583 Love is a matter of two people, and what do outsiders think?

The last sentence of the writing Xiaohei can be called a blow to the soul, at least for Hu Yifei, so that Hu Yifei was directly speechless when he heard this.

In fact, Zhang Wei's relationship with Dali, Hu Yifei was not optimistic about it from the beginning, and once stopped it.

I think that at the beginning, when Hu Yifei first heard that Zhang Wei was going to have a relationship with her student Zhuge Dali, she didn't think about it, didn't ask, and directly poured Zhang Wei with ice water mixture without saying a word.

This kind of subconscious behavior can see Hu Yifei's attitude towards this matter.

Even if Hu Yifei stopped their relationship later, it was only because Hu Yifei was worried about the renovation of his home at the time, and saw that Zhang Wei and Dali were both interested and energetic, and they were too lazy to care about it, but this does not mean that she is optimistic about the relationship between the two.

Later, including during the period, Zhuge vigorously chose to take the initiative to break up with Zhang Wei, Hu Yifei was not surprised at all, and even looked like he was out of the side to watch the show, he didn't think about fighting for Zhang Wei at all, and he didn't think of a way to get them back together.

Because in Hu Yifei's opinion, Zhuge Dali's breakup with Zhang Wei is very reasonable and normal, and she doesn't think it's a problem, and she thinks it's also a relief for Zhang Wei.

If it weren't for Zhao Haitang's mistake later, maybe after Dali took the initiative to break up, Zhang Wei and Dali would really be just ordinary friends and roommates, and they could never reconcile again.

Of course, Hu Yifei has this idea, not that Hu Yifei doesn't care about Zhang Wei, or looks down on Zhang Wei.

On the contrary, Hu Yifei was not optimistic about Zhang Wei's marriage with Dali from the beginning, in fact, she considered Zhang Wei.

Because in Hu Yifei's opinion, Zhuge Dali is not suitable for being with Zhang Wei in any aspect, even if they are together, they can only be short-term meteors and cannot get better for a long time.

In this, age and family background are not the most important indicators for Hu Yifei to consider, mainly due to personality and ability.

For example, Curry Sauce is very young, about the same age as Zhuge Dali, and the age gap with Zhang Wei is also very large, but Hu Yifei was matching Curry Sauce and Zhang Wei at the beginning, and never thought about the problem that they were not suitable.

The reason is that Hu Yifei feels that the curry sauce is stupid, and his family background and education are average, which is just right for Zhang Wei.

Zhuge Dali is different, she has been a child of other people's families since she was a child, with a good family background, good education, strong learning ability, and omnipotence in all aspects.

Of course, Hu Yifei is not optimistic about the relationship between Zhang Wei and Dali, and Hu Yifei is not alone, such as Lu Ziqiao and Chen Meijia, as well as her husband Zeng Xiaoxian, are not optimistic about Zhang Wei's relationship with Dali.

It's just that they had a laissez-faire non-interference attitude from the beginning, unlike Hu Yifei, the eldest sister, who worries about this and that.

To put it bluntly, Hu Yifei is not optimistic about Zhang Weili's CP, and he tried his best to stop it at the beginning, on the surface, he was angry and looked down on Zhang Wei, thinking that Zhang Wei was a toad and wanted to eat swan meat, but in fact, it was for Zhang Wei's good, because he didn't want Zhang Wei to continue to waste time, and he didn't want him to be hurt in the future.

It was only later that Zhang Wei's relationship with Dali gradually stabilized, and she stopped saying anything.

Until now, there has been another incident, no, a string of moths.

It seemed that seeing that Hu Yifei and everyone were no longer silent, the writing Xiao Hei smiled slightly and continued: "Hu Yifei, it seems that you also agree with my point of view, you are not optimistic about Zhang Wei and Dali's pair of CPs, and you don't think the two of them can finally come together, right?" ”

"Who said that?" Hu Yifei agreed in his heart, but his mouth subconsciously retorted, "I didn't!" Don't talk nonsense! ”

"You're panicking!" Writing-type Xiao Hei smiled.

"Who panicked, I didn't!" Hu Yifei immediately glared.

Just when Hu Yifei was about to open his mouth to continue to refute, Zhuge Dali suddenly interjected calmly:

"Actually, it doesn't matter what Mr. Hu thinks!

