Chapter 101: What is true love
- "How can you objectify your girlfriend and treat us all like handkerchiefs!" "I'm really angry with Andre.
- "I'm not objectifying, I said maybe my metaphor is inappropriate, but I really think that's how I can explain it."
I think there's only one thing I can ask of them for more than I can ask for you. It was also the point that I valued the most at the time, and I even thought that was the principle of my finding a girlfriend. But this principle, I seem to have given up on you.
- "What principle. ”
- "I feel like my girlfriend has to like me"
- "Then you, do you think I don't like you?" ”
- "Don't you like it! Hehe......"
- "Do you have any other principles besides this?" ”
- "Linna, I don't think I'm really principled. Some people are looking for a girlfriend, there is a fixed pattern, but I don't think I seem to have it, not only no, I always feel that I really found the right person this time, and I feel that I am in love this time. ”
- "Do you always have a negative attitude towards your last relationship?" ”
- "I think so! ”
- "Then you are thinking differently, this mountain looks at that mountain high." You think there's something prettier and forget about the previous one, right? ”
- "Linna! If I were to say that my girlfriend before you, Simone was the prettiest, but she was also the one I disliked the most, even hated! I really didn't hate my other girlfriends other than her, so I really wasn't too good-looking. ”
- "You don't judge people by their appearance? I'm a little skeptical."
- "I want to think about how to tell you. ”
- "You tell the truth, or else, don't talk about it." ”
- "My first girlfriend was a girl from a German-speaking secondary school. There are very few girls in secondary schools in the German-speaking region who look as amazing as you. Most of them look like boys, and their personalities are like boys. This girlfriend is a girl from our mountaineering team, a girl who loves this sport, and I think she's really funny. I'm afraid that she won't have enough physical strength and will always take care of her.
This is a girl who likes to try all kinds of things, always likes to look into the distance and think about something very weird. I found her advice very interesting. Together, we explore things, including sex. Together, we explore what sex really is, just as we climb a mountain to visit a cave. She was bolder than me and encouraged me to try.
We really didn't know how to position our relationship with each other, we didn't even want to fix each other as lovers at the time, this girl had other boyfriends before or at the time, right? I don't seem to care about this, it doesn't seem to matter, and this girl seems to have a vague definition of her gender. I think we're more like very fond and good friends. But there doesn't seem to be so much of a lover's feeling.
The second girlfriend was Simone, I thought Simone was sexy and charming, and I seemed to have a girlfriend in the real sense. At the very least, Simone is a pretty girl! That's the person I'm supposed to fall in love with. I think this time I have a real girlfriend.
I've been in love with Simone for more than half a year, and I think what she taught me the most was how to. Other than that, we don't seem to have much in common. But at the time I thought it was enough, I thought Simone liked herself more than the previous girl, which is why I felt that Simone was my real lover. ”
- "How did you break up?" ”
- "Simone was not the only one who was dating me, and she started lying to me, and I was a little angry but there was no evidence. Later, I seemed to see her kissing in the car with the captain of our team. I asked her, and she didn't admit it. I'm going to settle accounts with that kid. Our captain said that he didn't want to fight with me at all Simone, who used to be his girlfriend and then broke up. He was with Simone that day, and Simone said that she wanted him to check if he had improved his kung fu in bed, and the two of them went to open the room. The captain said to me, Andre, I'm not going to fight you for Simone, she almost slept with half of the last team. In this new team, it is not known who Simone is related to. Investigate for yourself!
I had a big fight with Simone, and Simone said that she didn't lack me, a boyfriend who liked her, and we broke up.
I was in a bad mood when I broke up with Simone, and I didn't want to meet Simone and the players in the school cafeteria when the captain said that Simone had slept with half of the team. I found a restaurant outside the campus to eat. A waitress in the cafeteria, five years older than me, wondered why I didn't eat in the college cafeteria?
I told her that my girlfriend complimented me on how good I was in bed, and I thought I liked me so much! Maybe she's complimenting others too.
This is a girl from the Czech Republic, very tall, but very slender, not beautiful but very gentle and amiable.
