In this way, the An family and the three foodies seemed to be fascinated by the topic of tourism, and they talked endlessly for several days, unconsciously investing a lot of enthusiasm.

At first, it was due to Enron's convulsions, reading travel brochures, taking notes, and looking at the national weather forecast, and then it triggered everyone's collective discussion, collective running and collective crooked buildings, so it in turn contributed to the degree and level of Enron's convulsions. After that, because the note-taking controller was pumping more seriously, and he had more detailed information in his hand, he continued to influence and guide everyone's discussion, crooked building and enthusiasm for running questions, influencing each other, and the more the discussion became more and more intense.

On this day, the question was crooked, from the honeymoon to the vacation, and An Ran, a reborn person with memories of his previous life, said casually, "Actually, there are many ways to celebrate the New Year or something, and this tourism is one of them." ”

That being said, in fact, even after many years, people who do not stay at home honestly during the Spring Festival and celebrate the Spring Festival in the traditional way are actually relatively small and medium, and among these minorities, they are mostly young people.

The reasons why these people choose to celebrate the Spring Festival by traveling are also different, but one common feature is that their ideas are more trendy and avant-garde, and they don't care much about the traditional form.

As for the specific reasons, there are all sorts of them.

An Ran used to meet a book friend when she was chasing articles, and she was the kind of trendy person who went out to travel around as soon as the New Year's and Spring Festival holidays arrived.

However, according to herself, she is not a trendy person, she is completely forced to become a "pseudo-trendy". I heard her say to her book friends that her hometown is a small county town. Although the times are different, and new ideas are constantly washing people's minds, but in some small towns, there are still many old ideas that are still strong, and it is said that their young people, especially girls, start a family very early, and get married in their early twenties, which is very common. Even if you are a female college student studying in a foreign country, if you don't solve yourself during school, then it is best not to go home before solving personal problems, or go home less, not to mention whether your family is in a hurry, just talk about your relatives, friends, neighbors, and neighbors around your home...... and so on, the social circle began to pay attention to you, an older leftover girl, and it was necessary to mention it, so who is the youngest of the family, they are all twenty-four, and now they don't even have a boyfriend, alas, you say that you are not worried!

In the words of her book friend, no matter how beautiful and bullish you are outside, but you haven't been in the next family after twenty-four, more than half of the people in your hometown deny your certainty, if you are over 30 and have not married and had children, then you are already an antisocial bad in their eyes, not to mention yourself, even your parents and brothers can't raise their heads outside.

Among them, the men are slightly better, and the women are really under pressure, in the face of this pressure from the environment, everyone looks at you with a look of "if you don't get married when you are old, you must be psychologically abnormal", after a long time, maybe it's really abnormal.

This book friend said to herself, she actually belongs to the kind of personality that is particularly in love and contracted, when she first went to college, she was very homesick, and she shrunk in the quilt on weekends to miss her mother and want to go home. The character is also shy.,And there's no ambition.,A little lazy.,It's a traditional person in his bones.。 Before she went to college, her dream was to go home after graduation, find a stable job, and live a good life of eating and waiting for death.

But when she came home for the summer vacation of her freshman year, relatives and friends around her began to introduce her to someone. This scared this book friend enough, she felt that she was still the same age as Hua Guhua, her heart was still uncertain, and she was very cautious and insistent on feelings, and she really couldn't do it like her peers in her hometown, and she got along for three months and a half, and felt that it was almost a quick way to get engaged or get married.

Fortunately, the parents at home are not too anxious about her personal problems, and they still support their daughter to find a match, rather than getting married for the sake of getting married.

The vacation of college students is relatively free, and many students want to take advantage of the lack of work and the family burden is not heavy, everyone has a game together, and strives to take advantage of the vacation that was oppressed by homework books in the past ten years, and the vacation compressed by work and family in the next few decades.

But An Ran's book friend is a dead house of lovers, for her, when she goes back to her hometown during the holidays, she stays by the side of her parents and brothers and sisters, and is a beloved old man of her parents and brothers and sisters, eats delicious food, drinks delicious food, and rents a lot of nests at home to watch it is the most wonderful good day, travel or something, she really doesn't have much interest, too tired, too tossed.

