Seeing that IU bowed his head and admitted his mistake, Lee Seung-woo accepted it when he saw it.

His purpose is not to criticize IU, nor to accuse IU, let alone to prove that he is right, IU is wrong, and all accusations and criticisms of IU are only means, not ends.

He really likes IU, and he also wants to go down with IU.

Otherwise, his rhetoric would not have seemed to be a constant denial of IU, but in fact a way of affirming IU.

Negation is only a means, and the affirmation of negation is the end.

That's exactly what happened.

IU is obviously useless to be refuted by him on the surface, but what he gets more in his heart is satisfaction and affirmation.

Maybe in the eyes of others, he is PUA suppressing IU, but many people don't understand that the real PUA is to suppress someone's value all the time, so that he begins to doubt himself and deny himself, so that he completely loses himself in his soul and becomes a subordinate and dependent person who only wants to affirm himself through the affirmation of others.

Just like those who worship God and seek Buddha, hoping to gain inner peace through God and Buddha.

And in the eyes of true Buddhist practitioners?

The Sixth Patriarch Huineng's "Altar Sutra" once said: Charming chanting Buddha, seeking to live there; Enlightened people purify their hearts.

Thus.

Everything can only be sought inwardly, and it is true to seek oneself instead.

It is precisely because I have read a lot of books recently and realized this that Lee Seung-woo's thinking has changed dramatically, and his attitude towards IU and others has also changed.

Someone likes you and affirms your worth, which is something to be thankful for.

Only when you have a grateful heart in your heart, while the other party affirms respect yourself, you can also give back the respect and affirmation to the other party, so that you can truly handle the relationship between the two parties harmoniously and truly enjoy the happiness that this relationship can bring.

Otherwise.

Three days a big fuss, two days a small fuss, every day is bothered by these trivial things, so why bother to maintain such a relationship, tiring others and yourself.

Lee Seung-woo didn't want that.

He actually knew that the reason why IU would suffer from gains and losses, and he would be uneasy was precisely because IU was not sure of her value in his heart, and had always held denials and doubts about himself, which was the real reason why IU was emotionally capricious during this time.

Before Lee Seung-woo came to his senses, he didn't quite understand this, and he only felt bored by IU at that time.

But after realizing this, he came to his senses.

So his purpose tonight is to give IU affirmation, affirm IU's value in his heart, and then let IU affirm himself and no longer suffer from gains and losses.

At this moment, IU bowed his head and admitted his mistake, and also realized the meaning of his words, Li Chengyou accepted it when he saw it, and stopped in moderation, neither wanted nor needed to give IU a face, and the expression on his face immediately changed.

Slowing down his expression, shaking his head with a wry smile, Li Chengyou raised his right hand, gently wiped the tears on IU's cheeks with his thumb, pinched IU's cheeks, and said softly: "Silly girl, we have been dating for so long, you still don't know what kind of person I am." If I didn't really like you, and you had so many troubles with me, how could I still have the patience and be willing to continue to associate with you. ”

IU greedily grabbed Lee Seung-woo's hand that was pinching his cheek, and said coquettishly: "Okay, okay, didn't I admit that I was wrong, okay, I promise not to do this again in the future." ”

Lee Seung-woo smiled and nodded. …

But in my heart, I didn't believe IU's words at all.

Women are emotional creatures, emotions are never constant, one moment to like, the next moment to be angry, it is simply commonplace.

Whoever believes a woman's word is really foolish.

So.

Even if IU admits his mistake, Lee Seung-woo will not really be nothing.

As the old saying goes, if a small tree is not cultivated, it is difficult to become a tree.

Confucius also said that if you pass without changing, you are saying that you have passed.

To put it simply, if a person does something wrong, it is not called a fault, but if he does something wrong but does not repent, and he will do it again next time, this is called a fault.

So how do you get a person to repent of something wrong?

The wise will be vigilant themselves, but the unintelligent as well as the women ...... That's not what you think.

In order for the person who has done something wrong to know repentance and be vigilant, it is necessary to make him understand that there is a price to be paid for doing something wrong, and it is a price that is imminent, so that he will lose something, so that after experiencing the pain and distress of loss, he will be taught a lesson, and he will be tempered the next time he is impulsive.

Lee Seung-woo is going to deal with IU in this way.

Pinched IU's cheek again, and Lee Seung-woo laughed and said, "If you can recognize your mistakes, it seems that you can still be saved." But if you make a mistake, you have to admit punishment, you don't have a problem with that, right? ”

IU's eyes rolled, I don't know where I thought it was crooked, and as soon as I jumped, I straddled Lee Seungwoo's lap, wrapped his hands around his neck, blinked, and said in a coquettish voice: "Okay." I pleaded guilty. So you're ready to ...... How do you punish me? ”

Lee Seung-woo: "......"

You're pretty good at making up your brain, and you think beautifully.

was funny, but Li Chengyou said casually on his face: "Since you yourself also admit punishment, then I will say the punishment opinion." ”

Hearing this, IU leaned forward, his forehead was close to Li Chengyou's forehead, exhaled like an orchid, and said in a coquettish voice: "Okay." I listened. You say, how do you want to punish me, I just went to the mall this morning and bought a ......"

Lee Seung-woo interrupted: "I have said that the MV of my new movie promotional song will be sung and filmed by you, and the punishment for your mistake this time is to cancel your qualification this time." ”

"Huh?"

IU was stunned: "...... That's it? ”

Lee Seung-woo spread his hands and expressed his affirmation.

IU was speechless.

I was stunned for a moment, and then seemed to think of something, and suddenly said: "You disqualified me, who are you going to sing it to, it won't be Lin Yun'er, right?" Or is it some other woman? ”

Li Chengyou shook his head resolutely: "How come?" Since I promised to give you a song, even if you made a mistake this time and disqualified you this time as a punishment, this song is what I promised you, and it will only be given to you, and it will never be given to a second person. It's the least respect for you, and you deserve it. ”

IU：“……”

When he heard the words 'you are worthy' from Lee Seung-woo's mouth, his eyes were wet for a moment, and tears quietly welled up again.

For Lee Seung-woo, she really doesn't ask for much, she just doesn't want Lee Seung-woo to feel that she loves him for granted, all her dedication, all her care for Lee Seung-woo is what she should do and should be. She wants to be seen by Lee Seung-woo, to see her sincerity, to see her dedication, and to be able to respond.

Until this moment, until this moment, the three words 'you are worthy' finally let IU go.

finally let IU know that all her intentions and dedication, Lee Seung-woo has always known, has always seen it in her eyes and remembered it in her heart, and has always responded to her.

Just before.

Lee Seung-woo is doing more than talking, so she didn't see it and ignored it.

And now.

Lee Seung-woo gave her affirmation with his actions and words, and she finally really knew that she had never been a passer-by for Lee Seung-woo.