In this way, under the encouragement of Pi Xiaolu, the two of them drove to Huzhou on a whim in the afternoon of the same day.

Of course, when Buli left Shanghai like this, he needed to report to his family the reason for going to Huzhou.

Her reason is very sufficient, and it is also a coincidence, it turns out that her own aunt, that is, Zhou Ping's mother, happened to be recuperating in a sanatorium on the edge of Taihu Lake in Huzhou at this time.

After going to Huzhou, the reason why she went to Anji Wang Youjie's hometown was also to see Wang Youjie's circle of friends that afternoon, and the address shown in the following payment was Anji, Huzhou, knowing that Wang Youjie had returned to his hometown, so Bu Li finally made up his mind to come to Huzhou.

Bu Li's idea, that day was the first day of the Dragon Boat Festival holiday, since Wang Youjie returned to his hometown, it should be unlikely that he would only stay at home for one day, that is, at least he should still be in Anji's hometown that night.

On the other hand, even if Wang Youjie was not at home, Bu Li thought of a way out, so he went to Huzhou to visit his aunt.

In this way, under the pretext of going to Huzhou to see my aunt, my parents at home did not have any doubts and opinions, and directly agreed.

The reason why she wanted to pull her cousin Zhou Ping to Wang Youjie's hometown was also because she had concerns, if she and Pi Xiaolu were in Wang Youjie's house in the past, it would be too popular and inconvenient.

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Bu Li stared at Pi Xiaolu: "You said it later." ”

Pi Xiaolu thought for a while and said, "Sister Bu, you tell us the truth first, are you really a little anxious about your marriage now?" ”

"Year after year, do you think I can not be in a hurry now?"

Bu Li sighed, and then said: "And I also know that you, including all my relatives and friends, are also worried about me, and it seems that it has become a big concern for everyone. ”

Pi Xiaolu looked out of the front windshield.

Bu Li was silent for a while before he said again: "Xiaolu, do you want to say that I am not suitable for him?" ”

"To tell the truth, this time I came to Huzhou, and I went to Wang Youjie's hometown in the countryside. This is the first time I've seen Sister Bu take the initiative in so many years. Pi Xiaolu didn't look back, and continued, "However, I still want to hit you, my personal opinion, I don't think you and that Mr. Wang are suitable." ”

Zhou Ping remained silent.

Breeth leaned back in her chair, bowed her head and did not speak.

Pi Xiaolu turned his head to look at Bu Li: "Sister Bu, as for the big truth, I remember what I told you before, do you remember?" ”

Bree didn't speak.

Pi Xiaolu let out a long breath and said, "I still think I was right. From the point of view of the right match, the two of you are actually not a good match. ”

"Xiaolu, what do you mean by a good match, according to your thoughts, what kind of men and women are the right people?" Zhou Ping, who was sitting in the back, interjected with a smile.

Pi Xiaolu did not look back, and said that in ancient marriage, people paid attention to the right family, which refers to the similarity of two families of men and women in terms of material conditions, social status, living habits, and family culture, which are suitable for marriage. To put it simply, the economic conditions and strength of the two families can match, and such a love can be regarded as a good match. Of course, in general, the man's family is required to be slightly better than the woman's family.

Of course, in modern times, this pair has a new meaning. So, what kind of men and women in modern society are the new pairs?

"I personally think that marriage is also the proximity of two families, and the two families are quite matched, so that the men and women of the family are a good match together." Pi Xiaolu said,

"In modern marriage, the right match is still an important factor that needs to be considered. In love, there can be no right person, and you can be desperate. But we know that marriage is not a matter of two people. We say that marriage should be the right family, isn't it that the social status and economic situation of the two families should be similar! ”

Bree thought for a moment and said, "You mean his family is too poor?" ”。

"That's true, Sister Bu?" Pi Xiaolu smiled and said, "For a simple example, with his family's current economic conditions, I'm afraid that to buy a slightly decent house in Shanghai, a down payment of thirty may not be able to come up, right?" ”

Breeje looked at Pi Xiaolu with both eyes.

Pi Xiaolu thought about it and said, I have seen a lot, just because when the woman was on a blind date with her husband, she found that her husband's family was very poor. They always think that it doesn't matter if my husband is poor, and I can work together with him to support this family.

But this is not the case.

Why do many girls choose flash marriage after they can't accept the pressure from the outside world? As a result, after a few years of marriage, I found that because of money problems, my husband has a lot of bad tempers, and my mother-in-law's family has a lot of problems,-----, which led to my breakup? In the end, when she gets divorced, she will say to anyone around her, you must find someone who loves you, you must find a rich person?

In fact, what she wants to find is not necessarily a rich person, but a family match. No one knows the poor in the downtown area, but the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. That's true. ”

Pi Xiaolu said: "It's not that he is rich and poor, but that his kind of values, his way of dealing with things, the poor and the rich, are absolutely different." ”

The cloth is silent.

"Sister Bu, you must know that the core capital of a man in an intimate relationship is money and power. A woman's core capital in an intimate relationship is her appearance and gentleness. Pi Xiaolu said,

"The matching of the core capital of men and women is the general match in the modern sense. Other conditions, such as jobs, academic qualifications, ----, and other factors, do not involve the core of attracting capital. Do you know how to cut it? ”