And not just on the network.

Many viewers were also very touched after seeing the pictures in the memory clips.

Meanwhile.

The audience in my family program group also felt a deep sadness because of this.

Because in this picture, they saw that Lin Yi was so close to her daughter, but the distance between the two was so far.

So they really feel in their hearts at this moment, and they feel a kind of sadness because of these pictures in the memory fragments.

They felt that Lin Yi was too miserable.

Because they are afraid to meet their children, they are afraid of causing trouble to their children.

It's the same as those parents who are afraid that their children won't be able to hold their heads up in front of their classmates.

Those parents are so similar to Lin Yi.

They are also willing to give everything for their children, no matter what angle they are in, they will put themselves in their children's shoes.

They can endure so many things for their children.

......

And at the moment.

In that spin-off of my family program.

After seeing this scene, many scholars and experts also fell silent at the same time.

A moment later.

The host received a notification from the director.

They compiled the impressions on the Internet based on this memory fragment and some questions that they wanted these choices to be answered by the guests.

After the host took the script given to him by the staff, he began to ask the scholars and professors on the scene according to the questions of netizens recorded on it.

Those scholars and professors also immediately fell into thought after hearing the host's question.

began to think about how to answer the questions raised by netizens on the Internet about this memory fragment.

Soon, one of the professors stepped forward and took the microphone from the host.

He said slowly: "Actually, I know that many netizens on the Internet are wondering why Lin Yi didn't go to see his own daughter at that time. ”

"Why did he give so much for his daughter, but why was he still nervous when he went to see his daughter?"

"Why do you still have feelings of self-blame?"

"Even when he saw the dejected expression on his daughter's face, it seemed that he was also guilty because of this."

The scholar looked down and thought for a moment before saying, "Yes, this is a very contradictory thing. ”

"Lin Yi has obviously done so much, he definitely doesn't need to have any feelings of debt to his wife and daughter."

"But all this is just what it seems to us outsiders."

"The angle from which we look at a matter is completely different from the perspective from which Lin Yi and those parties look at the problem."

"For example, in fact, there are many news stories such as children getting married, and parents emptying their life savings to buy a house for their children."

"There are many people who think that these parents are so worthless that they have worked hard for most of their lives and all their savings have been spent on the house."

"And they get nothing."

"Even after they use most of their life savings to buy a house for their children, they still have a heartfelt smile on their faces."

"A lot of people don't understand their behavior and ask why they spend so much money and spend all their savings and still have such a genuine smile."

"But these things that are very unworthy in the eyes of outsiders cannot be measured by whether they are worth it or not in the eyes of those parents."

"And if I had to measure it, I believe that parents who voluntarily bought a house for their children thought it was worth it."

"He's not what outsiders think, so the two may have completely different standards for a thing."

"Just like Lin Yi, his standard for measuring his debt to his daughter is completely different from what outsiders see."

"In the eyes of outsiders, he did so many things wrong, and even gave the rest of his life, so he absolutely does not owe anything to his daughter."

But in his heart, he thinks that no matter what he does, he can't make up for his daughter, and maybe he doesn't think so subconsciously, but every time he sees his daughter lost, his face will only show indebtedness.

"And this kind of debt to Lin Yi will never dissipate unless he redeems his heart."

After the scholar said this, the host and the guests on the side also nodded again and again.

They also agreed with the professor.

Because in the eyes of outsiders, they do not take on the role of parents or children.

So they look at a thing from a completely different angle than the person concerned.

Those sad and respectable fathers looked at the problem from a different perspective.

They associate the achievements of their children with their own joys and sorrows.

They will be happy when they see that their children are doing better and better, that they have families, that they have children of their own.

Even if they don't get anything, they will have that joy in their hearts.

And that's exactly why.

Parents who have emptied their life savings to buy a house for their children.

They paid so much and thought it was worth it.

Not yet.

The professor moved on to the second question posed by the audience on the Internet.

He first repeated the netizen's question, and he said slowly: "Because this netizen saw the pictures in the memory fragments, he felt that the pictures in those clips were too similar to his past." ”

"So he thinks that many people should have experienced it, although those families will not be as exciting, as twists and turns, and as tragic as Lin Yi's story."

"But in essence, there is no difference."

"That netizen used to have such an experience."

"So he wanted to ask if any of our guests had ever had such an experience."

And when those words came out.

The professor pondered for a moment, then looked up at the camera and said, "Actually, I have had such an experience before, so I don't need to ask the other teachers, just let me answer this question." ”

"This netizen is right, in fact, such pictures are very common."

"Just like the ones I mentioned before, parents who are reluctant to meet their children even when they go to school to visit their children because they are afraid of their identity will trouble, these images are so similar to the pictures in memory fragments."

"And I used to see such a scene when I was out of school."

