"The value of survival? Brother means ...... Power, money, status? ”

Lee Seung-woo smiled: "It can be understood so. Power, money, and status are essentially material guarantees and security guarantees for women. In the words of women, it is...... Security. ”

"Got it."

Cui Xianzhen nodded: "Material guarantee is a worry-free life, everything is still looking at money." As for safety, in other words, there are dangerous men on it, and there are pits for men to fill in. ”

Lee Seung-woo couldn't help but laugh again when he heard this.

Although Choi Hyun-jin said it vulgarly and explicitly, I have to say that this is indeed the truth.

The so-called sense of security that women often emphasize, dissecting the surface and dialysis essence, its essence is worry-free food and clothing and personal safety. Of course, on this basis, such as comparison, vanity, face, etc., are other added value. But the core part of it is still in the material guarantee and security guarantee.

This is also why women look down on those men who are in the bag, and why women are strong in their hearts.

If men's conditions are not even comparable to women's, and they can't provide women with material guarantees and security, then why should a woman find a man, she can defend herself, and why should she be dependent on others?

Men look to life, women to death.

Women's instincts determine that women want more, are more obedient, and are more greedy for pleasure than men.

And if you are greedy for pleasure from the heart and don't know how to control your desires, it is easy to put yourself in danger, which leads to the fact that a woman must have a guarantee to solve her problems, and the biggest role of men for women is this.

As for the emotional value that men provide to women, as well as the physical value, these are secondary needs.

Otherwise, there would be no aunts and wives in ancient times, and in modern times, they are renamed second and third wives.

What these aunts and wives and second wives and third wives want, as well as those female celebrities who are fostered or have unspoken rules, what they need is only the material satisfaction and security provided by men.

Therefore, the survival value is the first value and the first competitiveness of men.

In the same way, for men, the same is true for women.

The greatest value of women to men - in ancient times, when Ru Mao drank blood without ethical concepts, after all, there was no concept of family father and son at that time - but as far as the current ethical society is concerned, the core value of women is indeed the value of childbirth.

Of course.

The so-called fertility value is not only about reproduction, but also includes genetic optimization such as appearance, as well as the education of the next generation. These require women to meet the requirements in terms of appearance, knowledge and wisdom.

In addition, the woman must ensure the purity of the man's bloodline, which is the basis for the maintenance of the marriage relationship.

Women are mostly tolerant of men cheating, while men are rarely tolerant of women cheating.

The fundamental reason for this is that men and women have different core values for each other.

The core value of men is the value of survival, and as long as this value is not destroyed, there is a basis for survival.

The core value of a woman is the value of childbirth, and cheating makes this value unreliable and unstable, and once this value is broken, the foundation of survival will also be broken.

Therefore, compared to women, men are more intolerant of cheating on each other.

Meantime.

Whether it is a man or a woman, when choosing a partner, they will also compare these core values, choose the best of the best, and only when their own conditions do not meet the expectations of the other party, they will be screened to the next level.

And compared to women, why are women upwardly compatible and men downwardly compatible?

This involves another advantage in women's physiology, and it is also a woman's biggest and most core advantage, that is, fertility talent.

is like the daughter country in "Journey to the West", no man can still have a child if he drinks the water in the Zimu River.

According to modern genetic theory, the combination of XY chromosomes is a boy, and the combination of XX chromosomes is a girl.

It can be said that theoretically, even if men are extinct, women's reproductive talents can still ensure the continuation of genes, but this inheritance is all female, which is too homogeneous in terms of race. And in nature, this parthenogenesis also exists. So, men are not indispensable.

And this congenital defect leads to the fact that compared to women, men instinctively have a great sense of crisis.

This is also why men are born to be rational.

Because there is no golden finger of fertility talent in physiology, men are not indispensable, so men are born with a sense of crisis. Compared to men, women have a much smaller sense of crisis. A woman's fertility talent guarantees a woman's right to survive under certain conditions.

Just like in ancient wars, hostile forces often killed all men, while women relied on their fertility to get a chance to survive.

This is true even in peacetime as well as in modern society.

A man is poor and ugly, basically no woman will favor him, and it is certain that he will be a bachelor for a lifetime. And even if a woman is poor, even if she is ugly, or even demented and stupid, she can still rely on the golden finger of fertility talent to find a man to support her.

So compared to men, women really have golden fingers.

According to the theory summarized by Lee Seung-woo, people have two major instincts, namely the survival instinct and the hedonistic instinct.

