Chapter 921: Difference Between Active and Reactive
Changning raised his head and looked at her in disbelief, "What did you say?"
Gao Ying gritted her teeth, knowing that she probably shouldn't say this.
But now she is nothing, and she can sit here today because of the friendship she once played with, so she still said, "Give up! Sometimes, some persistent thoughts are not necessarily a good thing to stay in the memory.
Because in this world, many things are persisted in to the end, but they find that their persistence is a mistake in the end."
Changning didn't speak, but obviously couldn't accept Gao Ying's statement.
Gao Ying sighed, "With your identity, it is impossible not to marry, since you have the courage to wait for so many years, why don't you have the courage to directly find someone who can treat you well, and then talk to Your Majesty or Your Highness?"
Changning finally retorted, "No! I can't accept anyone else, I can't!"
"It's just the difference between active and passive." Gao Ying sighed again, but it made the eldest princess of Changning completely collapse.
She couldn't help but lie on the table, burying her face in the crook of her arm, and sobbing incessantly.
Although no one thinks of her now, perhaps that person doesn't bother to care about an aunt who is not yet married.
But that day will come eventually, and what is the probability that the last person will be that person?
Whether it is forced by outside words, or if there is just some opportunity to appear, that person will still marry himself after all.
The most likely thing is that his own marriage was used to make a big fuss.
As for who the person who is going to be married, no one cares.
She can only passively accept it.
This is the difference between active and passive in Gao Ying's theory.
But that day still didn't come, maybe......
Maybe there's a chance?
How could Gao Ying not see her thoughts, and how could she not be so persistent in the past.
It's just that, relatively speaking, he is a little luckier than this princess.
She still has parents, even though her parents don't understand her, and may not even be able to support her, but in the end, she plans for herself because of her feelings.
She got what she wanted and married the man she wanted to marry.
It's just that from the standpoint of the people who came over, she felt from the bottom of her heart that there was really no need for the eldest princess of Changning to suffer such grievances and experience this kind of thing like herself.
In Gao Ying's eyes, after experiencing that marriage, all the feelings in this world are not trustworthy.
At least......
For example, what is the difference between the eldest princess of Changning and the little princess Wen at the moment and the one-way relationship between her who was like a moth to the fire at the beginning.
But at the same time, looking at such the eldest princess of Changning, Gao Ying couldn't help but think of her previous self.
After a long time, after Changning gradually quieted down, Gao Ying still spoke, "Otherwise, you will give yourself a deadline."
"Deadline?"
"Well, you set a deadline for yourself, set a deadline that you can stick to, if before that, he still doesn't say anything, and the relationship between the two of you is still like this, then you give up."
Changning looked at her in surprise, "But I ......."
"Don't say you're willing to wait, you don't have that condition, your situation can't help yourself, if you keep waiting, the final result will be that the prince will casually give you a marriage, and at that time, everything will be too late.
There's nothing wrong with you liking him, but before that, you are also yourself, you are also Changning, you are the same as anyone else in this life, there is no difference, you will also come to old age, princess, people can't live for others all their lives, right?"
Changning was a little dazed, but she understood Gao Ying's words.
So she was silent, and after a long time, she said helplessly, "This is so difficult!"
"Of course it's hard."
Gao Ying smiled bitterly in her heart, if it weren't for the sudden change in her family, she might not be sober.
If the Gao family has always been powerful, she
There may even be other means to force Chen to comply.
The biggest possibility is that the last two people become a grudge couple.
Gao Ying patted the back of her hand, "Princess, think carefully about what I said, think about the outcome you are most likely to face, then...... It's not hard."
Changning couldn't help but shudder at the thought that she would be casually assigned to someone she might not have met at all.
She gritted her teeth, and finally said with difficulty, "Okay! This time, if he can return triumphantly in southern Yunnan, he will inevitably accept the reward of the imperial court, and it is inevitable that he will enter Beijing, if he still does not speak, then I will give up."
Before he finished speaking, he was already crying uncontrollably.
Gao Ying patted her on the shoulder, "Isn't that right? You see, you've taken that step."
Changning felt a little stunned.
But when I raised my eyes, I saw the peace between Gao Ying's eyebrows and eyes, and my heart suddenly seemed to be gently caressed.
"Ah Ying, do you really feel happy now?"
Gao Ying replied without hesitation, "There is no moment so happy as this."
Changning smiled, she knew that what Gao Ying said was true.
After leaving the palace this time, the eldest princess of Changning has not sneaked out for a long time.
Gao Ying didn't know if what she said to her had any effect.
But this time when she met Changning, she suddenly remembered many things in the past, many people.
Only then did she think that she seemed to have been separated from the past for a long time.
If you calculate it carefully, it's only half a year.
After thinking about it in a daze, Lin Ruoxi outside was calling her, "Ah Ying, someone from the Zhong Mansion of Ruyi Fang has come to urge, how long will it take for your Harmony and Two Immortals screen?" You divide the rest of the things at hand first, and embroider this first."
Gao Ying came back to her senses, opened the curtain, and saw Lin Ruoxi pulling the abacus beads while keeping accounts, and even talking to her at the same time, which was difficult for her to take care of.
The sunlight fell on her body through the carved window sash next to her, showing a bit of tranquility, and the crackling abacus sound became a solo song.
So the smell of life suddenly came to the face.
Gao Ying couldn't help but smile, she was originally a brand new self.
Lin Ruoxi happened to look up and saw her smile, and couldn't help but wonder, "What are you laughing at?"
"I look at it like this, Sister Lin is really beautiful."
Who knew that Lin Ruoxi sighed indignantly when she heard this, "Don't say it, I'm going to be annoyed to death."
Xie Wenyuan walked out of the next room and said with a smile: "What's so annoying about this, there are many people who come to ask for relatives, which means that you are liked."
"But I don't like any of them!" When she said this, Lin Ruoxi didn't realize that there was a bit of Xie Sihua's flavor in her tone.
It turned out that it was for this matter, Gao Ying couldn't help but purse her lips and smile.