Chen Na took the child back to her parents' house, Yang Jingtao sat on the sofa at home for an afternoon, thought about it all afternoon, and Yang Jingtao drove to her mother-in-law's house with gifts at dinner time.

"Nana said that you are very busy today, and you can't take care of it, so I don't have anything ready to eat." Chen Na's mother said to Yang Jingtao.

"It's okay, Mom, I also came over to pick up the two of them after work, Chen Na always wants her mother to cook after giving birth, so she comes over to eat, and she can't always eat at her mother's house." Yang Jingtao said,

"I want to eat your mother's cooking, the old people don't look down on it, it's not cost-effective to cook it for me, what's wrong with me eating my mother's cooking, you come to eat and go back alone, I'm staying at my mother's house tonight, you go back and think for yourself, next week you have a rest, it's up to you to pick up the two of us." Chen Na said to Yang Jingtao.

"Oh, then you can stay at Mom's house for a while, call me when you want to come back, and I'll pick you up." Yang Jingtao said.

After eating, Yang Jingtao accompanied Chen Na to wash the pot and clean up the kitchen, and the children played with their grandparents. Chen Na said: "You go back and discuss with your mother-in-law, if you think I am really not good, I am not worthy of you, I decided to divorce, tell me, you ask for leave and we will go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the formalities, this time I am sincere to fulfill your family and fulfill you." I also regret that I lost myself because of love, thinking that as long as you and I have the same relationship, it is okay, I am too young and ignorant, and a marriage without the blessing of my parents is not good, it is better to separate peacefully, you live your life, I live my life, I can not have a house, I must take away the children, and you must give me the living expenses every month, until my daughter is eighteen years old. I will only ask for these things, and you can discuss them, and you must wish I could ask for them. ”

"No, don't you say that, okay? It's really not easy for us to get to where we are today, it's all my fault before, I didn't handle the relationship between you and my parents well, after marriage, I don't think your parents should treat you well, at least they also love their son, thinking that you are pregnant and have a child, they won't ask for anything anymore, but I didn't think of it. Yesterday I also told my mother that I will not divorce them so that they don't make things difficult for you everywhere. Yang Jingtao said.

"In your heart, you have always put your parents first, and everything else is the second choice, your parents gave birth to you and raised you, you should be filial to them, but don't forget that your parents did not give birth to me and raise me, just because of you and I called their parents, because of you and I are filial to them, I am also the baby of my parents, am I angry when I marry you? If you think your parents are important, you can live with them, don't get married. Chen Na said a little aggrieved.

"Don't clean up, you go back quickly, I don't want to see you." Chen Na pushed Yang Jingtao out of the kitchen.

"Mom and Dad, I'll go first, let Chen Na stay for a few days, and I'll pick you up next week." Yang Jingtao said goodbye to his mother-in-law and his father-in-law and drove back.

Everyone is the baby of their parents, why should they be angry, the more Chen Na thinks about it, the more angry she becomes, she goes back to the house after cleaning up the kitchen, someone is watching the child at her mother's house, some people feel sorry for her, Chen Na can't tell her parents that she is afraid that they are worried, she can't tell the person next to the pillow, she can't understand, she can only chat with Bai Xue.

When Bai Xue heard what happened to Chen Na recently, she scolded Yang Jingtao angrily, but she also had to persuade Chen Na not to mention divorce casually, it is not easy to get married, the two of them love each other, but they can't deal with family conflicts, and divorce hurts feelings, but Chen Na is really dead set this time, and she is completely heartless to her in-laws.

Bai Xue persuaded Chen Na to calm down and deal with it, can what she said in her anger count? After chatting, Bai Xue originally wanted to call Yang Jingtao to scold him, but unfortunately he didn't have a mobile phone number, so he deleted it himself, and sometimes he couldn't delete other people's numbers casually, and he couldn't say that he would use it one day. Chen Na's mood was calm, but Bai Xue was not calm.

Bai Xue was not calm and was about to talk to Haifeng, and Bai Xue sent a long message to Haifeng. "Haifeng, you copy and paste the following words to Yang Jingtao, I don't have his number, it's not okay to scold him directly, you send him over." Bai Xue said.

"Yang Jingtao, you are a bastard, and you still want to divorce Chen Na, she gave up her parents for you and gave you a child, your family bullied her, disgusted that she couldn't have a son, does your family have a throne to inherit? I want a son, she hasn't recovered yet, and you force her to have another child, are you still a man? You haven't divorced yet, you are ready to find another woman to replace Chen Na's place, why would you marry her earlier, leave her a child and throw it away, you are a mother, all listen to your parents, can your parents take care of you and accompany you to death? Can I conjure up a son for you? It's not that Chen Na accompanies you to Baitou, when you get married, you oath that you are all farts, and you don't care about it after marriage, she takes the children to clean up the house and cook and take care of you alone, you look at your phone when you come back, it's good to marry you with a mobile phone, why do you want to hurt her, you are now the child's father, and you are no longer Chen Na's husband. If you divorce her, I will find a lawyer to help, the house, car, and children are all Chen Na's, and you will leave the house. Bai Xue sent these words to Haifeng.

