Why?

If Choi Hyun-jin had asked this before, Lee Seung-woo would have given him an answer that was inappropriate for both parties at most.

And after thinking about it for a while, Lee Seung-woo now has a deeper understanding.

This is also the reason why he completely dismissed the idea of marrying Kim Ji-yoon, and almost no longer even had any thoughts about getting married. - Some things are just unthinkable, and once you think of them and figure them out, you suddenly feel that they are very boring, or even meaningless.

Glancing at Choi Hyun-jin, Lee Seung-woo didn't answer directly, but asked first: "Speaking of which, since the filming of the first movie, I have been busy in the past two years, and you don't care much about Hyun-jin." ”

Li Chengyou's voice fell, and Cui Xianzhen hurriedly said: "Brother, don't say that, if it weren't for my brother, how would I have my current status." My family's life has changed, and my brother gave me a luxury car on my birthday last year, which is all the changes my brother has brought to me, and my brother has helped me a lot. ”

"Huh."

Li Chengyou smiled and waved his hand: "Let's not talk about these foreign words." We grew up together, since the first movie, Hyunjin, you have been helping me, these are all you deserve. After a slight pause, Lee Seung-woo said again, "I remember when you first went to college, you talked about a girlfriend in your freshman year, right?" ”

Cui Xianzhen said: "Well, brother, but we broke up a long time ago." ”

Lee Seung-woo said: "Why did you break up? ”

Cui Xianzhen's tone was slightly dark, and he said in a low voice: "Because I have no money and my family background is average, I can't give her what she wants." ”

Li Chengyou smiled: "Then she will definitely regret her death now, how about it, did she contact you again and find you to get back together?" ”

Cui Xianzhen was speechless: "Brother, I'm not stupid, how can I get back together with such a utilitarian girl." After a pause, he added, "She did come back to me later, but I ignored her." ”

"And now?"

Li Chengyou asked again: "It's inconvenient for me to ask more about your private life, and I don't know much, have you recently had a new girlfriend?" ”

Cui Xianzhen said: "We did talk about it again in the past two years, but we broke up after that." ”

Li Chengyou smiled: "What is the reason this time, should it be because of money?" ”

Cui Xianzhen said: "It's not. This time, the main reason is that I am too busy with work and have no time to accompany her, I can't give her the company she wants, and I quarrel every day, so I don't want to delay her anymore. ”

Li Chengyou smiled when he heard this: "Talk about money when you have no money, and talk about love when you have money, you are indeed in a dilemma." ”

Cui Xianzhen said: "Brother, it's not just me who is in a dilemma, which man in the world is not like this." Just like the brain-dead question that women often ask, if my mother and her fall into the river, who will save them first? You say that such a question is not brain-dead, who can ask it? You replied to save your mother, she blamed you for not putting her first, you didn't love her enough; If you answer that you will save her first, and you will not even save the mother who gave birth to you, let alone say that you can't get by with your conscience, she will feel that you are insecure.

So I can see through my brother, this woman, I can't take them too seriously.

The more you take them seriously, the more they will embarrass you. If they don't be demons a few times a day, their lives will be like they can't live.

Like the two girlfriends I talked to, I didn't have much of what they wanted from me.

When I didn't have the money to talk to her, she preferred to talk to me about money. When I got rich and didn't have time to spend with her in order to make money, she fell in love with me again.

Brother, do you say these women are brain-dead? ”

"Hehehe......"

Lee Seung-woo smiled dumbly, and he also found it funny.

Choi Hyun-jin's experience is his own experience, but it is also the experience of most men in the world.

Previously, Lee Seung-woo divided human instinct into two parts: 'life' and 'happiness'.

Men are biased, women are happy.

Later, after having a new understanding, he reduced his instinct from 'life' and 'happiness' to the traditional 'life' and 'death'.

And looking at men and women from the perspective of life and death, it is even clearer -

Men look to life, women to death.

Men's desires are simple and simple. And women's desires are complex and changeable.

Since I have a new understanding of life, Lee Seung-woo recently watched "I Ching" in his spare time while filming, and felt that there is a sentence in "I Ching: Dictionaries" to describe this mentality of women is very appropriate-

Yi said: "Don't benefit it, or hit it, don't be constant, fierce." ”

What do you mean?

Reading the Book of Changes, everyone has their own understanding, there is no standard answer, Li Chengyou's own understanding is: both want this and think that, and if you are undecided, you will put yourself in danger.

After all, this society is not an individual society, but a group society, and people are gathered among themselves.

If you are unsettled, others will not be able to trust you, and if others do not trust you, they will naturally have no confidence in you, not only will they not help you, but they will even preemptively kill you for fear of being betrayed or persecuted by you.

Therefore, the heart is not constant, fierce.

Half-hearted people can't please anywhere, and most of them achieve nothing.

The same goes for women.

The more the mind changes, the more desires, and the more wants, the less trust a man has in a woman, and the more likely it is to have problems.

This is also why men are looking forward to life, women are looking to death, and most women like to be demons.

Instinctive.

As for why Lee Seung-woo brought the topic to Choi Hyun-jin's love issue, it was also to make it easier for Choi Hyun-jin to understand what he was going to say next.

After all, Choi Hyun-jin grew up with him and Kim Ji-yoon, and Lee Seung-woo didn't want Choi Hyun-jin to think that he was ruthless and unintentional, and then had bad associations and became detached.

Although even if Choi Hyun-jin deviates from morality, Lee Seung-woo doesn't care too much, but it's better to worry about the troubles that can be avoided in a sentence or two.

Smiling, Li Chengyou said: "Actually, Xianzhen, you said this, I have also experienced and thought about it. Later, after careful analysis, I found that there is actually a difference between the needs of men and women for each other. In other words, men and women have different needs for each other at different stages. ”

"The difference? What's the difference? Choi Hyun-jin asked curiously.

Lee Seung-woo smiled: "How can I say it." Hyun-jin: What do you think is the greatest value that a man can provide to a woman? ”

Cui Xianzhen thought for a moment, and simply shook his head: "Brother, you still tell me directly, you know that my brain is not good." ”

Li Chengyou smiled, shook his head dumbly, and didn't ask any more: "In fact, whether it is a man or a woman, as long as it is a human being, it has its own value." The values that men and women share, or values that are not very different, are emotional values and physical values. You can understand this. ”

Choi Hyun-jin nodded.

The emotional value is easy to understand, simply put, you love me and I love you. As for the physiological value, it is better understood, three words, roll the sheets.

Lee Seung-woo said: "In addition to these two values, in fact, the most competitive and core value of men is the value of survival. And women, it is the value of fertility. ”