She spoke slowly. In the usual words. Whispering their future. It's like a watercolor painting with light colors. Simple. Insipid. No unrealistic fantasies. There are no delicate and touching details. But it has the most simple beauty and warmth.

Jiang Jieyun was happy to hear it. It was a sense of serene excitement. Solid happiness. He arched his head deeper towards An Ran's neck with joy. "Well said. An Xiaoran. Let's do it. ”

Note control ignored him. Just silently on the page of the small notebook in my heart with a pen in the future life development place item. Fill in the name of Shangjinling with satisfaction.

Then move on to the next item. "Where do you want to take the exam in the future?"

Jiang Jieyun still said the same thing. I don't even want to. There was no hesitation. It's a pleasure. "Whatever you want. Where are you going. I'll go wherever I want. ”

An Ran rolled his eyes. Look to the sky. "What do I learn. You learn whatever you want. ”

Jiang Jieyun sat up straight...... No matter how good someone is if they are not birds. It must have been tiring to maintain that position for a long time and tender An Ran's shoulder. He shook his head. Interpretation. "Of course not. But. Something like business management. On the premise of having practical experience. The undergraduate program is for the three of us. It's pretty much the same everywhere. Isn't there such a saying? The master led the way through the door. Spiritual practice is personal. No matter how good the teacher is. How much you can learn depends on yourself. That diploma is just to add a little systematic theoretical knowledge. We don't expect to get a job with it. I have no intention of going to graduate school...... At least not in the last few years. I'll talk about it later. So. It's the same everywhere. Bring your volunteering then. Change the major. The school can basically copy it. Unless you want to go to film school. Conservatories of music and other special professional colleges. Otherwise we'll all follow you. ”

An Ran is willing to bow down to this master's open-mindedness and self-confidence. In the days to come, there is no need to study separately from one side of the world. There is no need to worry about the worries and changes between the two places. Naturally, it is the most suitable for her. Her heart rejoiced. But they don't say it. I had to sell it cheaply and obediently supported my forehead. He sighed to himself. "Alas. How do I feel that I have a special responsibility on my shoulders? ”

Jiang Jieyun smiled. Then pat her on the shoulder. Learn from Jiang Chengzhuo and Zhao Zhenxu's usual tone to express his determination to An Ran. "yes. From now on. I listen to you. Where are you pointing. Where do I hit. Listen to you. With you. It's up to you to decide everything. You're going to have to be a good home. Top dog. The sea sails by the helmsman. Everything grows on the sun. Rain and dew moisten the seedlings

(See Note 1) ......"

Get. Talking and talking. This one also sang.

An Ran couldn't cry or laugh. He shook his head and chirped. She continued to concentrate on sketching in her small notebook. Finish writing. Then he asked Jiang Jieyun for his opinion. And yet this time. Her tone was visibly dazed, hesitating. "You say. What major do I want to fill in for the college entrance examination? ”

Choosing a school is important. But completely giving up the choice of major in order to choose a prestigious school is a bit more than worth the loss. Again. It is not entirely up to you to decide which school to fill in. It also depends on my level and ability. So on the question of what school to choose. Enron didn't think too much about it. On the contrary, it is quite entangled in the choice of major.

Jiang Jieyun didn't answer immediately this time. Instead, he thought seriously for a while. Ask. "Do you have any idea of what you're going to do in the future?"

An Ran was stunned for a moment. Immediately understood the meaning of Jiang Jieyun's words.

There are so many choices and positions that people choose and position their jobs for.

The first. Compare realistic. It's also the state that most people are in. To make a living. It's just to make a living. Rice bowl, rice bowl. Even if you don't like it anymore. In order to be fed and clothed. I have to die helplessly. Even if it's a bowl and eat meat. Put down the bowl and scold the mother. I have to endure it to the death.

The second. For the ideal. I am fortunate enough to make this choice. And the one who can persevere all the way to the end. Both lucky. Meantime. It's also admirable. Not everyone can turn their ideals into their own careers. And it starts and finishes well. Although there are no regrets.

The third. For hobbies. There is a slight difference between this and idealism. It's not that sublime. But more free and casual. The same can be true. The person who can choose a job according to his interests and be the last. It is also a minority. Once the hobby becomes a career to support the family. I can keep doing it with passion. And to do it last. It's true love. Such a person cannot even make a name for himself in the world. But it is also awe-inspiring. Tough and pure.

Perhaps there is a fourth. It is a combination of the first and the third. Both to make a living. There is some interest, too. It's been a long time. With experience and qualifications. I don't think it's too annoying. But I can't talk about how much I love it. In fact. This is enough good luck for ordinary people to envy.

