Chapter 106: The mind is enlightened
Xu Le was just about to go out, but he retreated back, dialed a phone and went out, and after connecting there, Xu Le said: "Dad, the other one is ninety centimeters high, at ten o'clock in the morning on the 10th, you asked Xiaolong to pull over the two shelves, wooden piers, cushions and those two snakeskin bags, at the gate of Kyoto Normal University, I am waiting for him there", and then hung up the phone.
walked out again, Huo Qingning followed, and the two of them were very dull!
Xu Le knocked on Mr. Qi's courtyard door, and Guocheng came out to open the door, "Uncle Shi is good"!
Xu Le was already a little used to the title of Guocheng, he hummed and entered the house, "How about this afternoon?" Teacher Lu asked with a smile, looking at the Qingning face behind him as if he was not particularly good-looking, and looking at Xu Le seemed to be very serious.
"I took an hour off this afternoon, from half past one in the afternoon to nine in the evening, before dinner, Mr. Su spoke, and after dinner, Mr. Fu taught me Pali, and Mr. Fu accepted me as a graduate student in Pali and Tocharian"!
"I'll just say, such a good seedling, Sister Fu will never let it go", Mr. Qi said with a smile, "Then you have a lot of pressure, you have to allocate your own time"!
Everyone chatted for a while, Guocheng told Xu Le that he bought some information about the introduction and economic situation of Hepingyu County, Kyoto City, but it was still relatively small, and the data was relatively old, Xu Le told him that he could first understand the general geographical scope and the large economic scope, and then there was no need to worry, Guocheng nodded! It was almost ten o'clock, and Xu Le returned to his house!
Teacher Lu saw Xu Le leaving, called Huo Qingning to the study upstairs, asked her to sit down, and communicated with her seriously!
"Qingning, what do you think of Xu Le"? Teacher Lu asked.
"What's the idea"? Huo Qingning didn't understand.
"It's your attitude"!
"That's good, I like him"! Huo Qingning is so direct, he never beats around the bush!
Teacher Lu looked at Huo Qingning, who seemed to be a little thinner, and looked much better after taking a break in the afternoon, but when he mentioned Xu Le's obvious expression, he felt a little panicked and lost.
"Qingning, you have been favored since you were a child, and you will be given whatever you want, but you must know that not all good things in this world are yours", Teacher Lu's words were very heavy, she was worried that her granddaughter would not be able to stand it, and looked at her carefully.
"I haven't had much contact with Xu Le, but in the past two days, I found that he is indeed very good, but have you ever thought about it, is there no one to chase such an excellent boy, can't you see that Tian Miaomiao also likes Xu Le? Is Miao Miao's condition poor, but why is the two not related at all?"
Huo Qingning is not stupid, she knows it, but she can't control her heart, isn't love going to say that love is not going to be done? Can't she express herself, she doesn't understand what she did wrong? Why did Xu Le look like a plague god when he saw himself?
She also thought about this question that grandma said, it was because of other people, so she chased it desperately, isn't there a saying that "men chase women across mountains, women chase men across papers?" So she doesn't think she's wrong, but her kung fu isn't enough!
"What I want to tell you is, either Xu Le has a problem or someone else has a problem, if someone else has no problem, then Xu Le has a problem, if it is really his problem, then where is his problem, have you thought about it"? Grandma began to use philosophical thinking to help her analyze!
"First Xu Le has filial piety, listen to Miao Miao and you come back, Xu Le has filial piety, and the family conditions are not good, so I am afraid that people will look down on him or be sorry for his parents"!
"Grandma, I don't, I won't, I get along well with his parents, and Xiaoyi, they are also very good to me, I won't look down on them, I have money"! Huo Qingning has opened the way with money again!
"Okay, I know, it's over with your attitude, it's no fun"! Grandma said it very directly, which made Huo Qingning very unacceptable!
"Don't you don't like to listen, if you don't change your mentality, there will be no hope for a day, do you think Xu Le cares about your money, I have money at every turn, do you have money to do with him, it's mutual respect, do you understand"?
