Chapter 059: Marriage Is Harder Than When You're in Love

Chen Na and Yang Jingtao have problems again. Chen Na has not gone to work since she had a child, and the family expenses are all supported by Yang Jingtao's salary, plus no one helps her during the day, sometimes she can't eat the food in her mouth, and no one chats, and she is not in a good mood. Recently, my mother-in-law has been a moth again, and if she doesn't come to help, it doesn't matter, it's still an old story, the parents want to see their grandson when they are old, and they also gave birth to a granddaughter, blaming the son for having to marry Chen Na, and the woman who won't give birth to a son enters the house. I called Yang Jingtao every once in a while, and I didn't know what it meant, whether I wanted to have a son or divorce and marry a woman to have a son. Anyway, it's all thorns in and out of the words.

One night, Chen Na, who was sleeping in the master bedroom, put the child to sleep and went to the side bedroom to talk to Yang Jingtao.

"Brother Tao, you get up first and we'll talk," Chen Na said.

"I have to go to work tomorrow, what do you need to be tired, send me a message tomorrow, bring it back from work, didn't you say that you are tired all day? When the child sleeps, you can sleep. Yang Jingtao said.

Chen Na didn't speak for a long time, is this still the Yang Jingtao she knew at the beginning? I haven't been able to let go, I don't want to marry, but what is the situation now.

"I don't need things, I need a husband, a father of children, don't you think I take a child a day, the house is not clean, the food is not in place, I am always hungry, I pull my face every day to lose my temper, isn't it?" Chen Na said.

"I didn't say that, you always say you're tired, I mean you can rest when the child falls asleep, so you won't be tired." Yang Jingtao said.

"Do you also admit that my mother-in-law said that I can't give you a son, and there is no male in your family to inherit the incense? I've known you for so many years, I don't think you think so, but you've never said a fair word for me in front of your parents, and if you speak, who would dare to bully me. Chen Na said.

"Who bullied you? They old people just talk casually, you don't hear it, they don't come a few times a year when you live with me, you don't care what they say. Yang Jingtao said.

"Did your mother-in-law bring you a new girlfriend to think they were bullying me, you are a bastard. Okay, you have a rest this week, you take care of the children for a day, I'll go out for a day and let you see what it's like to take a child. After Chen Na finished speaking, she went to the master bedroom to sleep with her daughter.

She lay on the bed and watched her daughter cry, thinking of how sweet she had been with Brother Tao to find a partner, and she didn't even quarrel, when she knew that Brother Tao's parents agreed to be together, how happy she was, but she didn't expect that marriage was much more difficult than love, two people in love were not suitable to break up, but marriage can't be divorced casually, and now there are children, let alone divorce, it is the fault of parents to give children an incomplete home.

When the weekend came, Chen Na called Yang Jingtao up very early, let him watch the child, Chen Na washed the child's clothes, cooked the meal and cleaned it up, cleaned the house and changed into beautiful clothes, and told Yang Jingtao how to flush the child's milk powder, how to change the diaper, which quilt to cover, and said that he would go out for a walk.

At first, Yang Jingtao felt very good, the child was full and lying on the bed playing by himself, Yang Jingtao looked at the mobile phone and smiled happily, feeling that he had picked up the RMB.

About an hour, the child was hungry and started crying, so Yang Jingtao called Chen Na and turned off the phone. According to what Chen Na said, the milk powder was washed, and the child drank it, and began to stink, Yang Jingtao pinched his hands and feet, and didn't know where to put his hands, how to deal with them, how to take them off, and after a while, the diapers were taken down, and the quilt sheets were dirty, and he cleaned up while disgusting.

At noon, the child was full, the buttocks were comfortable, and he fell asleep, Yang Jingtao began to prepare for lunch, thinking of cleaning up the child's diapers and suddenly felt that he had no appetite, and when he had the appetite to eat, the child woke up again, hungry again, and cried. Yang Jingtao ate breakfast for a whole day, and the other two meals were not eaten, the dirty sheets and quilt covers were not washed, and the child smelled of stinkiness, and he wanted to sleep for a while, but reality did not allow it.

Yang Jingtao thought that Chen Na couldn't eat a hot meal at home one day, and the mess at home turned out to be really indifferent, not lazy. Thinking that it is so sweet when falling in love, the relationship between husband and wife directly becomes terrifying after marriage and having children. I collapsed every day, Chen Na has been like this for several months, I don't understand her, Chen Na scolds herself like a bastard.

At eight o'clock in the evening, Chen Na bought a meal and turned on the mobile phone, and as soon as she turned on the phone, Yang Jingtao called with a good attitude: "Daughter-in-law, come back quickly, the child misses his mother, come back and bring me something to eat, I ate breakfast a day, lunch and dinner have not been eaten, you come back and watch the child, I wash the sheets and covers, the child is dirty." ”

"I'll be back soon." Chen Na said that Chen Na went out to sit outside the community for a day, she was worried that the child would not be taken care of by Brother Tao, and she did not worry about anything else.

