"What did you do your best?" Ma Jianping scratched his ears: "Zhao Yang, are you still young?" This marriage has never been a question of love or not, but a question of suitability and inappropriateness. ”

"It's not a good fit between me and Nansheng."

"A pair of shoes, you've been wearing them for ten years, and now you realize they don't fit." Ma Jianping said: "Do you like those shoes?" Tell me what's so good about those shoes? How did you recognize that the shoes were more suitable than the ones you wore on your feet? ”

"You've seen it."

"I've seen it?" Ma Jianping recalled carefully: "Just the woman who appeared in front of you when we were in the last video." ”

"That's her."

"She doesn't look too young at that age."

"It's as big as us."

"Not married?"

"Married, divorced." Zhao Yang said: "She has a daughter with her ex-husband, who is about the same age as our family. ”

"No wonder you think it fits, it was taken off someone else's foot. These second-hand shoes are easier to wear than new shoes. ”

"Old horse, can you speak less ugly."

"You've done all the ugly things, and I'm afraid I'll talk badly." Ma Jianping said: "Even if we are friends, I will not help you in this matter, let alone stand on your side." Zhao Yang, I watched you and Nansheng all the way, and I can't help the evil. ”

"You don't know my life, and you don't know Lilly."

"Lilly?" Ma Jianping repeated those two words: "Are they called so affectionate?" ”

"No, her name is Julie."

"I don't care what her name is, I just want to tell you that you're not a good fit for her."

"Why is it not appropriate?"

"Even though I only looked at her through the screen of my phone." Ma Jianping pointed to his eyes: "I knew that she was similar to those women in our store." ”

"In your shop—"

"Foot spa shop." Ma Jianping said: "She is just like the women who do pedicure in our shop, her eyes and face are full of the words endless desire. Such a woman cannot be raised by ordinary men, and they cannot control it. ”

"She's not what you think."

"She's not the only one you, right?" Ma Jianping said: "You don't have to look at me, I know." Have you ever heard of it? This restless woman in her bones has it written on her face. ”

"Do you think she understands you very well, knows you very well. This is because she has experienced many men, she has experience, and she knows how to do what she likes. ”

"Let me ask you again, do you think she is very gentle, very kind, and has a special life style, in addition to firewood, rice, oil and salt, Tiannan and Haibei, poetry, songs and paintings, everything can be chatted with you?"

"Yes!"

"Do you know why?"

"Why?"

"Because she has nothing to do, that's what she studies every day."

"She has a job."

"Having a job doesn't stop her from thinking about it." Ma Jianping said: "The employees of our foot spa shop also have jobs, but this does not affect them to work to make money and find target customers through work. Zhao Yang, a woman who really wants to live with you, thinks about those vulgar lives. Only women who don't plan to live with you will talk to you about the ups and downs. ”

"Are you so sure?"

"It's not certainty, it's experience." Ma Jianping said: "Women who like to talk to men about the wind and snow are all going for men's wallets. She pleases you and panders to you just so that you willingly take your money out of your pocket. The reason why she didn't think about the matter of firewood, rice, oil and salt was because she never thought about living with you in the days of firewood, rice, oil and salt. When she's drained of the money in your pocket and the surplus value is drained, it's time for her to leave you and look for her next target. ”

"It's all your own guess."

"If you don't listen, I won't persuade you." Ma Jianping sat down: "I just want to remind you that if she is really a good woman, her husband is reluctant to turn her into an ex-wife." Even if their marriage was her husband's fault, then after her husband and before you. Why didn't those boyfriends she dated marry her back home? If a pair of shoes has been tried on by many people, but everyone has tried it and didn't buy it, it is not because of the problem of the foot, but because of the problem of the shoe. Either the design of the shoe is unreasonable, or the person who tried it on thinks that it is a loss to buy it back at that price. ”

"These shoes that no one else wants, you want them, and you still go bankrupt to buy them, even if you buy them back, you will regret it in the future."

"I didn't think about the future, and I didn't think I'd marry Julie and really come together. I just want to divorce Nan Sheng and get out of my current marriage. Zhao Yang rubbed his face: "Of course I know that it is best not to divorce, but I can't get over it on my conscience." Every time I go back to that house after my date with Lilly, and when I face Nansheng, my heart will be very uncomfortable. ”

"Old Ma, I don't know if you can understand my feelings, it's the feeling of guilt and disgust. Perhaps, it is not Nansheng who I am disgusted with, but myself. Zhao Yang said: "I can't be as single-minded as her, I hate that I can't treat her like she did to me." But no one can control the emotional things, all I can do is set her free and let her have time to start over. ”

"You've watched too many idol dramas, right?" Ma Jianping called Zhao Yang: "Your divorce from Nan Sheng is just for you to start anew, how can you let her start again." She is in her thirties and almost forty, and she is still dragging such a young child, who do you ask her to fall in love with and spend the rest of her life with! And your house, with only a down payment, how can you make her a single mother repay the loan? Besides, she is so good to you, you have failed her and betrayed her, how can you let her trust men from now on, and how can she get married and live? ”

"She can find someone better than me."

"Wake up, you're just thinking this to appease your own conscience." Ma Jianping said in one sentence: "If a good man really has such a good encounter, your Julie can wait for you." Can she let go of a single high-quality man to hook up with a married man like you? She is still working in the society, she can't meet her, how can you let a single mother who guards her family and children meet? Zhao Yang, when you say this, doesn't your conscience hurt? ”

"It hurts, but I don't want to live like this." Zhao Yang hung his head: "I want to be selfish, I want to live for myself." ”

"You're selfish enough." Ma Jianping said: "When you fell in love with Nan Sheng, what did you give to others?" When you got married, what did you give to others? In ten years of marriage, what have you given to others? Now you can find a reason for even betrayal. Do you consider Nansheng? What if she can't bear it, what if she finds a short-term sight, what do you let her parents do? What do you let your two children do? ”

"How did you know Nansheng would-"

"I have eyes." Ma Jianping pointed to Zhao Yang's eyes: "You have it too, you can't see that Nan Sheng is a person who attaches great importance to feelings and cares about family." Divorce? You can figure it out. ”

Zhao Yang didn't know how he got out of Ma Jianping's house, he only knew that with every step he took, the temperature of his hands and feet would drop a little. The weather was not too cold, but he was like falling into an ice cave.

This marriage