Haifeng's mouth has grown so big after watching it, Haifeng, as a buddy, doesn't know these things at all, and they are so serious.

"Bai Xue, don't get angry and curse people first, calm down, is this what Chen Na said to you? Tomorrow, I'll go to see Yang Jingtao, understand the situation, don't listen to one person's statement and make a conclusion, you don't always get involved in the affairs of the two people, the husband and wife quarrel at the head of the bed and the end of the bed, and outsiders will take care of it. Haifeng said.

"Men don't have a good thing, you still help your buddies speak, if Chen Na is really cold, will she take the step of divorce? I'd rather leave a man alone with children, do you think you can scare a person by leaving when he has nothing to do? Chen Na lives in her mother's house. Her mother-in-law calls Chen Na every day to give birth to a son, and if she doesn't give birth, she will find another woman to give birth, do you think it's good for you to do this as a mother for your son? Is it best to break up your wife? Pig. Bai Xue beat Haifeng again.

"Okay, I'll find out tomorrow, if it's Yang Jingtao's fault, I won't help him, let Chen Na kneel down and apologize. Rest well and don't get angry. Haifeng didn't dare to continue talking, if he talked about Bai Xue again, he would scold himself to death, and he could save him and scold again.

went to work the next day, and at noon Haifeng found Yang Jingtao, who didn't go home for dinner, to chat. "Brother Tao, why do you go home for dinner today, isn't my sister-in-law at home?" Haifeng said.

"Well, I went back to my parents' house yesterday with the baby." Yang Jingtao said.

"I'm back to my parents' house, you didn't have any conflicts, right, she won't run away from her mother's house for no reason, and quarrel?" Haifeng asked tentatively.

"It's a bit contradictory, since giving birth to a child, your sister-in-law didn't go to work, she was a full-time mother at home, I thought it was easy for an adult to take a child without going to work, I was tired to death from work all day, I couldn't go back and take a break, I would sweep the floor, and let me wash my clothes, so I said a few words, I left the child with me the morning before yesterday, your sister-in-law went out shopping, and didn't come back until the evening, I took the child for a day, I was hungry for a day and didn't take care of eating, the child's clothes, sheets and covers were also dirty, The house was not cleaned up, and I realized how bitter a woman was, I apologized, and we reconciled. But yesterday my mother called to ask your sister-in-law to have another son, and said that if you don't give birth, you will divorce, and if you divorce, you will find another son to have, and your sister-in-law got angry and quarreled with my mother, and I also told my mother. When I go back, your sister-in-law will take the child back to her parents' house, and I will pick it up in the evening, and your sister-in-law directly asked me to consider going, and I considered asking for leave to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau. Really this time. Yang Jingtao didn't hide it to his brother, and said it all.

"You said that you have made trouble to this point, how good you were when you were looking for a partner before, mutual understanding, tolerance, trust, support, encouragement, and finally got married, but after marriage, was it your original idea to live like this? It's not that I said Brother Tao, you really did something wrong, after all, your sister-in-law has been with you all your life, you dislike her and don't help her, your parents are even more troublesome to her, and you let a woman who gave birth to a child for you fight alone at home. After Haifeng finished speaking, he thought of Bai Xue's angry scolding, and he really didn't scold the wrong person. But I can't add fuel to the fire at this time, and copy and paste Bai Xue's words to Brother Tao.

"I also know that I did something wrong, and I also figured it out, my wife is the most important person, and I will pick it up next week and live a good life." Yang Jingtao said.

"Oh, I'll go with you next week, I went over to persuade and want a child, in a few years, when my goddaughter grows up, my sister-in-law is in a good mood and recovers well, you can think about having a child, this child is still a year old, and he gave birth again, I really want to drive my sister-in-law crazy." I just thought about myself, and I didn't think about my sister-in-law's feelings from the other party's point of view," Haifeng said.

The two big men chatted for an hour, didn't sleep during the lunch break, and went straight to work in the afternoon.

"Haifeng, did you give Yang Jingtao the message I sent last night?" Bai Xue sent a message to question Haifeng.

"No, today I looked for Brother Tao, and after talking for an hour, he knew that he was wrong, and he went to pick up his sister-in-law in person next week, and understood that his wife is the most important person." Haifeng said.

"If you don't go in person, are you still going to call back? Sooner or later, I will go back to clean him up, I don't care who is who, I only know that Chen Na as a daughter-in-law, as a wife, as a mother, she is already competent enough, and she still treats her like this. Are they all human? Bai Xue said.

"Okay, I know you are very angry about this matter, I will persuade Chen Na's sister-in-law to help Yang Jingtao, and hope that their husband and wife will be harmonious and loving. No one wants to end two people who love each other with a divorce at the end. Haifeng said.

In the order of women's hearts: children, husbands, parents. Put your husband in second place, and focus on the children and ignore the feelings of the other half.

In the order of men's hearts: parents, buddies, children, wives. Put the wife last, everything else is important, only the other half is not important.

I would like to advise everyone: In this life, parents should be filial piety, children should be educated well, and only the other half needs to be treated well with sincerity, patience and perseverance, because the other half is the most important person in life.