I have to say that sometimes a certain amount of adversity and pressure is the driving force that promotes people to forge ahead, especially when it comes to getting by, being lazy, and having no ambitions.

After gradually tasting the benefits of financial independence and academic progress, she also began to rethink her future life plan.

If she can't solve her marriage problems in the near future, then it is not a good choice for her to return to the small town. Although life in a small town is affluent, the pace is soothing, and it is said that it is the most comfortable to be around your parents and siblings, but if you do not want to compromise on the issue of marriage, then whether it is wealth, comfort or comfort does not belong to the older young men and women, they are always facing all kinds of pressures from all around them.

Therefore, if she can't solve her personal problems between graduations, then she will face a situation where she has no home. So, she had to stay in the big city. Of course, to be objective, although she has no prospects and ambitions personally, in terms of employment direction and professional prospects, big cities also have more opportunities and better opportunities than her hometown.

But is the big city so easy to stay?

Work and shelter are two major problems that must be solved, and if these two problems are not solved, then everything is empty talk.

If you want to get a good job opportunity, you must do better in your major, achieve better results, and at the same time, have excellent personal ability.

With good job opportunities, you can get better salaries and benefits, and finally you can gain a foothold in the city and live a good life with a house and a car.

If you want to achieve such a beautiful prospect, book friends must come up with twelve energy and efforts, tighten the lazy muscles that have been lazy for many years in the past, and continue to struggle and struggle.

After a long and arduous struggle, the book friends who fought for their happiness and freedom finally gained a foothold in the big city, found their ideal job, and with their own efforts, took out a loan to buy a house, although the house was not big, but it was enough to hold all the dreams of a dead house.

However, it is a pity that her future other half is still missing, and she has successfully become the oldest leftover girl in the mouth of the people in her hometown, even if she has been promoted, raised, housed, and bought a car in just a few years after graduation, although they are all loans, but in the circle of friends around her, she, the former housekeeper, can also stand tall and proud, but as long as she returns to her hometown, her achievements are nothing, and all her efforts are not worth a boyfriend who is not four or six.

Although she still loves home in her heart, it is becoming more and more difficult for her to go home. Usually it's okay, after all, no one will always stare at other people's homes, holidays are the hardest hit areas, when relatives and friends gather, she is about to become a lawbreaker who everyone shouts and beats, a rat crossing the street.

For this reason, gradually, in addition to the Spring Festival, a traditional festival that has to be reunited with family, book friends on other holidays began to find all kinds of excuses not to go home, busy work is the biggest and most grandiose reason, in fact, her work is indeed busy, but she is really not busy to that extent.

Fortunately, the city where she works is not far from her hometown, and it is hard to imagine that there is such a big gap between two cities so close to each other in terms of the concept of marriage, and sometimes it is incomprehensible to think about it.

Because of the convenient transportation, the book friend changed the day of returning home to a non-large holiday, and replaced it with a weekend when he was usually free, like a devil entering the village, quietly dripping back and quietly dripping away.

After such a family visit reform, book friends have lived a good life of peace and quiet for two years, but as time goes by, with the loss of the other half in the future, the Spring Festival holiday of book friends began to be even more difficult.

Because she has not seen anyone for a long time, only during the Spring Festival holiday every year, all relatives and friends have the opportunity to meet book friends once, just like the Cowherd and Weaver Girl, it is not easy, the opportunity is rare, and it is easy to save up a year of care and concern for her.

According to the book friend, since she was like a year old, she deeply experienced the psychology of the poor hired peasants in the old society when they faced the landlords and old wealth who came to collect their debts, and it was too difficult.

Moreover, as she gets older every year, her parents, brothers and sisters also begin to get anxious about her personal problems that have not been effectively resolved.

But even if they were as unswerving as ever on her side, in the face of an ambush on all sides, a full-scale siege, and the enemy's ranks were growing day by day.

Book friends feel a lot of headaches for this, originally, the Spring Festival is a year of hard work, the most should be a good time to relax, but for the big men and women, the Spring Festival is the most torturous time, the same is a year of hard work, people who start a family have the right to breathe a sigh of relief, recuperate, and celebrate the New Year, and people who do not have the other half of the qualification to take a good rest are ruthlessly deprived in the name of care.