Grandma hated iron and said to her: "At the beginning, when your mother looked for your father, did she go for your father's money?" When your dad and your mom were dating, did he mention that I had money at every turn"? She paused for a while and said, "Does your family's wealth have anything to do with our family, we are poor, our family can eat chaff and vegetables, and we can get by"!
Grandma turned her head and left, and left after saying that the first point was not the second point, Huo Qingning was stupid, why did she provoke grandma again!
Suddenly she felt that she was really tired and uncomfortable, and no one could understand herself!
The old lady went down breathlessly, startled Guocheng, and quickly poured a glass of water for grandma!
"What's wrong"? Mr. Qi asked, and Mr. Lu simply repeated what he had just said, "Everything is money, money, money"!
"Can money buy feelings, and if it can be bought, is it still called feelings"? Mr. Lu himself said, "I don't realize what the problem is from my heart at all, just think about myself, Xu Le is good, but it is not necessarily yours, you have to understand where the problem is, you can't look at people like rats every day!"
If Xu Le is in Baozhun will say, you are right, I feel like a mouse being stared at by a cat every day!
Guocheng listened beside him, and didn't speak, thinking in his heart, "Hey, this man, it's really not good to be too good, see that I don't even come to me as a woman, how worry-free, uncle, you're not right, then what's the matter with your strong pills, is it really the power of your hands?"
Xu Le's hands were looking at the turtle stone, at first it was a moment, and then it was continuous; At first it was gentle, and then it fell heavily on the stone, and the real bones were ringing. However, Xu Le liked this feeling a little, the feeling of bone vibration can actually speed up the flow of blood, this method is two different experiences from cultivation, this feeling of numbness and crispiness is a particularly exciting feeling, as if the blood in the whole body is constantly surging.
Since returning to his house, he went directly to the second floor, and then moved the turtle stone down, laid a mat on the floor tiles, put the turtle stone on it, and kept criticizing wildly, he was a little annoyed by Huo Qingning, not disgusted with Huo Qingning, but he was more annoyed in this way, he was a relatively simple person after all, he didn't like miscellaneous ways, he had also heard a lot of messy things outside, but he was very disdainful, his goal was the only one, Either the only one who has nothing, or the only one who only takes one scoop, not the only one in the society!
So when he came back, he began to hammer the turtle rock! Later, he felt as if his hands were a little bursting, and some blood was oozing out of his palms, and the color of the black bar was mixed with red, like striking iron, constantly torturing himself!
These hands are very hard, this must be served by the Great Pill Pill, Xu Le thought to himself!
Huo Qingning walked downstairs with tears in her eyes, her grandfather didn't pay attention to her, Guocheng beckoned to her, and she sat opposite Guocheng.
"Qingning, yesterday, Uncle Shi asked me a question", Guocheng and Huo Qingning said: "I think this question is very in-depth and worthy of my research, I just happened to talk to you, you see if it makes sense"?
Hearing that it was Xu Le's question, Huo Qingning looked at Guocheng and nodded.
"Uncle Shi asked me, 'Can you combine the supply and demand theory of economics with the relationship between men and women to study your own problems?'"
He looked at Huo Qingning and said: "You are also a master of business administration, you just don't like to do management, but you also know economic theory, so from the perspective of the relationship between men and women, whoever takes the initiative is the supply, and the passive is the need, do you agree with this explanation"?
Qing Ning thought for a while, "Well, that's the case, it's a simple analogy"!
"Okay, you said that you are the supply after your uncle, but have you considered the needs of customers"?
"The customer's demand is divided into real demand and false demand, and the real demand is divided into current demand and future demand, which may also be potential demand, and can also be divided into strong supervisor demand and external stimulation demand, which is only from the perspective of demand, then another problem is related to the purchase problem, that is, the problem of falling in love, which can be analogous to the purchase behavior, even if there is supply and demand, it will definitely be purchased"?