Fourth. It is preference. Ideals and livelihoods at the same time. There are not many such people. I can like it. Find the right balance between ideals and making a living. It takes more than persistence. And wisdom.

Think about it. The relationship between people and professions. Sometimes it's a bit like marriage. Born to be a good couple. After all, Qin Se and Ming are in the minority. Be able to respect each other as a guest. It's not easy to go a long time. It should be cherished.

The safety of the previous life is undoubtedly the first type. Lacking academic qualifications, she had no choice.

This time.

Enron felt that he still had no choice.

This life. She has developed some good hobbies for herself, consciously or unconsciously. Like what. Cooking. Horticulture. Photography. Calligraphy. Crop. Writing......

But. She was interested in these things. But it's all mediocre talent. None of these are enough to be used as the foundation for life. I didn't love anything so much that I had to do it as a lifelong career.

If only with the blood of the moment. Make one of these hobbies your own. I'm afraid that after a few days, the passion will be gone. became a grudge couple. It's better to keep a little hobby for yourself in your leisure time.

So. Come to think of it. Enron felt that he might have to make a living for the sake of making a living. But even if it's to make a living. You have to find someone who is of some interest. Not too nasty. Or a slightly better profession. Instead of reluctantly pinching your nose to do it. Try to get as close as possible to the direction of the fourth type pattern. Find a dull marriage to live.

Another reason Enron compares a work relationship to marriage is also because she is the type of person who is reluctant to change easily once she chooses. Judging by her character. I'm afraid it's a little harder than getting her a divorce. So. on this issue. She's a pessimist, in particular. I also find it particularly difficult.

There is no choice. It's sad.

Freedom of choice. It's confusing again.

Do the math. Graduated from college in his early twenties. The current retirement age for women is between 50 and 55 years old. A job that you have to do head-on, it takes more than 30 years to do it in one go. You can't get a divorce halfway through...... Belch. Yes, it cannot be changed. Not to mention that in the future, the country may have to postpone people's retirement age due to the shortage of pension and other reasons.

Such a future. It's almost hopeless to think about.

Enron was recently spurred on by the failure of several college students to start their own businesses. I buried my head in the middle of it, thinking about it desperately. But after thinking about it, there was no result. On the contrary, the more I think about it, the more I have no idea and direction.

Jiang Jieyun listened to her analysis. In particular, her argument about the relationship between work and marriage is quite interesting. Originally, the corners of his mouth were always half-up. But when I heard her say that it was harder to make her change jobs than to divorce her. His face darkened again. Quite dissatisfied "hey". Understands and is unwilling. An Xiaoran. Be careful what you say. Your future husband. I. Sit next to you right now. Do you want to slap your face like that. Well. Be mindful of what you say. Be a little more upright. All right.

An Ran let him protest and put away the slightly distressed look on his face. Instead, he laughed a little. Reaching out and nudging the guy with a sad and angry expression on his face. "Big brother. People are talking about business. Be serious. All right. ”

Jiang Jieyun snorted. "An Xiaoran. Your attitude is greatly broken. I can remember. I'll settle accounts with you later. He said. Sure enough, no longer pestering and naughty. He raised his hand and wiped his face. It's like a professional actor who changes his face in a Sichuan opera performance. In the blink of an eye, he changed into a serious face. I thought about it. He muttered a suggestion. "It's not as good as this. Since you don't know what you want to do. What can be done. Then it's better to think about it in a different way. Do you know what you don't want to do? What not to do. ”

Elimination.

Get rid of the impossible options. The rest is the possible answer.

An Ran raised his head. I thought about it. I think this method is really reliable. At least for her, who is full of ideas now. At least it's simpler. It has a certain operability. It's also easy to put into practice.

First of all. Enron felt that he was definitely no good at science. Don't say she can't bite the bullet. Gritted his teeth and worked for thirty years. Even if the family unit is afraid of it, it is difficult to pinch the nose. frowned, unable to bear raising her such a science waste in vain. It's been a lot of years.

So. This one is the first to be the first to be without hesitation. Crossed out very firmly.

Secondly. Economics-related disciplines. She didn't dare to count on it. This self-knowledge is still there. It's not business at all. I didn't have that string in my head. If you do business on your own, you have to pay to death. I won't lose money for a part-time job in business. But it will probably the boss to death. So. Both in order not to lose oneself. Also in order not to anger the boss. She thought it would be nice to cross it out.