471, Discussion of Occupation and Character

Again. Art-related majors. It can also be saved. She was interested. The problem is that God didn't reward her bowl of rice at all. Not even a bowl of bottoms. Even if she doesn't ask for fragrant food and spicy drinks. But at least a bowl of gruel is still needed. She didn't have the determination and consciousness to drink for the sake of art. So. This option is left to those who are truly gifted and talented and can endure loneliness.

Remove these three items. There is still a lot of room for her to choose. In the remaining two years of the future. She pondered as slowly as she could. Understand and choose calmly and meticulously.

Jiang Jieyun listened to her self-summary and ridicule. No comments were made. Just a laugh. Until she finished. before he put forward his own suggestion. "I think you're choosing a major direction. You can also try to take care of your hobbies. Like you said earlier, the fourth category of job selection. You can have both a living and a hobby. Not contradictory. Like what. You love literature. But it's not just a writer who can choose from it. There are also a lot of jobs related to it. Like editors, reporters, and the like. ”

An Ran thought about it. He nodded vigorously. I found this suggestion quite useful. Think about it. Write it down prominently in a small notebook.

Furthermore. She summed it up herself.

Also take into account her own personality traits.

She is more than delicate. Lack of decision. More than patience. Lack of innovation. More than cautious. Slightly lacking in guts. More than introverted. Lack of extroversion. More than enough. Lack of leadership.

So. When considering your future career direction. Also choose one that matches your personality. Choose majors and professions that try to avoid her shortcomings as much as possible. is like the reporter Jiang Jieyun said. She didn't think she was good at dealing with strangers. It seems that it is not appropriate to choose a similar career.

Jiang Jieyun agreed with what she said earlier. Incorporate personality factors into the choice of major and career considerations. But I don't agree with what she said about not being good at communicating with strangers.

He thinks. Enron's personality is indeed a bit introverted. Not as lively as extroverts. You can laugh and scold at people in a short time. Informal mingling.

But when it comes to socializing with strangers. She also has her strengths.

She has a gentle and delicate personality. Be sensitive to other people's emotions most of the time...... Say here. Jiang Jieyun added with a little helplessness and sorrow. Of course. Except when someone has a convulsion. Remember the beginning. The time when he wanted to show her his heart. How thick her nerves are. Now think about it. It also makes people feel infinitely sad.

An Ran chuckled and ran his hand through his hair. Perfunctory as if soothing the puppy. Insincere. Then he was urged to continue. They have known each other for so long. She really rarely heard Jiang Jieyun's face-to-face direct evaluation of herself. A little curious. Put yourself in his shoes. In his eyes. What she was like.

Jiang Jieyun took a heavy bite on An Ran's cheek with a bit of revenge. Only then did he continue to speak contentedly.

Of course, she can't quickly break into the undercover talent inside the enemy in a short period of time. But she is gentle and delicate. Being considerate of others' temper can easily gain the trust and favor of others. In addition, she has a delicate and kind face that is particularly in line with her personality. It's not amazing, though. But it is also difficult to give people a sense of unattainable distance. But the more you look at it, the more durable it becomes. Make people feel comfortable. Matches her character. It's easy to let your guard down on her.

Jiang Jieyun also gave an example. "For example. The story of you and Wu Zerong going to find those old houses. I see you're pretty familiar with those old men and ladies. There are quite a few people who are still in touch with you. Look at your old house survey notes. There are various stories inside. How detailed the inquiry. It was Chu Fei who flew away. That's it. Don't tell me you're on good terms with those old men and ladies. It's because you're so nagging. There is a nickname for an old lady. ”

Enron did not answer. Just twisted it on his waist. to fight back against his ridicule. Then listen to him go on.

"You don't think you're a journalist based on your own experience. It's also not very objective. You're still too attached to the shortcomings of your character. And you can't see your own advantages comprehensively. Caution. Modest. This is your advantage. At the same time, it is also your shortcoming. ”

Jiang Jieyun clearly gave his evaluation this time. The main purpose is to set the stage for the following recommendations. "So. My suggestion is. On the issue of choosing a major and employment. You can't help but relax a little more. Don't rush to make a decision. Even if it's a decision, don't worry too much. It could be a little more daring. Give a proper change of style. You see. A lot of people are like that. Majors studied in school. It doesn't have to be the profession you end up in. And people don't necessarily have to be engaged in a profession from beginning to end in this life. If it doesn't fit. Again, it's changing. I'm most afraid that I haven't done a job that I don't like and am not good at. It's a lack of courage to try. A profession. Fit is not for yourself. Sometimes you don't know until you do it. Now you don't know what you want to do. What can be. Then try more. Tried a lot. Naturally, I found it. ”