Mr. Qi and Teacher Lu didn't look at Huo Qingning, but stared at Qi Guocheng in surprise, is this his grandson, is this the rhythm of enlightenment? Oh my God, this is the result of two days with Xu Le, is my eldest grandson starting to think about this, don't worry about my granddaughter's affairs first, solve my grandson's affairs first, come one by one, these two old people listen carefully to see what time it is and whether they go to sleep or not!
"Brother, you never thought about these before, did Xu Le teach you these or did you think about it yourself?" Huo Qingning was also more puzzled, this brother was a few months older than him in the same year as himself, and he belonged to the stuffy gourd type, so he actually said it now, but it sounded very reasonable!
"I told you just now, I never thought about it and I didn't want to, but Uncle Shi handled this topic well, I understood it at once, I'm not a fool, okay", Guocheng said with a smile.
"What is needed to facilitate the purchase, the need for demand, the need for money, the need for continuous stimulation, the need for the achievement of the corresponding conditions, this is a contact, feedback, stimulation, conditions to achieve, the final transaction process, then you are now in contact, feedback, but the feedback is not good, in the case of bad feedback you still have a strong stimulation can only make others more disgusted with you, if it is from the perspective of buying goods, even if he has a demand but does not like the product is not the absolute only, right? So you're still on the pole, you say you're annoying, do you remember that you beat a rich second generation before and didn't know his parents, isn't it the same truth"?
Huo Qingning felt that Brother Guocheng had really changed, and began to combine theory with practice! But it does make sense!
"So, what's the best way for you at this time"? Guocheng asked.
"Shut up"?
"Yes, just shut up, you still have to dig out his needs and why not buy the reason, but you can't go on the pole and ask me what's wrong, you say I change, you have to keep groping yourself, understand, you just need to do a good job of the product, that is, do a good job of yourself, make yourself great, this product from a pile of continuous upward and eventually become the only, what do you say at that time, do you still use yourself to sell"?
"Brother, what kind of major are you studying for your doctorate, is it psychology and emotional management?" Huo Qingning felt that Guocheng had changed, and he was full of self-confidence!
"I understand what you mean, brother, thank you, I know, I may indeed have little experience, I think it's enough for me to be good to him, but it's not like this, the love between men and women is the same as the supply and demand of commodities, you have to pay attention to the feeling of love and affection, you have to be equal to both sides, you can't sell or buy, only by building yourself into the best product can you really attract others, otherwise it's useless to have enthusiasm"! Huo Qingning nodded, understanding his own problem, a theorist is a theorist, grandma, who is engaged in philosophy, can go around the corner, see how easy capital plus theory is!
After a while, Huo Qingning changed, very confident!
She said to her grandfather: "Grandma, grandpa, I know my own problems, don't worry, I won't chase Xu Le anymore, no matter how hard I try, it's useless if I don't do a good job of myself, I used to be too self-centered, I don't need to change myself but I also need to change myself, what I don't change is my pursuit of him and the pursuit of the beauty of the world, I want to pursue my own life direction to do better things; What I want to change is the previous high-minded attitude, the mentality of everything measured by money, to change the previous way of stalking, no need to be centered on him but also not a self-centered, a realistic equal status, first as an ordinary friend, but I will pay attention to the way I spoke before, and I don't have to be too well-behaved, that is really not me, I am a little uncomfortable"!
Grandma, Grandpa and Guocheng clapped their hands, and then Mr. Qi said:
"Guocheng, when are you going to bring a girl back?" With a look of anticipation, even Huo Qingning was looking forward to it!
"What does this have to do with me?" Guocheng is very hurt!
"You just analyzed it very well", Teacher Lu said, "I didn't expect that this has already reached this height just after handing you over to your uncle, it is very promising, I will give you three months, watch it yourself, and sleep"!
The old lady pulled the old man straight upstairs!
Guocheng and Qingning looked at each other for a moment, laughing, Huo Qingning is schadenfreude laugh, Qi Guocheng is a bitter smile that has suffered an unwarranted disaster!
It's just that Huo Qingning's forehead still has a transparent smile, she feels that her mentality is changing, as if she has a promotion of her martial arts, very strong, very confident, but slowly becoming peaceful!
She nodded at herself as if she had realized something!