don't, what are you quitting for a good job?" Ma Jianping persuaded: "Brother, don't be impulsive, don't be impulsive." Let me tell you, this entrepreneurship is not something that ordinary people can do. If you can have a job, you can do it well, and it is better for someone to pay you than for you to ask your grandfather and grandmother to think about how to pay your employees. ”

"I can't find a job now, if I can find it, let alone 18,000, even 45,000, I'll do it." Ma Jianping drank two sips of water in a row: "Did you tell Nan Sheng about your resignation?" Between husband and wife, you have to discuss things when you encounter them, and you don't want to go your own way. The life of this wife and children is the first consideration, otherwise why get married, how comfortable it is to be single. ”

"Nan Sheng, she-"

"What's wrong with her?"

"Nothing." Zhao Yang opened his mouth a few times, but he still didn't know how to tell his old classmates about Nansheng.

"Nan Sheng's phone call is coming, if you are embarrassed to say, I will call her in person." Ma Jianping opened the address book on his mobile phone: "You tell me honestly, did you quarrel with Nansheng?" This Nansheng kicked you out? ”

"I want to divorce her!"

"What do you say?"

"I want to divorce Nansheng." Zhao Yang looked at Ma Jianping: "Really, I want to divorce her!" ”

"Why?"

"I've found someone I like, and I want to be with someone I like."

"You don't have a fever, do you?" Ma Jianping went to touch Zhao Yang's forehead, but he avoided him: "I have to remember that you and Nansheng have two children now." How old is the little one, is it a year old? Zhao Yang, you're kidding me. You and Nan Sheng have been going on for so many years, and we have two children, you told me that you have found someone you like, what do you think of Nan Sheng and your children? How do you make the mother and son live together? ”

"I thought about it, I'm sorry for Nansheng, I'm willing to leave the house, I'm willing to leave everything in the family to Nansheng. Child, the big one is with me, and the little one is with her. If I am able, I am willing to pay child support on a monthly basis, and her life will not change much. ”

"Is it about money? Nansheng has been married to you for so many years, have people ever tried to make money for you? You two got married in 2009, right? It's been ten years, and in the past ten years, you haven't even given people a living allowance, and no one has left you, do you think people care about the three walnuts and dates in your hand? Ma Jianping said angrily: "What Nansheng cares about is you, the family formed with you, and the father of two children, you say divorce, divorce?" Do you know what divorce means? It means ruining everything that people have worked so hard to manage. You can still say things that haven't changed much in her life. Zhao Yang, you can't be a man without a conscience, and you can't live up to your wife and children as a man. ”

"But I don't love her anymore, what do you want me to do?" Zhao Yang hugged his head: "Old Ma, really, I really tried my best." ”

This marriage