"Now I wonder if someone deliberately tricked me? The girl who came to give me the dress didn't say anything, causing this big mistake. ”

"No, don't blame others for the mistake, this matter is that Zhou Ye did something wrong, or that he has different requirements for you in his bones, what he wants is a perfect you, and if I were him, I would want a free you."

"But I really should have dressed up for such an occasion, and I was very ashamed at the time."

"This episode shouldn't affect you for long."

"Yes, I forgot about it after a while, it was my fault after all."

"Then tell me about your second conflict. _o_m ”

"How do you know that we still have conflicts, in fact, the two of us are really good, he spoils me very much, and there are not so many conflicts in school, he and I are simply living a heavenly life, you don't know this feeling, when you have love in your heart, it seems that the rain is also a sunny day, even if it is a cold winter."

"Okay, let's not talk about these sweet things, let's talk about the second conflict between the two of you."

Xu Xiaoai sighed: "Speaking of this second contradiction, it is also more bloody. ”

"Once, I accidentally learned that he brought a sister online when he was playing a game, I didn't care about it originally, but after listening to what others said vividly, I didn't care and asked: 'Zhou Ye, who is your sister?' Never like I've ever heard you say that? "

Unexpectedly, Zhou Ye suddenly became angry: "Which bastard is this, chewing his tongue there, obviously I have nothing to do with this sister, I have to be a mess by everyone, Xiao Ai, if others don't believe me, forget it, why don't you even believe me?" "

I didn't expect Zhou Ye to have such a big reaction at the time, but the things that I didn't care about were labeled instead, and I looked at him suspiciously: 'An ordinary sister, as for making you so excited?' "

Then I relentlessly asked him which sister it was, and Zhou Ye later explained to me that she was a little girl in their family circle.

He really thinks of him as a sister, but there is always someone who wants to make them a pair, which annoys him.

I listened to Zhou Ye explain it at the time, but I just kept an eye on it and knew the girl's name, so I searched on the Internet, and sure enough, I found this girl, who is from another department, and often likes to post some feelings about her feelings on Weibo, and many words are ambiguous, and at first glance, there is a boy who has a crush on her.

At that time, I gradually knew in my heart, and it seemed that the rumors were not without wind and waves, but really traced to follow. Some of the dynamics or photos that this girl often posts seem to be related to Zhou Ye.

So I was jealous, and the vinegar was still relatively big, just when I had a thorn in my heart, something happened that afternoon, and the girl posted a message on Weibo: Hurt. The bloody hands are very scary to look at.

That afternoon, I made an appointment with Zhou Ye to go to the library to read books, and he temporarily said that he couldn't come, so I asked him where he went, and he said that he was going to play games with a few friends. As a result, I later found out in his friend's circle of friends, and several of them went to see the girl together.

And the girl's Weibo was immediately updated with a new news: 'Thank you brother for coming to see me. "I also sent a back photo, and I recognized it as Zhou Ye at a glance.

I was angry at that time, and I sent a WeChat message to ask Zhou Ye what he was doing in the afternoon?

He still refused to tell the truth, saying that he was going to play games.

I hated it the most when people lied to me, so I called him and had a big fight. ”

"Did you directly point out the reason?"

"No, just looking for something else to vent my frustration."

Chu Yu's heart was sour, when could he be jealous for him once, he would be worth it in this life.

"This is the second time we quarreled, and then Zhou Ye didn't know why I was angry, and I didn't tell him, but after a while, the girl posted a message under Weibo, very sad feelings. It seems to mean that she confessed, and then was rejected by her male god.

My mood immediately improved, and I looked at Zhou Ye and was also pleasing to the eye, this matter.

The love can't be over. ”

"The misunderstanding was not made clear at the time, it has been hidden in your heart, is there still a thorn?"

"Now that I think about it, it might be like this, there are so many girls around him. Maybe he was too good, so I was a little unconfident at that time. ”

Xu Xiaoai looked back and reviewed her and Zhou Ye's past, and indeed found a lot of problems.

"The class between the two of you is not the same, and the circle of friends is not the same. This is what has been said since ancient times, and it is normal for you to be unconfident in yourself, so you desperately want to make yourself excellent, want to step into his class, and want to be equal to his identity. ”

"I guess so, that's why I'm constantly trying."

"Did he see how good you were later?"

"I think I should have seen it, my grades were very good at that time, and I looked good, although my personality was not gentle, but he should have been attracted to me in some way when he could choose me."

Chu Yu sighed: "Do you know what you have the most between the lines?" ”

"What is it?"

