Chapter 33: We've all become the kind of people we hated when we were kids
Liu Mei, who can lose sleep for three days with a cup of coffee, can't afford to make this bet, she can only hold a glass of boiled water tightly, frowning slightly, staring at the transparent glass, the lemon grains in it swaying slightly.
Xiaomi looked at her with a sad and indignant face: "You say, why am I so miserable, marrying such a man, every day is gentle, half yin and half yang, driving a broken car, living in a broken house, and being happy like two hundred and five, the old is paralyzed, the little trickster, I am basically about to collapse."
If it had been put aside, Liu Mei would definitely say: "You are content, you have such good twin sons, and those who have a car and a house don't know how much better than how many people are better", but after staying in marriage for a long time, she finally found out that marriage is a beautiful pie painted for all single people, because all people have to get married throughout the ages, so you, me, and everyone have to approach this besieged city, and if you don't get married, you're a monster, and you're anti-human and anti-social. But when I really got married, gave birth to a baby, love was worn out by life, and when all the contradictory dates surfaced, the whole person was confused and anxious.
If you love to death, it's okay to be willing to give everything, but the trivialities in marriage have long buried such passion in the deep pit, not to mention, how many men and women who marry are two people who love to death and live to get married? Aren't there many people who look at their age, and the other party is okay, and they get together in line with social traditions and the concept of inheritance?
She and Niu Yang?
Niu Yang was indeed in the jade pot at the beginning, but in the more than ten years of waiting, didn't there be the counter-stimulation of "what you can't get is the best"? If she had agreed to be with him in middle school, it was very likely that the conflict would have appeared long ago, and she might have broken up long ago, and she would not have ended up getting married and living under the same roof.
She herself is even more typical. Although it was said that at the beginning, Xu Mo abandoned her and was with other women, she complained and hated, but in the end, she forgave him in her heart, after all, a man has the right to choose the person and the future who determines his own fate, but Xu Mo is her own love, she chose herself, this is her own life, who is to blame?
Now in her ordinary life, she often dreams of him in her dreams, dreams of their childhood, a youthful and ignorant face, a sunny and youthful body, an innocent smile and a throbbing heartbeat often make her reluctant to wake up from her dreams. After five years of marriage, Niu Yang didn't spoil her as much as she did at the beginning, and she wasn't sure if life had worn out his love, and the two of them didn't seem to have any other common topics and interests except for their children. She didn't care much about him being away on business for half of the week. As for what he was doing outside and who he was with, he had no interest in it, but he felt physically and mentally exhausted from the hard work of going to work alone while taking care of his children.
Life has forced her to become stronger and stronger, but for the sake of her children, she has nowhere to escape.
After all, for his daughter, Niu Yang is a good father who can score 90 points.
Looking at Xiaomi, Liu Mei's heart shrank, "Xiaomi, what do you say a woman gets in marriage?" “
"Alas!" With a long sigh, Millet shrunk herself into the wide and soft sofa, "Woman, what you get is a child who can never get rid of being willing to be a slave, with a child, a woman will no longer be a woman, but just a mother!" ”
Liu Mei raised his eyes to look at the haggard millet. "Heh, I didn't expect you to be able to say such philosophical things!"
"The almighty life has turned a heartless girl into a philosopher who can only sigh about life", Xiaomi frowned, "Sometimes I really want to cry, but at that time you find that you don't even have the place and time to cry, the house is full of people, and people crying outside are not allowed to take you as a madman and spread it on the Internet?" Even if you sneak into tears, in case the child sees it, you have to patiently explain that the mother's eyes are a little sore before she sheds tears, and then viciously glances at the man playing the game, and takes the two sons who are disgusted by the dog to take a bath and brush their teeth and wait for them to sleep."
"Did you quarrel with Li Ping?" Liu Mei asked.
"Noisy, almost every day, I can't get used to his little man's style, he can't get used to me always trying to make money", Xiaomi disdainfully "cut", "If there is really a regret medicine in this world to buy, I wouldn't marry this man if I was killed, if it weren't for the two children, I would have divorced a long time ago!" “
Liu Mei was silent for a while, and suddenly said, "Mi'er, have you noticed that we are becoming people who we hated when we were children."
Xiaomi also fell silent.
And then said, "When you say that, it's true, we've all become the people we hated when we were kids."