Growth - Growing pains

Mom and Dad, I planned what to eat during the three-day National Day holiday on the first day: eat hot pot or private dishes, the small fried yellow beef last time was so delicious, I was hungry for a long time.

It was as if the smell had filled my stomach. Day 2: Barbecue, Day 3: Malatang.

"It may not be as you wish, I want to go to my grandfather's house on the 1st, my grandfather's birthday, eat hot pot on the 3rd, just accompany my mother for her birthday" Okay, you can do it Zhou Zhou, you just came back, I'll cut some cantaloupe for you.

You chatted with your dad, and before we could start talking, my dad answered the phone. The approximate content of the call is:

"Xiaojun, my son got married on the 3rd, and I want to invite your family to get together, do you have time?" I frantically waved to my father, I was going to send my child to school on the 3rd

"Do you go to school so early? Isn't it 7 days? "They let it go for three days

"Then let's do it, you and your wife come together" I compared with my father for a long time, and I could have said it bravely, but I couldn't do anything to change the result.

Dad agreed. As soon as I hung up the phone, I output quickly

"Dad, don't you know that the 3rd is Mom's birthday? Why don't you refuse? You know I've wanted to eat hot pot for a long time, and I don't like that kind of occasion. You can refuse, why don't you refuse? After you do this, I don't think I'll refuse to do anything I want. "This matter is not as simple as you think, I have no way to refuse, people have already spoken, and sent the invitation to my mobile phone, I didn't see the call to me.

"Why can't you say no? Let's tell the truth about my mother's birthday, I don't believe she doesn't understand? Who doesn't want to spend their birthday with their family?"

"Otherwise, you send the money to her mobile phone and don't go," what would you think in your heart when you ran for money

"What do I care about her? Why is everything piled up? Disrupted my plans, I'm mad, this matter was originally very simple, but you complicated it "Otherwise, I won't go, you and your mother will go."

Mom rushed out and said

"Why don't you go if people invite you? We can both not go, you can't not go" so how the hell is it resolved?

Dad was silent, don't think about these things first, and tomorrow I will talk about all kinds of troubles in our lives, some troubles because the other party has a close connection with himself, and he can't open his mouth to refuse, so he has to do things he doesn't like to do.

Do you have such troubles?