"You used the two words of selection, and you didn't say yourself perfectly, it can be seen that in your bones, you think he is better than you, and you put yourself in a position that is not equal to him, Xiao Ai, in this relationship, you may be a little tired. @·error-free start~~"

Chu Yu's words came to Xu Xiaoai's heart, she was attracted to Zhou Ye, but the gap between their innate classes could not be avoided, and his excellence was the existence that made her bow and worship, and Xu Xiaoai has always had a feeling of an ugly duckling becoming a swan in her heart, Zhou Ye can choose her as if a big pie has fallen from heaven, and from the beginning she has a feeling that she wants to marry into a wealthy family.

"Actually, I really don't think that his family's money is very attractive to me, what I like is him."

"You say so, but you compare yourself with him, and in a marriage relationship two people are equal, there is no high or low. If you want to be with him, you try to become the same person as him, so that you can have an equal dialogue with him, but have you ever thought that maybe Zhou Ye doesn't care about this, but his family and his friends care about this, and what you can't change is your family. ”

Xu Xiaoai covered her ears: "Don't say it, this is also something I can't change, so what else can I do?" ”

"Actually, you should be more confident, just like you are now. Although your family is not a family, but you are also an elite in the financial industry who can support yourself and can support yourself, you are not inferior to them, you don't need to have the feeling that you are inferior to him, your family is not as good as him, self-confidence is a person's greatest confidence.

What about the wealthy, the wealthy can only make your life more comfortable, but a person only needs to sleep in a bed, only need to live in a room, in all the birth, old age, sickness and death, these material enjoyments are nothing.

The most important thing for everyone is spiritual sublimation and soul interaction, and what you and Zhou Ye lack is this. ”

Chu Yu's analysis made Xu Xiaoai suddenly enlightened, yes, although she had a good relationship with Zhou Ye before, but across the gap between the two, she couldn't jump over, she was really tired, whether it was the circle around her or Zhou Ye's friends and family, she couldn't get in.

Although college life is relatively simple and interpersonal relationships are not so complicated, there is always a small circle of people.

The topics they talked about were far from her life.

Every time Zhou Ye gathered, she sat there as a quiet vase, and there was not much common language except that they began to discuss some professional issues.

Although they all call him sister-in-law, her performance in this circle is not satisfactory, and she actually can't do the kind of atmosphere and confidence that a real sister-in-law Ye should have.

"Was there still a contradiction later?"

"Also, there are a lot of small contradictions like this, but they are not particularly frequent, at that time I thought it was a kind of regulator in falling in love, and it further promoted the deepening of the relationship between the two of us.

And Zhou Ye was really good to me, he used all the romance between men and women that he could think of on me, and I felt like I was in the world at that time.

The happiest woman in the world. ”

"How high you are praised, how bad you fall." Chu Yu's words brought Xu Xiaoai back to reality.

Xu Xiaoai glared at him: "Can't you say a good word?" ”

"I'm doing psychotherapy for you, you must have both positive analysis and negative judgment, you must comprehensively consider your previous emotional injuries, in order to alleviate your luck, when you can analyze this matter objectively and rationally, your illness can be cured."

"Okay, okay, you're reasonable, you're a doctor, you're the biggest, I'll listen to you for everything."

Xu Xiaoai's cheeks puffed out angrily and waved his small fists at Chu Yu.

"And then? You got along with him in the second semester of your freshman year, so nothing else happened to you in your 4 years of college? ”

"What's the matter? What do you mean? ”

"That's it. @ ”

"Where?"

"In that regard, they are all adults, do you need to make it so clear?"

Xu Xiaoai pouted: "There must be intimacy, but I was more conservative in college, and the school dormitory was very tight, and I never stayed outside overnight, which is also Zhou Ye's regret." ”

"How do I think he is not a normal man, I have been with you for almost 4 years, and I haven't kidnapped you to bed, this person is also a little stupid."

The venomous tongue man is starting to have a poisonous tongue again!

Xu Xiaoai rolled her eyes: "How could I be so open in college, I think Zhou Ye is also a relatively conservative person, neither he nor I crossed this line, and at that time we also agreed to leave our best one on the wedding night." ”

Xu Xiaoai sighed: "But I didn't expect that the world was unpredictable, his wedding night was given to someone else, and my wedding night has not yet come." ”

Chu Yu breathed a sigh of relief: "That's okay, it's him who breached the contract first, and it has nothing to do with you." ”

"You've been doing this for the past few years in college, are there any other things that you think are important?"

"Actually, it wasn't 4 years, and we went out for internships in our junior and senior years, but this time we weren't together, he went to an internship at the headquarters of a foreign bank, and I could only continue to work as a lobby manager at the counter of a small local bank."