It should be said that it doesn't matter what other people think.

What matters is what I think, what Zhang Wei thinks.

Love is a matter of two people, and what do outsiders think? ”

"Doesn't it matter?" Writing-type Xiao Hei asked rhetorically.

"It doesn't matter!" Zhuge replied categorically and seriously.

Writing-type Xiao Hei stared at Zhuge Dali's eyes, and found that the other party was staring at him without blinking, and after a frame of not giving an inch, he squinted slightly, and then missed his eyes and laughed: "Oh, why are you so serious?" I'll just ask. ”

But soon, the writing-type Xiao Hei put on a serious face again, stared at Zhuge Dali's eyes again and asked, "Is it really not important?" ”

"It really doesn't matter!" Zhuge replied as he continued to look at the writing Xiao Hei's eyes seriously.

"What if your mother also opposes your relationship with Zhang Wei?" Writing type Xiao Hei asked again.

"It doesn't matter!" Zhuge vigorously continued to answer seriously.

Immediately afterwards, Zhuge vigorously explained: "I know what you want to say, but what I want to say is that my mother is very important to me, but it is important in family affection.

And Zhang Wei is also very important to me, that is the importance of love.

Family affection and love are not one or the other, but can be both.

Even if my mom can't accept it for a while, it's like a difficult math problem, as long as I stick to it and use the right method, there must be the best of both worlds. ”

Writing Xiao Hei nodded: "Yes, it's your Zhuge Dali's answer mode and style." ”

But soon, the writing Xiaohei no longer looked at Zhuge Dali, but looked at Hu Yifei: "Hu Yifei, do you also think that the relationship between two people, as long as the two people are willing, is it enough, doesn't the opinion of outsiders matter?" ”

Hu Yifei blinked: "This ...... What do I think is important? ”

"Doesn't it matter?" Writing-type Xiao Hei asked rhetorically.

"Hey!" Hu Yifei was impatient, "Don't play big talk with me Journey to the West, I'm not a monkey, and you are not a Bodhi ancestor, what's important or not, feelings are originally a matter of two people, and outsiders' opinions are useless?" ”

"Good." Writing Xiao Hei smiled and nodded, "If you really think that feelings are a matter of two people, and the opinions of outsiders are not important, why did you and Zeng Xiaoxian have a good impression of each other for a long time, and they both know that each other likes them too, why do you have to drag on for so long to be together?" ”

"Because, because we were all young at that time, and there were always a lot of surprises at critical moments!" Hu Yifei said, "If it weren't for the constant accidents, Zeng Xiaoxian and I would have been together a long time ago!" ”

"That's right!" Zeng Xiaoxian also followed, "The situation between me and Yifei at that time was different, and we can't generalize!"

The reason why Yifei and I have liked each other for a long time, but we have been procrastinating for so long, in addition to being affected by many external forces, is mainly because I and Yifei were too young, too twisted, too strong, and too face-saving, which caused no one to take the first step and no one to formally confess first.

Later, after we experienced so many things, we finally understood the true love of our hearts, and the relationship progressed rapidly, and we soon got married.

Therefore, you can't take me and Yifei as an example to set Zhang Wei and Dali!

After all, Zhang Wei and Dali determined the identity of their lovers from the beginning, and they first determined the relationship and then fell in love.

This is completely different from the process of keeping a long-term relationship with Yifei who has not been in a state of lovers, falling in love first, and then confirming the relationship.

In short, I agree with Yifei and Dali's concept, emotional problems are mainly the problems of two people, and the opinions of outsiders are not important! ”

"That's right, that's right!" Hu Yifei, who reacted, hurriedly said, "Xiao Hei, don't mess around, talk about Zhang Wei and Dali, don't involve me and Zeng Xiaoxian, we don't have the same situation at all, what's the comparison?" ”

The writing Xiao Hei smiled: "I really appreciate your view of love!"

But the problem is, even if you and Dali both think that the relationship is just a matter of two people, and the opinions of outsiders are not important, how do you know what Zhang Wei thinks?

Do you really think that Zhang Wei is also like you, a person who thinks that he is happy and thinks that outsiders' opinions are not important? (End of chapter)