She listened to me complain about Simone, laughed at how stupid I was, and comforted me that I didn't understand women and that's why I thought that.
To be honest, I really didn't want to know much about women before. I really didn't know there were so many problems with girls.
Dealing with her, I realized that women are not only beautiful and sexy, but also gentle and considerate, which is the characteristic of a mature woman.
I like that kind of pampering of mature women, and I think this girlfriend is the one who loves me the most.
I'm really in love with a woman this time!
This girlfriend also taught me how to take care of a woman's feelings, and she corrected a lot of my previous bed with Simone. ”
- "Are you just talking about sex?" ”
- "You're right, she also enlightened me in this way at first, so we also talked about these exchanges, which I found out later, I didn't think about it that much at the time, and I felt that I benefited a lot.
We've been dating for about half a year. She hardly told me anything about her. I didn't know to ask at the time.
Until one day, I went to the restaurant to look for her again, and the boss said that she had quit her job two days ago. I went to look for her where she lived, and she was already gone. I don't have any contact details for her. Her phone couldn't get through.
I think she didn't want to see me again. I wasn't very sad at the time, I just thought it was weird. I haven't seen her ever since, so I slowly stopped thinking about her. ”
- "When you met Carol, you thought you were really in love again this time, didn't you?" I asked.
- "That's true, Linna! Andrei continued
- "I haven't had any girlfriends since the Czech girl left, the first semester of my junior year. I feel like I'm not demanding a girlfriend much from before. I seem to want to have a girlfriend who resonates with me now. Girls who are just beautiful don't appeal to me that much. I also easily found the faults in them: vanity, frivolity, shallowness. Anyway, I find these problems unbearable for me.
Carol is from the French-speaking Quarter, she has a slender physique, she has a gentle manner, and she doesn't have the same problems as those pretty girls. I think she is a girl who is respected, and I think it would be better to find such a girl with good overall quality if I want to date. It just so happened that Carol and his boyfriend had broken up for two months, and she also wanted to start a new life. Carol seemed to like me too, and we just got along. Carol made me like it, though, I don't think she made me that impressed. But I thought, maybe I'm mature. I sensibly chose a real girlfriend. Carol is my girlfriend's qualifications! Carol is very smart, we can talk a lot together besides sex, I thought I had found a soulmate.
Haha, you see this time I feel like I'm really in love again.
- "And then, you think Carol is bad again, right?" ”
- "I don't feel bad about Carol, I told you, except that I think Simone's character is wrong, I hate her, and I really don't think there's anything bad about other girlfriends."
It's just that it doesn't appeal to me anymore. I just don't like them anymore. ”
- "Well, then! Andrey, you don't even want a bosom friend this time, what did you find? Do you think you're really in love again this time? ”
- "Linna, this time I'm different from the previous ones, I didn't look for anything. I simply didn't have a choice. Before I could choose Simone, Carol, or someone else. I think it's possible. This time, Lina, you left me with no choice at all. I don't think I even have room to give up! ”
- "Maybe you'll have to fall in love many more times, Andre"
- "Maybe! But I'm going to deal with this time before I can do it later, right? ”
- "I don't understand, what do you want to deal with?" ”
- "I think I have to live!" ”
- "Who won't let you live?" ”
- "You! ”
- "What? ”
- "Linna, there is a famous German saying that says. Love is not about finding someone to live with, it is that you can't live without him (her). My dear, I can't live normally without you, I can't even breathe normally"
- "Linna, why do you love me?" ”
- "I'm not sure, what I love about you, I just feel like I can't live without you." ”
- "I said, I used to find a girlfriend and had principles, and I wanted her to love me, but when I came to you, I had no principles. It's not that I want to give up any principles, it's because I don't think I have much room to stick to them. I can't survive without you, this time I don't even want to confirm if I'm in a relationship, I don't need to confirm anything, I just know, I have to keep myself alive! ”
- "Andrey, are we too crazy, too irrational, you see that you have lost even the last principle, is it all too unrealistic? ”。
- "Linna, I don't think we're the opposite, there's nothing more realistic than survival, right? Haha, others don't understand, maybe only you know. We can only survive together, and this is the most realistic need! ”