"At that time, my grades were very good, and I was sent to a key high school in the city in junior high school."

"When I went to high school, I became a day student."

"Actually, my family is not very good, and my home is not around the school."

"So it stands to reason that boarding students should save a little more money, but my family is so poor that they can't even afford to pay for accommodation."

"I remember when I was in high school, my dad came with me to downtown."

"He got a job with food and shelter and let me live with him in the staff dormitory."

"And because of his work, I also feel that I don't need to be picked up at home when I'm so old, so I take the bus home from school every day."

Speaking of which.

Some of the surrounding guests looked at the professor who was talking in surprise.

Because this professor they know.

He has always dressed appropriately, and his demeanor is very elegant.

So they thought that this professor should be the kind of child that can only be educated by rich people.

They also subconsciously thought that the family from which the professor was born should be a very wealthy family.

Otherwise, it would not be possible to train because of professors like him.

That's why they were a little surprised when they heard the professor talk about what he had experienced.

The professor didn't pay any attention to the stares of the people around him, and he continued: "I was out of school that day as usual. ”

"Actually, every time I got out of school, I didn't expect my father to show up at the school gate and then we would go home together."

"One aspect is that because I feel like I'm so old, I shouldn't have my parents pick me up anymore."

"And my father has always worked hard for the family, so I shouldn't be so willful."

"On the other hand, since I didn't expect it from start to finish, and I knew that my father was still working after school, it was impossible for him to come."

"And something that could never have happened, so naturally there is no sense of expectation in my heart."

"There is no expectation, and there is no disappointment."

"But every time I see other students with their parents coming to pick them up, I still feel a little envious in my heart."

"It's just like Chen Chuxue in the memory fragment."

"At that time, there will be a little longing in my heart."

"But this kind of longing is not as strong as Chen Chuxue at the beginning, because I am much luckier than Chen Chuxue at this point."

"But at the end of the day, I saw my father at the school gate."

"At that time, my father seemed to have just come out of the factory, and he was still wearing that dress, which can be seen to be a factory-issued garment."

"Because the front and back of that garment were printed with the advertisements of those factories recruiting workers."

"So I was stunned when I saw this picture."

"Actually, I imagined many times in my mind the picture of meeting my father at the school gate."

"But I didn't expect this picture to be like this today, and even many of the thoughts I had before seemed to have dissipated at this moment, and even I actually felt a little disgusted with my father in my heart."

"I think that if I call him father at this time and then follow him, it will be very shameless, and it will make my classmates laugh."

The professor bowed his head as if to say sorry to his father.

Then he continued: "So, you see, people are so complicated. ”

"Just like Chen Chuxue in the memory fragment, because the father she hoped to have at that time, the fatherly love she longed for, were all in her imagination."

"And that's true of everybody, and what is imagined by a person is the most beautiful."

"So do you think that if Lin Yi just got out of the car and met Chen Chuxue at that time."

And Chen Chuxue saw an old man with white hair and an aging body saying that he was her father, so what kind of mood would she have at that time.

"I think there is a high probability that Chen Chuxue at that time will feel broken, feel overwhelmed, and feel that he doesn't know how to deal with his relationship with this man."

"It's normal for her to choose to run away because she's scared."

"Because Lin Yi in reality is too different from the father she imagined, and there is also a big difference from the father figure in her imagination."

"So it will instantly break Chen Chuxue's illusions, maybe she will recognize her father in the future, but she will definitely react like this at that time, just like me back then."

The professor continued: "I was like this back then, because my father's image at that time shattered all the illusions I had had before, and I was not excited, I was not happy, and I even felt a little ashamed. ”

"Because my father's appearance was so sloppy, and the clothes he was wearing seemed so shameful to me at the time."

"So I thought I wouldn't say anything and just head home, so that my dad wouldn't greet me or anything, and he would follow me and we would walk on the bus together so my classmates wouldn't laugh at me."

"But one of my classmates stopped me, and he pointed to the middle-aged man who had been looking around the side of the road, and his silhouette was somewhat similar to mine, and he said to me, Is this your father?" He seems to be looking for you. ”

"At that time, I didn't answer immediately when I heard this, and even wanted to deny my relationship with my father."

"Now that I think about it, I was really bad, my father had done so much for the family and helped me so much along the way, but I still had to deny my father's identity in that situation."

"And just as I was hesitating, my father heard my classmate's words, so he followed the voice."

"He saw me at a glance, and I kept looking at him with my spare eyes, and I kept praying in my heart that my father would not call my name, at least not until this classmate left, and I felt very ashamed."

"But what I was most afraid of was coming, but when he was halfway through the gesture of raising his hand and pointing at me, he turned around and walked towards the station."

"At that time, I didn't know that my father actually saw me, but I still thought I was so lucky that I wasn't seen by my father, and I wasn't ashamed, which is great."