"Midlife crisis?"

Qi Qi, the people in the love apartment, were surprised.

"That's right!" Writing-type Xiao Hei nodded, "It's the mid-life crisis that men and women in modern cities are most afraid of!" ”

Lu Ziqiao frowned and said, "No, of course I understand the mid-life crisis, but Zhang Wei is not yet, right?" ”

"That's right." Chen Meijia followed, "You want to say that I believed in the past, but now Zhang Wei has a successful career and a bumper harvest of love, and our friends are still by his side, what reason does he have for a mid-life crisis?" ”

"That's it!" Hu Yifei also reacted, "Xiao Hei, don't be alarmist!" Hurry up and tell the truth! ”

Writing Xiao Hei shook his head: "So, although you are old friends of Zhang Wei for many years, if you really want to talk about it, your understanding of Zhang Wei's true thoughts in his heart may not be as good as mine."

Yes, you live under the same roof and have been good friends for many years, and seem to be the ones who know him best.

But your understanding of Zhang Wei is only superficial, and there is no real understanding of his inner world.

Of course, you don't know much about his inner world, but you can understand it.

After all, you have all grown up and have your own small business and family, and you can't be like in the past, hanging out with friends all day long and talking about everything.

And you probably don't think there's anything wrong with Zhang Wei now.

In terms of career, Zhang Wei is now a practicing lawyer, has his own law firm, and his career is thriving.

In love, he also has a young and beautiful girlfriend who is all kinds of all-round super wows, and he is upside down in all kinds of ways.

In terms of friendship, he has always been accompanied by a few of your old friends for many years, and any difficulties can be carried together.

From this point of view, he is indeed a happy life, and he has a good career, love and friendship, and there is nothing to be anxious about.

But in fact, if Zhang Wei really has a happy life, why does he often wake up in the middle of the night? Why is it that after waking up in the middle of the night, I often sigh in front of the mirror alone, and then stay in a daze until dawn?

Do you really know about these situations? ”

After listening to Xiao Hei's words, Hu Yifei, Lu Ziqiao and the others looked at each other, then turned their heads and said to Xiao Hei with a wink: "I didn't know that Zhang Wei would often wake up in the middle of the night, and I didn't know that he would often sigh in the mirror, but is there a problem with this?"

We are just neighbors and good friends, and we don't live in the same room and sleep in the same bed with Zhang Wei, if he doesn't tell us this, how would we know that he will be like this?

Besides, if he really has something in his heart, he can tell us, if he doesn't tell us, then it doesn't mean that the problem is not big. ”

Writing-type Xiao Hei shook his head with a smile: "Therefore, people who live in happiness always think that others are equally happy, which is the same as not eating minced meat." ”

After sighing, the writing Xiao Hei continued: "Actually, Zhang Wei, don't look at the big grin on the surface, it seems that because of the continuous inverted friezal, he has a strong ability to resist pressure, and he claims to be the most powerful man in the love apartment, but his heart has always been very sensitive and inferior."

Why, just think about it.

When he was in the love apartment, only Zhang Wei was an orphan and had no real family, so his desire for family and friends is unimaginable.

Because of this, Zhang Wei knew that his fiancée didn't love him and loved someone else, but in order to have a family affection and love, he still endured it silently and chose to forgive, so he didn't know.

waited until he was abandoned on the wedding day and became a big joke, so he hid in the love apartment and officially became friends with you.

But in fact, he came to the love apartment just to escape and have a place to stay.

So, because you accepted him and took him in when he was at the lowest point in his life, he has always been grateful to you.

Because of this, even if he has low self-esteem in the face of you, he never dares to express it, but puts on a clown mask and embellishes your life with funny and jokes.

As the saying goes, the core of comedy is tragedy.

Have you ever thought that in a love apartment, the funniest and funniest person is often the worst.

In the past, when Zhang Wei didn't come, the worst funny person in the apartment was Zeng Xiaoxian.

But since Zhang Wei came, the worst funny responsibility has become Zhang Wei.

Zhang Wei used his tragic encounters again and again to bring laughter and happiness to everyone in the love apartment.

And how do you do it?

You didn't really realize Zhang Wei's situation, and you didn't really help him fundamentally, but you just consumed his pain again and again to fulfill your own happiness. ”

"Nonsense!" Zeng Xiaoxian immediately retorted, "How can we consume his pain again and again to fulfill our own happiness?" Don't talk nonsense! ”

"That's it!" Hu Yifei followed, "We have been doing our best to help Zhang Wei!" ”

The writing Xiaohei smiled coldly at Hu Yifei and pouted: "Hu Yifei, do you remember that Zhang Wei's ex-girlfriend got married and invited Zhang Wei to participate, Zhang Wei didn't want to go, you forced him to go, and forced him to be a bridesmaid, right?" ”

Hu Yifei blinked: "Remember, what's the matter?" ”

Writing Xiao Hei shook his head: "Obviously, Zhang Wei has said many times that he doesn't want to go to that wedding, why do you have to force him to go?" ”

"I'm doing it for his good!" Hu Yifei said, "I told him not to run away, to be tough and tough, and to face his past bravely, so that he can meet a new future!" ”

"But that's just your thoughts and practices, not Zhang Wei's." Writing-type little underworld, "You think it's good to be positive and rigid, but how do you know that Zhang Wei likes this kind of positive rigidity?" ”

"If you don't face the tough problem, is it the same as the shrinking turtle?" Hu Yifei frowned and said, "It's shameful to escape." ”

Writing-type little black said: "Although it is shameful to escape, it is useful!" At least that's the case for Zhang Wei.

