He had always felt that his fate was in the hands of the other party, and it felt extremely bad to be controlled by others, but now, he felt that what she said was true.

She likes him, so she is afraid to do everything to him, for fear of making him unhappy, when she really likes someone, her biggest wish is to hope that the other party is happy and happy, if you can't even do this, it must be very sad.

will doubt themselves.

Hua Qingchen finally nodded, and he told himself that this was just to better control Di Jiangning's infatuation with him.

But he ignored the hidden desire to go in his heart.

"Qingchen, Lone knows that you can't believe what I just said, but those words are true, and time will prove Lone's heart for you."

An honest heart is in front of you, and no one will not be untouched.

Hua Qingchen has been ignored since he was a child, he has never experienced the feeling of being carefully cared for, and he always has an extremely unreal feeling.

Does he really deserve it?

Is this really his own charm?

[Hua Qingchen's favorability +10, currently -15]

[The cats are moved to cry, why is the favorability of this scum still negative? ] The little fat cat huffed.

Jiang Ning was very indifferent, "The more sensitive a person is, the more delicate his mind is, and the more things he considers, the more cautious and difficult it will be to make choices and decisions." ”

"What you have to do at this time is to give the other party time to feel, don't force the other party to make a choice, too fast will be counterproductive, and Hua Qingchen is an insecure person, he was abandoned by the Sun Yao Kingdom, which means that all his relatives chose to abandon him, he has no sense of belonging, he never dares to relax, and works hard to live."

"If I can create this sense of safe belonging for him, I can really go into the other person's world and his heart. Otherwise everything is empty. It's just a play by him to stay alive. When a person pleases others, it is a time to lose himself, for an independent-minded person, losing oneself is a terrible thing, and pleasing another person in order to live is to compromise, at this time do you think he will be in the mood to like you? Even if you like that person, this kind of pleasure will gradually fade into naught, because the relationship is not equal, one party is always in a state of depression, and when one day his patience runs out, he will leave without looking back, and at that time no matter what you do, you will not be able to get the other person back. @ That's how a lot of feelings. Being consumed clean by people who don't understand, not knowing how to cherish, not knowing how to take precautions in advance, and having to put people on the fire to bake, the ending must be a tragedy. ”

Don't grieve yourself in your feelings, if you have been wronged for a long time, one day you can't bear it, and you will give up this relationship that you have created with your own hands.

You have to be clearly aware that no matter how much you decorate and modify a wrong thing, it will be wrong and will not end anything.

But he doesn't believe you at all. Even though the goddess said it so frankly, Hua Qingchen's attitude did not change in the slightest.

Jiang Ning said, "It's normal for him to not believe me, why should people believe your few words?" Little one, you must know that sometimes language is extremely beautiful, but sometimes it is extremely pale and weak, and what you say does not prove anything, and no matter how much you say, it is not as significant as the effect of one action, otherwise no matter how beautiful words and promises are, it is just a deception. ”

Words are sometimes empty.

Sweet love words make people go up, but how many words are there that really come true?

[Goddess, the cat thinks you're too sober, but sometimes if you don't say it, how can the other party know your mood? 】

"What if I say it? If you say it and you express it, will the other party be able to understand? It can't be counterproductive, for people who don't understand you, or people who don't want to understand you, even if you express it 10,000 times, the result is the same, he doesn't understand at all or doesn't want to listen at all. In communication with people, that's the case, my best solution at present is to do nothing, not not to take the initiative, but like playing poker, you make a move I should deal with a move, I take the initiative to attack once and wait until you react and then proceed to the next step, so that a move to take your time, do not guess the other party's cards, take the routine to let the other party lose or win, let God decide the final win or loss of this deck of cards, I think I know, can win the best.

”

Don't think about what the person's next step will be, just think about what his purpose is at the moment, and give the other person a response at the moment.

[Goddess, your situation seems to have been programmed! 】

The little fat cat was surprised, obviously in the actual process, the goddess strategy task object is at ease, but theoretically it is a cold and cruel executor constructed by a lot of theories, isn't it like a robot?

But it's a robot, but it's better than an ordinary person.

Jiang Ning: Thank you for the compliment!

But maybe it's the other way around, for someone who understands you, you don't need to talk too much nonsense, they can understand what you mean, respect your ideas, and make the same decision as you without discussion, which is even more amazing! It's probably one in a million, and the so-called more than half a sentence is true. @ ”

[It's amazing! It's really amazing how people get along with each other.

"So, you will meet people who are destined to meet, and you will also be destined to be separated from some people, because the channels are different, the roads are different, and sooner or later they will part ways, and some people will always meet, and they will go the same way." Jiang Ning said with a sigh, "After thousands of small worlds, the more I find that some things are not forced at all, especially emotional things, sometimes your time is very right, the state is very right, but the person you meet is his worst state, so even if the temperament is the same, he is still separated in the sea of people, not that you are wrong, not that he is wrong, but that the time is wrong, there is really nothing to be done, but there are many such helpless things on the road of life." ”

"You can't control anything but yourself."

Human beings are as small as a drop in the ocean.

[It's so sad! After listening to this, the little fat cat only felt that his heart was empty for a moment, if everything could not be forced, wouldn't the end be that he was alone?

It's a luxury to wait for someone who has the same heart as you!

Maybe you won't be able to wait for it for the rest of your life.

Jiang Ning said, "It's better to have a shortage than to be overwhelmed, and if you can't wait, it's the truth!" ”

"Your Majesty, it's not that the courtiers don't believe you, they just need time." The boy explained again.

"It's okay." The woman smiled gently, "As long as the final ending is good, you are willing to wait for as long as you are lonely." ”

I have to say that at this moment, Hua Qingchen really felt that his heart was trembling.

Patient and gentle people are really deadly.

If you want to meet such a person, then first make yourself gentle and patient, so that you can meet the same person.