"For example, if you have done a wrong thing, and you have been living in the shadow of this matter, and you are suffering all the time, then if you have accepted the condemnation, let go of this matter, and after letting go, you will find that it is not you who did that thing, or rather, it is the former you, and it has nothing to do with the current you, this is a kind of detachment."

I said truthfully, as soon as I talked about this, my voice was relaxed, "Whether it is Buddhism or Taoism, the spiritual beliefs they convey are to make you a better you, let go, it is the bad you, as if we have to work, every day is very impetuous, it feels very hard, but there is nothing in return, always want to complain about the heavens, to blame this, to blame that, to let go, is this bad mentality, because you think too much, the energy field will be very poor, only to cut off the messy thoughts that hinder you, You will become a better you, detached into a new you."

"But little Hotaru, don't you think some cultures are very contradictory?"

Sister Xiaoling said, "My mother told me to be magnanimous, but I always think that people are not for themselves, and the heavens and the earth will be destroyed, if this is not right, why will it be handed down?"

"People do not do what they do in themselves, but they do what they cultivate, not for their own actions."

I looked at her, "It means that if a person doesn't cultivate properly, it's very difficult to gain a foothold in heaven and earth."

Sister Xiaoling was dumb and speechless, I went over and held her hand and quietly talked a lot. ap.

The monk asked the Zen master, "How is a hair-blowing sword?"

The Zen master replied, "The coral branches hold the moon."

The so-called first truth refers to the profound and supreme truth of Buddhism, which is the highest truth of the first perfection and perfection of all the laws.

The Zen master's answer was that the branches were holding the moon, and the branches were pointing, and everywhere was ......

In other words, when the moon shines on people, there is no selfishness.

If you ask where the Buddha is, the Buddha is everywhere, and it is in your heart.

You ask where God is, and God is in heaven and watching you in your heart.

Speaking of which, of course, Buddhism and Taoism have something in common, and the two do not conflict, but when they reach a certain doorway, they must be learned separately, because advanced things can no longer be mixed.

In the past few years, I have been in contact with many people, and I will also talk about Buddhism and Taoism, and I found a very interesting phenomenon.

Many people will be more willing to believe in Buddhism, why, because they think that the threshold for learning the Tao is very high, not only involving the wisdom of the root of the supernatural powers, but also some knowledge is too obscure, in contrast, the threshold for learning Buddhism is much lower, and the theories that have been circulated are also easy to understand and accept, and there is no need to pay tuition fees for entry.

However, if you really learn Buddhism, you will find that it also charges tuition, but it is collected later, and many of its concepts are abstract, and there are some nouns and concepts, and if you don't read enough Buddhist scriptures, you won't be able to understand them at all, and they are not easy to understand.

Therefore, these two kinds of knowledge are very profound, and it takes a lot of time to comprehend, and it is truly endless.

"Hotaru, you're at a very high level."

Sister Xiaoling looked like she was being taught, "Have you understood everything?"

"No, I'm still far away."

I shook my head and smiled, "Sister Xiaoling, I read from the book that there are three realms in life, and the first one is to let go of ......."

This first realm is also the pursuit of most people's lives.

When you let go of some of your delusions, get out of your inner shackles, and transform into a new version of yourself, that's quite a success.

Then the second realm is that you dare to enter the WTO again.

Because many people's spirit and psychology have a paradise, they are unwilling to face the world, the things you once threw down, which can also be understood as your willingness to turn around and accept the experience again, which is the second realm.

The third is to advance and retreat freely, and forget about things and me.

Feel free to put it down or pick it up.

You can advance or retreat, everything is really the same as the fate, the same as the fate

Finish.

Looking at Sister Xiaoling's eyes that seemed to understand and didn't understand, I said bluntly, "I haven't reached the first level, so how can I talk about it."

It is said in the words of the world that those who have become a great career in ancient and modern times must pass through three realms.

The first is that last night the west wind withered the green trees, and went up to the tall building alone, looking at the end of the world.

The second is that the belt gradually widens and does not regret it, and it makes people haggard for Yi.

The third type, the crowd looked for him thousands of times, and suddenly looked back, but the person was there, and the lights were dim.

I understand that the first level of the realm corresponds to life, climbing tall buildings, expanding ambitions, there are full of ambition, there are also dazed and lonely, in the struggle to climb the tall building, will reach the second level of the realm.

If you want to achieve a greater career, you will inevitably be tempered greater, you must persevere to the end, and you will never regret the gradual widening of the belt, we have survived, to the third realm, suddenly looking back, success is in front of you, or, it turns out that the success I am pursuing is already on me.

This is my very superficial understanding, obviously, I am still in the first place, and I am climbing the stairs.

Sister Xiaoling asked questions again and again from the beginning, and at the end she was all in a state of silence, so she listened to me there.

She was very miraculous to find that I had a hard time talking when I ate, but when I talked about it, my voice was clear and bright.

To be honest, I really like to talk about these things, and the reason why I read books at home for a long time is to constantly figure out and analyze.

Slowly you will find that those words come to life, they are no longer printed in books, but vivid, vivid, can really enrich your heart, make you feel happy.

When you pass on these powers, you will get other inspiration from them, and the process is wonderful and beautiful.

But my biggest gain tonight is Sister Xiaoling, she really listened to what I said, and also let go of some prejudices and misunderstandings about Buddhism, and in the end, she decided not to worship anything, everything from the heart.

In my life, I only wish to cultivate two kinds of virtue, virtue and faith.

As the saying goes, life is fateful, do more good deeds.

If you do a good deed every day, you will be blessed.

Xu talked very thoroughly, and I slept very deeply after turning off the lights, and finally I didn't have nightmares anymore.

When I woke up in the morning, I couldn't speak again, I scribbled some porridge, my throat was very painful, and my throat felt like a knife.

Fortunately, Qian'an was there, and he helped me convey everything to my brother-in-law and Sister Xiaoling, and I left the boxes of snacks and carbonated drinks that I didn't finish eating, and waited for her son to come back to eat, and it was best to put them away, and don't let the children eat casually.

After all, it's all spicy lollipops or something, and you still have to control the amount of food for your child.

My brother-in-law still wanted to be polite, but Sister Xiaoling looked at my miserable face and directly suppressed his words.