Andre brought the egg custard and tried to feed me diligently, I wanted to ignore him and plan to eat it myself, but the spoon he was holding was next to my mouth, and I opened my mouth for the sake of the soup.

I asked him aggrieved while eating

- "Why are you bullying me?" ”

Andrei sighed and said:

- "Honey, why do you think I'm going to bully you? How could I be willing to bully you? ”

- "It was! You don't want to admit it yet. I said angrily

- "I think you really misunderstood me, so how can it be called bullying you?" Don't you know that I love you? Andrei said helplessly.

- "I don't like the way you look. I hate it when you treat me like that! I said.

- "Okay. You don't like it, I won't be like that in the future! Andrei replied.

- "Really? I still asked a little uncomfortably

- "Really. Andrei seemed to answer casually.

Andrei took the bowl I finished eating and went to wash it, I calmed down, thinking to myself that Andrei is sometimes a little nervous, maybe this is an accident, forget it, isn't he usually very good? I was happy again when I thought of this, and André came back, and he went to put the bowl in the cupboard, and I ran over and hugged him from behind and said, "I really ignore you if you dare to do this again!" ”

Andrei touched my hand and said:

- "Baby, I can't help you!" ”

I threw myself into his arms, put my head on his shoulder, and said:

- "You can only be good to me!" Andrey"

Andrei touched my head and said:

- "Little fool, I just want to be nice to you!" ”

I looked up at him and said:

- "Now is the best!" ”

Andrei looked me in the eye and said:

- "Linna, do you know how different you are? Qiu Si said yes, you have to be more patient. ”

I didn't even understand the meaning of Andrey's words at the time. I thought they were all supporting me.

Later, I realized that Andre and I had very different understandings of the concept of boyfriend and girlfriend.

I think boyfriend and girlfriend are simply in a romantic relationship. This relationship is all about emotion. Sexual activity is a marital relationship, and it is a privilege that must be exercised only after marriage. If Andrei really loves me, he should follow the rules.

Andre feels that if a boyfriend and a girlfriend do not have physical acceptance, they do not accept each other, their relationship is not in place, and they cannot be called lovers in the real sense. Andrei's subjective idea is that I reject him one, and I am conservative; Second, he is not attractive to me, I don't love him that much.

These seem to be rational, and the irrational problems were not recognized by me at the time.

Later I understood that the struggle between emotion and reason is destined to be the main theme that plagues our lives.