"Anything that doesn't violate my principles can do it, and it doesn't touch the bottom line." Hao Ren said.

"Simple, if I become the leader of the group in the future, I want you to join the group, will you be a member of the group?"

"Hey! I thought what was the matter, this little meaning, absolutely agreed. Hao Ren said in his mouth, thinking in his heart, it will be the year of the monkey, maybe I will become the team leader first.

Zhao Mingyang nodded and said: "Just have your words, God has seen it, if you break your promise to me, none of the men will insist on three seconds, and none of the women will be blessed." ”

Hao Ren·······

This grandson actually started to curse, this is special······

"Come on! I'll talk to you first and see if you can tell the difference between these things. ”

"You say." Hao Ren listened carefully.

Zhao Mingyang took a sip of water and said: "You know a girl, you think she is very beautiful, good-looking and attractive, you tell her that you like her and gave her a new fruit mobile phone, she thinks you are good and generous, willing to socialize with you, and then share a bed with you."

You know a girl, you think she is very beautiful, very good-looking and very exciting, so you ask her how much is a night, she said the price of a new fruit mobile phone, and then you transfer it to her 6,000, she accompanies you for a night, and the next day you take 6,000 yuan to buy a new fruit mobile phone.

You know a girl, you think she is very beautiful, good-looking and very excited, and after talking to her, you hint that you want to share a bed with her, the woman said that the new fruit mobile phone came out, you buy her one, she promised to spend the night with you, and then you took her to the fruit store to buy a new fruit mobile phone, and after buying it, you went to the hotel.

What did you find? Got something? ”

Hao Ren nodded and said: "No wonder the new fruit mobile phone is often out of stock, and this mobile phone is still so valuable, it turned out to be hard currency, used for money transactions, and now it is all used for fruit mobile phones as transactions?" ’

Zhao Mingyang gave Hao Ren a contemptuous look and said, "The first one is called love, the second is called prostitution, and the third is called Yo Pao, understand." ”

"Is there any essential difference in this? Could it be that the first and third went to taxes? The second one didn't go? Hao Ren asked.

"Wrong, it's the cost of time and the consequences, the first one is relatively more thought-in, and in the end it may be the parents, the second is to save time and effort but not worry, because in the end the police uncle has to manage, and the third needs to take a little effort, but you know that it is short-lived, in the relationship between one and two, the most important thing is that the risk cost is too high, maybe the other party's husband takes a kitchen knife to take care of you, and it is useless for you to go to her house to repair the faucet.

This is the misunderstanding of many people, they think that there is no difference between these three, but in fact, the difference is very big, so big that it affects a lifetime, you have to recognize these three differences first, and then talk about chasing girls. ”

Hao Ren picked up his mobile phone, opened the memo, and said after recording the three things: "What about the back?" ”

Zhao Mingyang said: "Chasing girls, you must go from strangers, acquaintances, ordinary friends, good friends to intimate relationships, these five stages, this don't skip the level, the risk of skipping the level is very high, strangers are the beginning, how to change from strangers to ordinary friends?" That is to know, and cognition is divided into active cognition and passive cognition.

The active is to put your mind to it, to plan, how to get to know each other, and passive is to introduce friends, colleagues to dinner, etc.

After becoming an ordinary friend, you have to know how to chat, remember one thing, don't be embarrassed, if you find that the chat is awkward, end the chat, if you continue, the girl will have a bad impression of you, because you are embarrassed and she is embarrassed.

How not to chat awkwardly, you have to remember this, according to global big data, girls' preferences are: variety shows, travel, pets, constellations, movies, beauty, these categories belong to the topics that most girls like to talk about, topics of interest.

If you chase a girl, it's best to rule out makeup first, don't let the girl think that you understand this very well, you can show it when you give gifts, saying that you take the initiative to understand these things for her, and you can't come up and understand it very well, which is easy to make girls think that you deal with a lot of women.

The best way is to understand the constellation, this does not cost anything, nothing more than research, but you don't really believe in the constellation, after all, this has no scientific basis and must be accurate, you have to guide the girl to believe this, for example, her constellation is very compatible with you, and if you are not worthy, you have to find out the matching plan, what the other party is, what you like, what personality and preferences, so that the other party falls into your constellation trap and is guided by you.

When chatting, you have to learn to take the initiative to end the chat in a very good atmosphere, so that the girl looks forward to chatting with you next time, because in the chat skills of the cow, if you talk too much, there will be loopholes, which will make people tired.

Chat is a very important part of love, you have to be able to create topics, guide the direction of the chat, end the chat, this is a lot of people do not understand, simply put, you just have to learn how to make the other party interested in you and expectant.

Generally, everyone pays attention to these two points of care and attention, nothing more than paying attention to her dynamics, caring about her food and clothing, if you like a person, you will think of a way to look at her more, and you will take her as the center every day, which is what most people will do, human nature.

And most of the so-called love experts and the like are telling you how to coax girls, flatter, and stammer, but in the end, many things backfired, because many experts may not have been in love, and the kind of chic brother is not in love at most.

If you talk about love, I won't tell you if I die, unless I'm so iron with you and everyone in front of the screen, I won't tell the core of love.

From strangers to acquaintances, to ordinary friends, take some thought, love is like buying and selling, you are an entrepreneur, you are a seller, you want to seek buyers, investors, this is equivalent to starting a business.

How? Lock the target, make a detailed PPT in advance, prepare everything to start acting, you have to observe her preferences first, from her mouth, from social media, you have to make her interested in you in the end, how to generate?

Enrich yourself, as I said earlier, it's okay to study the constellations, learn the guitar or read more books, such as when a girl encounters a question she doesn't understand, give her an answer, let her rely on and trust you, every time you meet, you must have a clear goal, chat online, don't send messages all the time, don't suddenly say I love you, I like you in offline chat.

It's oppressive for girls, you know? Don't give the other party a sense of oppression, but don't be too distant, for example, if you are chatting with a girl, you suddenly get stuck, I don't know how to say it, and during the day I say that it won't disturb your work, you are busy first, talk back, and then think about what to talk about, and at night say rest early, I wish you a good dream.

When you and the girl can talk for more than half an hour every day, proving that you are good friends, you should be more careful at this time, give her enough trust, let her see your responsibility, and do not confess to her directly, but have an ambiguous, for example, I like your money, can I be my free ATM?

This kind of word, which seems to be a joke, but says that it likes it, but it doesn't say that I like you, and the girl reacts differently when she hears it.

In a word, you must not think that falling in love is so easy, and don't think so difficult, it is an entrepreneurial project, you will have experience after a few more attempts, and it is a risk-free entrepreneurship, this is not a few more attempts, it is best to do a few more entrepreneurial projects at a time, this side is not good, there is definitely no way to start a business, the most important thing to start a business is experience, don't talk about it, next time you chat, Xu Tilt over. Zhao Mingyang hurriedly took it.

"What are you talking about?" Xu Tiantian walked over and asked.