Since the relatives and friends around her began to pay attention to her personal problems one after another, she began to realize that she was no longer a little bit in the hearts of her parents and siblings, and she had grown up to the elderly in her hometown who should be eager to solve her personal problems.

Even if her parents, brothers and sisters are in front of her and say that our family is still young now, and we are not in a hurry to solve personal problems.

can not stand the local customs, even if the tone of the parents and brothers and sisters is very resolute, but on the contrary, there are still people who keep persuading them and giving them turns to do ideological work, saying that they are not responsible, and your family is still young? What is small, her age is not small in our area, you see who is younger, people have been married a long time ago, and the children are one year old, and your family can not delay any longer. While you're still old, hurry up and find one, in fact, it's a little late now, and if you don't find a good guy, you will be robbed. Isn't this what we've been parents all our lives with? Children can not be in a hurry, they are young, they think less, see less, but we adults can't count in our hearts, we have to think for them. Your family is not in a hurry, how can you not be in a hurry, you want to see her delayed? I know that you love her and want her to stay at home for a few more years, but that's not loving her, that's hurting her. In a woman's life, isn't the most important thing to find a good man and have a good child? You don't want to persuade her well now, and you still protect her, and when she really can't find a partner in the future, she can't start a family, and when she gets older, she will inevitably blame you......

And so on.

As a result, people in a big city still look like flowers and bones, and people in their hometown look at the age of older young women, so they have to start thinking about their marriage early.

In the words of that book friend, I didn't know what to look for at that time, I was young, I patronized the first ten years to study and read, and the school at home was strictly guarded against letting us fall in love, how could I have time to ponder the problem of the opposite sex. As a result, when I got to college, I didn't have time to breathe a sigh of relief, and I was immediately forced to get married by the pressure of the environment.

Originally, book friends don't go home, parents and brothers and sisters are not often talked about and persuaded by others, after all, people are not around? Occasionally, someone remembers it, and it's easy to shirk it. But after she went back on vacation, such a big living person stayed at home, and the small town was not big, no matter how much she stayed, she couldn't really stay at home, especially during the New Year's Festival, when relatives gathered together, and the pressure she herself was not small, but the pressure of her parents and brothers and sisters who bravely stood in front of her was really huge, not one or two, but the persuasion of relatives and friends around her in turns.

Although the parents and siblings are more resistant to pressure and have always been steadfast in their positions, the book friends are really sad in their hearts.

The cruelty of reality forced book lovers to start planning their vacations again.

The traditional New Year's and Spring Festival are also available, and other times, she has to postpone her trip home. But at that time, she was really not interested in traveling or anything, so that a lazy dead house could experience the fun of traveling, especially in the summer under the scorching sun and the cold wind in winter, she really couldn't like it.

What should I do, the book friend is a good child, and he began to share a house with his classmates who were busy working and studying during the holidays, and at the same time, in order to earn living expenses and rent, the book friend also started a part-time work and study holiday life. Tutoring people in the morning, nesting at home in the afternoon to supplement professional knowledge, and enjoying free time in the evening, plunging into his own rented house, Shenma doesn't want to, and keeps seeing sleep. Anyway, if you don't go out, you won't go out.

In this way, the book friend had to start his part-time job early, not that the family was short of this money, in the words of the book friend, the family did not lack her rent and living expenses during the holidays outside, but when I thought of making my parents embarrassed because of myself, where was I embarrassed to be a hand-out party.

This was the initial idea, and her part-time job was originally a last resort, which was the so-called "forced to Liangshan". But when she gradually began to taste the benefits and sweetness of economic independence with the money she earned from her part-time job, she began to really face up to the matter of part-time work, and also re-corrected her attitude and re-planned the direction of her part-time job.

At the same time, in order to increase her income, she also included the scholarship in her own struggle. The original learning attitude of getting by is gone.