Compared with men, women's reproductive talent determines that they have a higher right to survive than men, and the sense of crisis of survival is much smaller.

That's why women are more hedonistic and sensual.

This is influenced by their fertility talents.

The reason why women are strong and why they emphasize their sense of security so much is also because they are influenced by their instincts. ——Subconsciously tell them that only when they solve the problem of survival, have material and personal security, and have the backing, can they chase their desires and pleasures without pressure.

Isn't that true in society?

The pressure on men to survive is much higher than that of women.

Compared with men, if women have less desires and have men in front, they can really enjoy life far more than men.

As for men, compared with women, without this golden finger, it is not indispensable - especially for individual men - so the sense of crisis of men's survival is stronger, and they are more inclined to life and rationality.

Because if a man is emotional, it will only reduce his survival rate.

And survival is the first instinct of man.

Men have to be rational.

…………

"Brother, what do you think, do you think what I said is wrong?"

Lee Seung-woo was having some thoughts divergent, and Choi Hyun-jin's voice suddenly sounded in front of him, and he came back to his senses in an instant, and smiled at Choi Hyun-jin, Lee Seung-woo shook his head and said, "No." I'm just trying to figure out how to explain it to you. ”

After a slight pause and sorting out his thoughts, Li Chengyou looked at Cui Xianzhen and said, "Just now Xianzhen, you asked me why I broke up with you Zhiyun Nuna, in fact, after talking about it now, I think you can also come up with some internal reasons Xianzhen." After pausing again, Lee Seung-woo said, "Just like the two girlfriends you dated before." In fact, for women, most of them only put the value of men's survival first when they get married. ”

And the rest of the time, when in love and after marriage, women value more about whether the man can provide them with emotional value. There are many such emotional values, such as loyalty, companionship, compliance, attachment, romance, affirmation, and so on. As long as the emotional value offered by men does not meet their expectations, then women will be disappointed, will complain, will be unwilling, and will be resentful. ”

"But you have some idea of my situation. I can't be the same to Ji-yoon, and I don't have the confidence to provide her with the emotional value she needs, or rather, I don't have the confidence to provide any woman with the emotional value that meets their expectations. Because the emotional value that women expect is to hope that men will put them first, take them as the center, and love them without regrets, infinitely tolerant, and regardless of return.

Honestly, I don't know if other men can do it, but I know that I can't do it.

I love myself more than a woman.

This is true of other women, and so is Ji-yoon. In my mind, they can never come first, so I can never live up to their expectations.

If you don't live up to expectations, women will be disappointed.

This point, Ji-yoon has actually shown before.

Women want to be sought after, and they also want to be held in the palm of their hands by men. I don't know if the guy you met this time who was drinking coffee with Ji-yoon was the same person I met last time.

But from the two performances before and after, it shows that Jiyun is actually unwilling.

As for people, if they are unwilling, they will bury resentment, they will regret if they have resentment, they will regret if they regret, and if they have regrets, they are easy to make mistakes once they are stimulated or suddenly impulsive.

And women are sensual, and they are creatures that are easily dizzy and impulsive.

You say that if you foresee the outcome of an event from the beginning, you know that it will be an inevitable mistake and there is a high probability that it will happen.

Hyunjin, if it were you, what would you choose?

What's more, Ji-yoon is not simply just an ordinary woman, the relationship between our two families is there, and the relationship between the two of us is also more complicated, which involves too many people, my uncle and aunt, Ji-so, and Ji-so, too many complicated personnel are involved.

I'm a relatively selfish person, I can make mistakes, but I don't allow Ji-yoon to make mistakes. But I can't really control her, and I don't want her to live an unhappy life, and marrying me is like being in purgatory, physically and mentally tormented.

So I thought about it.

Why bother?

Those who want everything will only get nothing. People are too greedy, they are tired, and others are also tired, so it is better to disperse and forget about each other.

This person is not greedy or paranoid, so that life will be easier and life will be more fun.

Do you say, Hyunjin? ”

Choi Hyun-jin: "......"

He smiled and nodded in response.

If it had been two years ago, he would have refuted Lee Seung-woo. But now, with money, he can also experience Lee Seung-woo's happiness.

Men, they are more kind-hearted, and when they have money, they want to take care of a few more girls.

So.

The so-called upward and downward effect.

The big guys have taken the lead, how can he not keep up with the big guys.

You have to learn from the big guys.