Author: Tang Tang (Le Yun)

One must have oneself, and it makes sense to sacrifice oneself. Otherwise, self-sacrifice is only to escape personal misfortune. What you don't have, how do you give it to someone?

All along, depression has been very maintenance. As long as I am free, I will do the company that a boyfriend should have, even if I get off work late and I am tired and just want to sleep. However, he couldn't let go of Xue Jie in his depressed heart, he was afraid that Xue Jie would be sad if he couldn't receive his information, and he would think about it. I love you, I want to know, how are you doing today; I wonder if you miss me as much as I miss you.

Someone bullied Xue Jie, and she was depressed and always stood up to support her girlfriend. When I am free, I use long words and short tones for Xuejie, and I am extremely tender. Xue Jie is in a depressed love, looking forward to the future, sweet and happy.

"Shuaishuai, there's one more thing I want to tell you." Xue Jie hesitated for a long time, but decided to tell her depressed aunt about sending her those bad news. I'm just a little girl who is not deeply involved in the world, I just want to live my own life well, you bully a little girl indiscriminately, do you want to go? "Shuai Shuai, after class this afternoon, I turned on my phone, I wanted to see if there was any message you sent me, but I saw the messy messages that my aunt sent me to slander me." Xuejie's nose is sour.

"What, auntie? Where did the aunt come from? Is it your aunt at home or what? What did she message you? Let me see. Depressed, his heart tightened, and he asked Xue Jie anxiously.

"It's not my aunt, it's my aunt I met on the Internet, she was introduced to me by Sister Hua, I haven't been in contact with her, I don't know her." Xue Jie was too chilled, what was going on, she tried her best to stir it up on herself, "Shuai Shuai, I'll send you what she sent me." ”

"Uh-huh, okay, you send it to me. Bao'er, don't be afraid, with me, no one can bully you. Depressed comforted Xue Jie, and desperately wanted to know what was going on.

The "self" thing is invisible, you have to bump into something else, bounce back, and then you can understand "yourself". So colliding with something very strong, something terrible, something of a very high level, and then you know what you are, that's what you are, that's what you are. "How you love yourself is teaching others how to love you." Having self is the premise of self-sacrifice, firmly believing that you are worthy of love is the premise of others loving you, and only when you have self can you give up part of yourself to others, otherwise your sacrifice is just a way of "begging" others to love you, trying to sacrifice yourself in exchange for even a part of love, which is a kind of misfortune.

After reading those messages and listening to Xue Jie's story, it was not a taste to be depressed. What kind of people are these people, and what is the purpose of their bullying Xue Jie? What are they trying to do here? Not to mention the origin of this aunt, just the appearance of Sister Hua's god and the assistance of God are inexplicable. It is normal for people to get along with each other, to continue to be friends if they get along well, and to go their own way if they don't get along well. Moreover, regardless of whether Xue Jie pulled Sister Heihua or not, this is a small contradiction between Xue Jie and Sister Hua, which is not enough for Hua'er to use so much strength to invite someone to bully Xue Jie. Everyone is an adult, don't you have a few pounds and taels in your heart?

"Could it be that Sister Hua's care and love for Xue Jie was fake? Sister Hua approached Xue Jie, did she have any ulterior motives? Depressed, I couldn't help but think secretly, "Sister Hua is also a mature adult after all, she should be more thoughtful and steady than Xue Jie, why would she do such a disproportionate thing?" ”

"Bao'er, don't be sad, with me, I'll go to Hua'er and ask that aunt on a cloudy day, they can't bully you like this." Depressed sent a message to Xue Jie, "I hate hypocritical people the most, Bao'er, you must not believe those people on the Internet in the future, it's best to ignore them." ”

"Okay, I see, thank you Shuaishuai." With the care of depression, Xue Jie felt much more at ease.

What is the ego? It's my own me, I'm thinking and soulful, if one day, people won't think, just blindly Baidu, copying other people's ideas, that is, losing yourself, only by constantly reading, constantly entering, will there be your own thinking. We are in a maze of mirrors, and how to see ourselves clearly is a lifelong problem.

depressed's love for Xue Jie made Xue Jie no longer deny herself. Life should be like a candle, burning from the top to the end, all the time. If you say a paragraph and the other party gets you, it is a sacrifice of self to escape the pain, if the other party can't get it, it is a self that has the meaning of self-sacrifice, self-sacrifice is to express that there is self-possession, this is meaningful, and the self-sacrifice to escape the pain is self-sacrificing, you think you have sacrificed yourself, but you have never had it.

To be a bit of nonsense, there was a time in the game where I didn't hesitate to block a fatal blow for my teammates. Looking back at my psychology and situation, I realized that I blocked it because I couldn't turn it around and evade my responsibility for that wave of the game. My sacrifice is, in fact, my weakness.