Chapter 270: True Destiny?

Seeing that IU finally listened to the persuasion, Lee Seung-woo stopped talking nonsense.

If it weren't for the fear that IU would be provoked, in case he impulsively disclosed it directly to the outside world, Lee Seung-woo would be fine, and he would be so much nonsense with IU.

Although even if IU is really public, he can use the routine of talking too much, but after all, it will hurt his feelings by causing trouble, so if he can eliminate the hidden danger, Lee Seungwoo doesn't mind spending more time.

No way.

Women, confused.

Meanwhile.

Girls' Generation Dormitory.

Just as Lee Seung-woo was appeasing IU, Lim Yoon-a was 'asking' with Tiffany.

"Ernie, I heard that people abroad are quite open, is it really fake?"

It's not good to consult Lee Seung-woo directly, and it's inconvenient to reveal too much, so Lin Yuna decided to knock on the side, just take it as a small talk, and ask Tiffany's opinion from the side.

"What do you mean by openness?"

Lin Yun'er nodded.

Tiffany was a little surprised: "Why did you suddenly remember to ask about this?" ”

Lin Yun'er said: "I've been bored watching an American drama these days, and I saw that the men and women in it didn't seem to care about their private lives, so I was a little curious and asked Ernie about it." Didn't Ernie grow up abroad when he was a child, so he must have heard a lot about this, right? ”

Tiffany smiled: "You yourself said it was a TV series, just like Korean dramas, the male and female protagonists in it are all simple, even if you hold hands, you can blush." TV series, source life, transcendent life, are relatively fake. Although the private life of the United States is indeed much more open than that of Asia, after all, the cultural attributes are different, but it is not as wanton as in the TV series.

How to say it.

The characters in the TV series are special cases, and most ordinary Americans are not so open, in fact, they are similar to those in China. ”

Lin Yun'er said: "In other words, there are really that kind of people in the United States who have a particularly disorderly private life?" ”

Tiffany laughed: "Don't talk about the United States, which country doesn't have it?" The indiscretion of private life is related to personal experience and character. The simplest case, if you think about it, is not handsome, humorous, or rich, you just want to be romantic, you have to have that condition. If you have to worry about three meals a day every day, or if you have a general and wooden personality, it is difficult for this kind of person to find a girlfriend, how can it be like in the TV series, the two sides will go to bed immediately after a pair of eyes. ”

Lin Yun'er said: "Ernie, do you know or know anyone in the United States who is particularly open in private life?" Ernie thinks what kind of mentality this kind of person is, after watching the TV series, I am always a little curious. ”

Tiffany didn't doubt it, and said casually: "What other mentality can it be?" Men, how many of them are not careful? It's not that most men don't want to spend their hearts, they just don't have their own conditions and capital. Just like a woman. If it weren't for the influence of social climate and the fear of being blamed by the outside world, women would actually have a lot of hearts. This is better on the U.S. side than South Korea.

After all, the culture of the United States is different from that of South Korea, and the traditional atmosphere is also different, so American girls are relatively less restricted.

For example, those female stars in Hollywood, break up with this today, fall in love with that tomorrow, and the social tolerance is extremely high, so there is a lot of news about female stars in the United States falling in love and breaking up, and their boyfriends have changed one after another, and not many people really care about it at all.

But not in South Korea.

You have to worry about public opinion, but also about your personal image, the more times you fall in love, or the more scandals you spread, it is easy to affect your career. ”

Lin Yun'er nodded, she also understood this, and after changing the topic, she asked again: "What about Ernie you?" Do you think it's better to be a wandering boy or a boy who is stable at home? ”

Tiffany said, "It's a matter of time." If you are in love, it must be more interesting to wander around. A man can wander, either he has a good appearance and is humorous, and can always bring freshness to girls, or he is generous and willing to spend money for women, otherwise there will not be so many girls dating him. But if you get married, it is naturally better to stay at home. ”

As if thinking of something, after a pause, Tiffany added, "But it's not necessarily. ”

Lin Yun'er cooperated: "Oh? ”

Tiffany said: "Those who are stable at home do not necessarily have to stay at home all the time, and those who are wandering in the wind are not necessarily wandering all the time. People are all looking for novelty and excitement. It's human nature, and it's instinct. When life becomes repetitive day after day, many people will have times when they are bored and tired. Just like a neighbor of our family in the United States, he usually behaves very steady, caring for his family and being considerate, but no one expected that he would divorce his wife in his fifties and find a girl in his twenties, saying that he was pursuing true love.

How can there be any true love, isn't it just greedy for people's youth, and tired of living with his wife.

So, ah.

Those who are honest and do not necessarily do their duty all the time, but they don't have that opportunity and don't have that condition.

Once there is an opportunity, many people derail, it is just a thought.

The more you are at peace for a lifetime, because you haven't experienced it before, you will inevitably be curious and full of illusions in your heart, and when the opportunity comes, you will be more likely to be tempted.

On the contrary, those who are wandering, who should have experienced have experienced, who should have played, and even those who should have seen through have seen through.

But it's hard to say.

After all, you can't guess what they think, just because you can't guess, they will bring you freshness and excitement. So you don't know when he's going to be able to retract, and you can't even be sure that the person who can make him retract is you. Most of the girls who follow the wandering people in their relationships mistakenly think that she is the real daughter of the other party, and some girls do, but most of the girls are passers-by.

So it's interesting to be in a relationship with that kind of person, because you're never bored, you're honestly scared, you're worried, you're going to have all kinds of worries, and your life is never dull. What will happen tomorrow, or the next moment, you can never guess.

This is incomparable to falling in love with an honest person.

When you fall in love with an honest man, your every move, word and deed is clear to you, tomorrow is today's repetition, and today is just tomorrow's rehearsal, and there is no freshness at all.

And when you fall in love with a wandering person, you can't feel at ease, full of troubles, but because you can't be at ease, there will always be surprises and accidents in life.

And once you are really the true daughter of the other party, you will have a great sense of accomplishment when you defeat many other girls.

But the odds are too small.

Most girls just have this idea, so they will only be one of the passers-by, and the chance of becoming a stepping stone is far higher than the chance of becoming a real girl.

So, ah.

It's okay to fall in love and pursue stimulation, but if you get married, it's more stable to be an honest person.

There are also risks, but the risks are much lower. ”