Chen Na softened her heart, and blamed herself a little for putting her child down for Brother Tao to see, she really didn't look good. Brother Tao was hungry to eat, and Chen Na changed her clothes to bathe the child and clean up the house. Everything was ready, Chen Na closed the door and slept with the child, leaving Yang Jingtao and the child's clothes, bed sheets, and quilt covers in the toilet.

I don't know what time it is, Yang Jingtao finished his work and rested. The next morning, Yang Jingtao got up very early, made breakfast, and waited for Chen Na to get up.

"Get up, come over for breakfast, the weather is good today, let's go out for a walk as a family of three after breakfast." Yang Jingtao said.

Chen Na couldn't adapt to Yang Jingtao's actions today, she was too enthusiastic, and she felt like she was back in the moment of finding a partner. Chen Na still didn't say a word, ate breakfast, and Yang Jingtao took the initiative to clean up after eating.

Yang Jingtao's family of three went out, Yang Jingtao pushed the child, Chen Na walked alone, holding water, and slowly walked along the roadside with three people, and suddenly Yang Jingtao said: "I'm sorry, daughter-in-law, I don't know how hard you work with a child, I always think that an adult with a child can do a lot of things, including rest." Yesterday I took the kids alone for a day, and I'm going crazy, let alone the months you've been having. Later, when I come back to cook and clean up the house, you will take care of the children and you. ”

"Next week, when you rest, I'll take you to the hospital to give birth to a baby, so that you can feel the pain of giving birth and see how many levels you can last." Chen Na said.

"Forget it, I will take care of the child for a day, and then I will experience the birth instrument, I guess I will not be able to come back from the hospital, and I will go directly from the obstetrics department to the emergency department. I know you're working hard. Yang Jingtao finally told the truth.

Chen Na still has a very good way to treat Yang Jingtao, now that the relationship between husband and wife is good, she can understand each other's feelings, and the most headache is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother and son.

While Yang Jingtao and Chen Na were chatting, Chen Na's mother-in-law called and said, "What are you doing? Chen Na has recovered and then considered having a son, and I will come up to help you bring it. ”

This time, Chen Na was a little angry, and directly took the mobile phone in Yang Jingtao's hand to herself and said to her mother-in-law: "Mom, I know you want a grandson, but my body has not recovered well, and now I am busy with this child, I am still alive, you are a rabbit or a pig, a litter to give birth to a child, you come up to help me take it, are you helping me?" My work has not decreased, only increased, and you are helping your son, and you are not helping me. Yes, you didn't give birth to me and raise me, and you have no obligation to help me, but everyone will get old, have you ever thought that when you can't move when you are old in the future, your son will be by your side? Then there is also a saying that it is convenient or inconvenient, or do you expect your daughter-in-law? If you do this to me today, how do you think I will repay you in the future? It's okay if you think I'm not worthy of your son, let's get divorced, but after the divorce, your son will leave the house, the house and the children will be mine, and your son will give me living expenses every month until the child is eighteen years old. You find a woman to regenerate, if you can't give birth to a son, then divorce, and then find a woman, are you good for your son or are you harming your son, you decide for yourself, decide to call your son, we will prepare materials to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce, the child's surname is Chen, and there will be no half-cent relationship with your Yang family in the future. After Chen Na finished speaking, she threw the phone to Yang Jingtao and pushed the child home.

"What do you mean by your daughter-in-law? Still want a divorce, right? Okay, you are divorced, who is afraid of whom, and scares me that the children in the house are hers, and I think beautifully," Yang Jingtao's mother said.

"Mom, you don't have to worry about our affairs in the future, she didn't scare you, if the divorce court will award the house, children, and monthly living expenses to Chen Na, I have nothing. I don't want to divorce either, do you have to get married and break up with my good family? What's wrong with the girl, she is also my child, you and Chen Na are both daughters of other people's families, why didn't my grandparents dislike you, my father-in-law and mother-in-law also take Chen Na as a baby. In the future, I will not allow you to bully Chen Na and my daughter. Yang Jingtao finally said what was in his heart, he couldn't divorce, he couldn't lose Chen Na and his daughter.

After Yang Jingtao made the call, he sat on the side of the road and was quiet, Chen Na went home to pack her clothes and children's clothes, she wanted to go back to her parents' house for a few days, calm down for a few days, this home suffocated her, how did her daughter grow up in such an environment, she had a shadow in her heart when she grew up, and her daughter must grow up in a good and healthy environment. Chen Na cried while cleaning up and thinking about the grievances she had suffered from getting married to now.

When Yang Jingtao returned home, he found that his mother and mother were not there, and he thought that he had gone out and not come back, so he called Chen Na's mobile phone, "Daughter-in-law, haven't you come back yet?" I'll prepare lunch, and you and your daughter will come back slowly. Stay safe. Yang Jingtao said.

"You do less, I'm taking my daughter back to my mother's house, I need to calm down for a few days, you can stay by yourself." Chen Na hung up after speaking. Yang Jingtao called again Chen Na heard it and didn't answer, at this moment Yang Jingtao felt that the matter was a bit serious, Chen Na had never been like this, this time it was real. Yang Jingtao was a little scared.

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