Finally, this cautious guy is after the above big reason that goes around and around. Finally said what he wanted to say the most. "So to speak. An Xiaoran. Your idea is strange. Do you know. How can you think of a career as more important than a marriage. I actually think that changing careers is more terrifying than changing marriages. It's too unusual. I lodge a serious protest. ”

Enron originally thought that what he said before was quite reasonable. Very insightful. As a result, this master suddenly unfolded. All of a sudden, he ran to the strange route of retaliation and calculating small accounts. made her feel powerless. At the angry and serious face in front of him. I couldn't help but want to laugh. And she actually burst out laughing.

Jiang Jieyun was even more sad and angry. "An Xiaoran. How can you do that. You're so sad. ”

Enron was just laughing. But he's been playing treasure to show her. I can only feel a little "helpless" from a small laugh to a big laugh. Last gasp. Give him a guarantee. Let him spare her. Don't make her laugh all the time. "Okay, okay. Jiang Xiaoyun. I assure ** with the utmost sincerity. She laughed as she spoke. You must not get a divorce easily in the future. But be sure to approach your work with an attitude and frequency that likes the new and hates the old. That's all right. Then he added more seriously. Actually, it's because I value marriage. That's why it's particularly incapable of dealing with and communicating. Job. It's still okay. ”

Jiang Jieyun finally felt a little satisfied. Dragged and criticized. The last paragraph is more acceptable. The previous words are really too deceptive.

An Ran felt that it was indeed right to discuss these things with Jiang Jieyun. Although this guy usually looks unorthodox and out of tune. But when it comes to getting down to business. But he has a maturity that far surpasses his peers. It doesn't matter what the relationship between the two is now. He still doesn't impose his views on others. Just give appropriate advice and suggestions. But he does not shy away from her faults and shortcomings. It's reassuring. Trust. And free.

These are the three issues they are discussing today. Recently, I have been thinking about Enron repeatedly in my heart.

Pessimists especially don't like this sense of uncertainty about the way forward. She can't appreciate the fun of adventure full of infinite possibilities. She just likes to be goal-oriented. Then make a realistic plan. And work hard for it. I'm watching them fall into place. In the end, the goal was successfully achieved. A satisfying sense of accomplishment.

After this serious conversation, there was a lot of unorthodox conversation. In Enron's view. At least two have been sorted out. The remaining one can only be regarded as having a relatively clear direction of effort. Just give her time. Just take your time.

Just like Jiang Jieyun said. Take it easy. Be bold. On the contrary, it helps to solve the problem.

And at the end, there was a big laugh after Jiang Jieyun played poor. It completely opened Enron's mood. She touched Jiang Da's foodie's head. Reward. "Good. I'll make you something to eat at night. ”

The countless bloody facts have been fully proved to Chef An. There's nothing like that. It has the heart of a carnivore.

The goals for the future are becoming clearer. The pessimistic snail star An Ran is like being beaten with chicken blood and reinvigorated again.

She is very research-minded and gives full play to the characteristics of her own note-taking control. From the Internet and various channels, we have collected the professional categories of various universities in China in recent years. Eliminate those who are 100% unrelated to you. Absolutely can't do it. For the rest of the those. List them one by one. Conduct detailed and in-depth inquiries to understand. A thick notebook was also prepared for this purpose. I opened the document in the computer again. Note Maniac status is fully open. While analyzing the selection. There is actually a feeling of enjoyment.

I have to say. Once you have anything to do with the attributes of what control, there is a little bit of perversion.

An Ran teased himself like this in his heart.

She has been born again. To what I want to do. Or always have infinite patience when you make up your mind to do something. Besides, there is no urgency in this matter.

Therefore. It can also be seen from this. The snail beats the chicken blood again. It's just crazy snails too. It won't be a sci-fi mutation into a mad cow.

Jiang Jieyun sometimes teased her. squeezed her eyebrows and sang "The Snail and the Oriole" live.

The snail star An Ran actually really likes this song. Sometimes while taking notes, I hum unconsciously: ...... The grapes ripened very early. What are you going to do now? Ah Huang Ah Huang Li'er don't laugh. By the time I climb it's ripe......

Sometimes humming and humming. The tip of the note gradually stopped. A man smiled stupidly at the dense handwriting on the paper. Remembered the guy who was singing this song and teasing her. Silently chanting his name. It's like humming a sweet and clear song in my heart.