Hu Yifei, not everyone is the same as you.

For you, being positive is just your philosophy in life.

But for Zhang Wei, appropriate escape is his best solution.

After all, you are completely different from each other in terms of your own personality and primitive living environment, and you can't simply apply one size fits all.

But you always forcibly put your will on Zhang Wei and let Zhang Wei do things according to your code of conduct, which is wrong.

For example, you once forced Zhang Wei to attend his ex-girlfriend's wedding as a bridesmaid, have you ever thought about Zhang Wei's mood at that time?

No, or rather, you don't care what Zhang Wei's mood will be, you only think about your own mood. ”

"So what?" Hu Yifei sank his face and said, "Zhang Wei will run away when he encounters trouble, and I will help him correct his shortcomings, is this still my fault?" ”

Writing-type Xiao Hei spread his hands: "Look, that's the problem!"

Whether you or they, they never think that you are wrong, they always think that your actions are beneficial to Zhang Wei, and they never really ask Zhang Wei what he thinks in his heart.

Zhang Wei lives here, even if he is not happy in his heart, but in order to continue to be good friends with you, in order not to lose a few of your good friends, even if he is unwilling, he must endure your will, and continue to make changes for you, and continue to be the clown who picks the door in front of you.

In other words, when he is with you, Zhang Wei actually has to put on a mask, and then enter his own character and play his role.

Only when he is alone in the room can he really put down the mask and no longer be an actor in life. ”

Hu Yifei frowned and said, "You mean, Zhang Wei has known us for so many years and has been acting in front of us all the time?" Never revealed what you really thought? ”

Writing Xiao Hei nodded: "Although Zhang Wei gradually entered the drama later, and slowly became more and more similar to the person he played, in essence, when he got along with you, he was indeed subconsciously entering the state of acting."

Of course, it's not that he doesn't feel at ease with you, but it's a survival instinct on his part.

After all, if you want to integrate into a group, you must find your own positioning and personality, otherwise you will be excluded.

This chameleon-like life skill is especially important to Zhang Wei, an orphan from a welfare home, and has become an instinct for him.

In fact, don't talk about Zhang Wei, don't you all have another side that you don't know?

For example, Mega.

If it weren't for the fact that Meijia misunderstood that Lu Ziqiao had an affair with Curry Sauce when she was pregnant before, and suddenly ran away from home and disappeared, except for Lu Ziqiao, who would know that Meijia had so many pasts, and even once been a member of a girl group? ”

Everyone subconsciously looked at Chen Meijia, and then looked at the writing Xiao Hei again.

The writing Xiao Hei calmly pushed his glasses and continued to elaborate: "So, seeing may not be true!"

Old friends we usually know may be completely different from what you think in private.

For example, Zhang Wei.

Zhang Wei usually looks like a very pompous, very picky, very upright, very kind, very talkative, very annoying, but very unlucky person.

But do you know that Zhang Wei in private doesn't like to talk, and he likes to be in a daze, and he also likes fluffy pillows. ”

Hu Yifei blinked: "Even so, what does this have to do with the midlife crisis?" ”

"Of course it does!" Writing-type little underworld, "As I said earlier, in your eyes, Zhang Wei has a successful career, a happy love, and a group of good friends with you, there should be nothing unsatisfying in life, and it should be happy and trouble-free."

But do you know, in fact, you yourself are the source of Zhang Wei's biggest troubles. ”

"What do you mean?" Hu Yifei asked subconsciously.

Writing-type Xiao Heidao: "It's very simple, those people who live in the love apartment, so far, they are all in pairs and happy love."

For example, you are married to Zeng Xiaoxian, Meijia is married to Ziqiao, Guan Gu is married to Youyou, and even Zhanbo and Wanyu are back together in Europe, and it is said that they are engaged and will get married soon.

In other words, the old man in the love apartment is still single, and there are only two people, Zhang Wei and Qin Yumo. ”

"Wait, wait!" Hu Yifei suddenly interrupted, "You said that Yumo is still single, and I won't say anything about you, after all, she is demanding."

But you said that Zhang Wei is still single, this is obviously wrong, right?

Zhang Weike has always had a girlfriend vigorously!

Where did you put us so strongly? ”

"That's the other question I'm going to make." Writing-type Xiao Hei looked at everyone, and then smiled faintly.

"Let's think about it carefully, do you really think that Zhang Wei and Dali, a pair of CPs, are really suitable for being together, and can really go to the end?" (End of chapter)