People who don't have a family don't have human rights.

The dead house book friend is not a character who faces difficulties at all, even if she has made a little achievement in this major in a big city with her own ability, but it relies more on her excellent professional quality, rather than a particularly strong and flamboyant personality, in essence, she is still a character who does not like to argue with others, and is not good at dealing with others. Moreover, not to mention that she is an otaku girl who has no eloquence, even if the single seniors with strong wrists are facing the comprehensive encirclement and interception of the seven aunts, eight aunts, three aunts and two uncles, they can only bow down to the peak. You don't see, on the Internet, every traditional New Year's Festival, especially when the Spring Festival is approaching, as soon as the time comes, there will be a lot of men and women who have created the miserable wind and rain, collective wailing and spitting bitter water, no matter how much you have in the work, when it comes to this time, all of them are forced to bloom like bitter cauliflowers, half-dead and anxious to communicate all kinds of anti-relatives and friends to ask tricks, it can be seen that the combat effectiveness of the elderly uncles and aunts is extraordinary, against the sky.

The book friend is a careful person, because the combat effectiveness is not among the small strong, it is better not to practice the enthusiastic support of netizens with relatively strong operational tricks one by one, but to be honest, for middle-aged and elderly uncles and aunts, even if you have a thousand clever plans and thousands of words, it can't withstand my nagging concern**,**As soon as it comes out, everywhere you go, there is a bloody storm...... Ahem, wrong, torrential rain and wind. In short, don't care what you say, no matter how many tricks netizens have, there are not many that are really useful.

Until the book friend saw another older young male netizen's support, the netizen is a donkey friend who loves to travel in the mountains and rivers, according to the donkey friend himself, he has been obsessed with self-guided travel since he was in high school, and then he naturally became an enthusiastic activist in the relevant clubs when he came to college, and his friends in college have traveled a lot of good mountains and rivers. Even after graduating, he entered the society, he did not give up his hobby, but due to the busy work, the time of travel had to be changed to holidays, not only can you go to the green mountains and green waters to relax, exercise, and move well to sit at the desk stiff muscles and bones, but also escape from all kinds of blows and nagging from relatives and friends in the name of concern, it can really be said to be counted in one fell swoop.

The book friend was very interested in the triumphant display of this travel friend, but so, she asked the travel friend for advice, don't talk about other festivals, isn't it true that during the Spring Festival, you don't go home, and you go out to play in the mountains and rivers, and someone will accompany you?

Travelers are very enthusiastic and enthusiastic, this gentleman's biggest hobby in addition to touring the mountains and rivers is to develop his own team of travelers, to everyone he knows, do not know people to recommend the wonders, benefits and benefits of indulging in the landscape, seize all the time, all opportunities, spare no effort to the extent of pyramid schemes.

As long as someone is interested in this, he will patiently and enthusiastically give detailed answers, and ask book friends about the background information of donkey friends. And said, in fact, with the improvement of people's living standards, the change of ideology, the way to celebrate the Spring Festival has begun to become more and more diversified, don't let the old concept bind yourself to the reunion table, watch those Spring Festival Gala that is not as good as a year, listen to those clichés, endure the squeeze of those mothers-in-law, should take advantage of the good holiday season to go out, and change a new way to celebrate the festival.

What is the purpose of the festival?

It is to let people be fully relaxed and happy after heavy work, rather than to let people deal with complicated human relations with a more sad face after a year of hard work.

The book friend agrees with the traveler's views on the holiday, but at the same time she also said, you say so, but as long as you live in society, this thing is inevitable, the most important thing is that you don't follow the tradition, but what about your family? Another of the most important purposes of the festival is to be reunited.

Travelers began to brainwash her again, does the reunion have to be during the Spring Festival? Now the transportation is so convenient, when can you not reunite if you want to reunite, a plane ticket, a train ticket, as long as you have time to achieve the goal, it is much more convenient than the people in ancient times, why stick to the form, paint yourself as a prison, and embarrass yourself?

Moreover, the traveler also said that he has been working hard to develop his relatives and friends around him for so many years, and constantly instilled in them the concept of healthy travel.