Chapter 65: Love is the Best Education

At noon that day, Chen Xiang was lying on the bed, teasing Xiaomu. Wang Yan flipped through the psychology book, and suddenly, she took the book to Chen Xiang, pointed to one place and said, "Look at this sentence, you will educate children in the future." “

"What." Chen Xiang glanced impatiently, only to see Wang Yan pointing to a line of bold small characters, "We are looking around for the secret recipe of our godson, who knows, in fact, it is hidden in our hearts." A wise man said: Love is the best education. “

"Okay, leave it to you to educate." Chen Xiang turned around and teased Xiao Mu: "Come on, make a little finger crooked." “

"I'll pick up Rongrong tonight, I don't want you to pick it up." Wang Yan said as if competing for some treasure.

"If you want to pick it up, don't worry, no one will rob you." Chen Xiang's tone was deliberately raised, and Xiao Mu shouted over there: "Dad, look, is it right to bend your little fingers like this?" “

Wang Yan walked out of the dormitory, leaving the father and daughter to continue playing. In the evening, when school was over, Wang Yan really rode a battery car to pick up Rongrong.

On the way, Wang Yan asked Rong Rong softly: "Are you hungry?" Mommy is taking you to buy two bean buns?" On the way from the school to the factory, I passed a farmer's market where everything was sold. Usually Rong Rong has never enjoyed this treatment after school.

When Rong Rong saw his mother asking, he said, "Mom, I want to eat stinky dried tofu." Children who go to school have a weak mouth and love to eat a snack. Wang Yan also worried about zero reality when she was young, when her family was poor, she could buy a bread for a dime and a half. She usually brings four sweet potatoes from home, puts them in her upper and lower pockets, and eats two more on the way to school to satisfy her cravings.

Wang Yan knew that the stinky tofu seller was at the top of the street in the farmer's market, so she rode a bicycle and took Rong Rong to buy a bowl of stinky dried tofu for five yuan.

Wang Yan said softly and motherly: "When you finish eating, we will leave again, so as not to spill the soup." Rong Rong ate dried tofu and replied without raising his head: "Well, okay." Wang Yan asked Rong Rong, "Is it delicious?"

Rong Rong said: "It's not as delicious as my hometown, but it's also delicious." Wang Yan smiled comfortably. She decided to talk to Rong Rong about the communication with their teacher today.

Wang Yan asked, "How is your math teacher?" Rong Rong said, "What's the matter?" Wang Yan said: "How is the lecture? Do you understand what the teacher said?" Rong Rong said: "It's very good, Mr. Gao lectures and likes to use classmates as analogies, which is very interesting." I can understand. Wang Yan said, "I went to your school today to find your homeroom teacher and teacher Gao." Rong Rong let out an "um" and waited for her mother to continue.

Wang Yan continued: "Teacher Gao praised you for being smart, but you were careless, and you failed the first test, right?"

Rong Rong said: "Well, I didn't listen to the lecture at first."

Wang Yan asked, "Why don't you listen well?" Rong Rong was silent.

Wang Yan said: "What did my mother tell you before? Raise your hand to answer questions in class so that you can concentrate and not get distracted. "Do you see the teacher calling the teacher?"

Rong Rong didn't know why her mother asked this question, she said, "Sometimes it's called, sometimes it's not."

"When you see a teacher, you must call it. Every teacher likes to respect their students. If you don't call the teacher, the teacher still thinks that the parents are not qualified. Wang Yan deliberately added the latter sentence, she hoped that Rongrong would respect the teacher normally, at least leave a better impression on the teacher. The child has just transferred to another school, and there are so many children in the class, if the grades are not excellent, and they do not know how to respect the teacher, it is difficult to attract the attention of the teacher.

"Rongrong, your homeroom teacher, Teacher Shen, also praised you for being smart." Wang Yan deliberately said that the teacher praised Rongrong, so that she thought that the child could feel recognized by the teacher.

Rong Rong said, "How did Teacher Shen know?"

"Your previous test results and comments in your hometown are all in the system. Now the whole country is networked. Teacher Shen saw it. Wang Yan made up words that Rong Rong couldn't verify.

When Rong Rong heard her mother say this, she had a good heart in her heart. It's not that the teacher praises her and makes her happy, she is happy that her mother knows that she is a smart child, and she thinks that her mother is approving of her. When she first transferred to Beijing, she didn't know any of her classmates, and the children also had a world, she was not the kind of person who could mingle with strangers all at once, she was silent and lonely in the classroom every day. When she got home, her father only checked her homework, and if she wanted to play with her little sister for a while, she would be scolded and beaten. She wanted to go back to her hometown, she told her father, and his father disciplined her. Now my mother buys stinky tofu for herself to eat, maybe the teacher is really boasting about herself. Rong Rong thought so. She said to her mother, "Mom, several of my classmates are children from welfare homes."

Wang Yan knew that in front of Rongrong School was a welfare home, and the children there had no father or mother. She said to Rong Rong: "It is not easy for children in welfare homes to have no parents, you have to take the initiative to socialize with them and learn to help your classmates." Then you have friends. When Rongrong was young, her mother told her about the importance of making friends. She said: "I have a lot of good friends in my hometown, and I also have them in the community. Xiaopeng and Juanjuan both played with me. “

Wang Yan looked happy and said, "Our family Rongrong is great!" Have you made friends in the class now?"

Rong Rong lowered his head and said, "No, I just came here and don't know them."

Wang Yan said: "You have to take the initiative to talk to other students. Learn to be generous, don't wait for someone to take the initiative to talk to you. You know? The more generous you are, the more friends you have. Every classmate is just like you, they are also children, and they are embarrassed to take the initiative to talk to others. If you take the initiative, it's fine. Wang Yan said a lot, Rong Rong heard her mother say, and people were embarrassed to take the initiative to say hello, so her heart moved. She thought that there were also two new transfer students in the class, and they didn't talk much. She said, "Mom, you may be right, there are two other classmates in our class, one is a boy and the other is a girl, and they don't talk much." ”

Wang Yan said in a very sympathetic tone: "Yes, then you can talk to them first." When my mother was in elementary school, she didn't understand, she didn't talk to others, and she didn't have any friends. Later, my mother took the initiative to help her classmates endorse and dance rubber bands with her classmates, and there were more and more friends. “

Rong Rong asked in surprise: "Mom, you didn't have any friends when you were a child."

Wang Yan explained seriously: "It's not that my mother doesn't have friends, but she doesn't know how to make friends. I wish I had friends. Later, my mother found out, you see, your Aunt Zhuang was my mother's friend in elementary school. At that time, Aunt Zhuang didn't play with her mother, but her mother brought a rope and took the initiative to find her to skip rope, and slowly became friends with her mother. “

Rong Rong knew Aunt Zhuang, when her mother went back to her hometown, she would take herself to Aunt Zhuang's house every time. Rong Rong asked, "Are you a friend of Aunt Zhuang?" How pathetic. “

Wang Yan said: "Yes, if you don't have friends, you will be lonely at school. How good you are, so many friends in your hometown. However, my mother became friends with other classmates again. When you go to Beijing, you have to be friends with other students. That's how fun it is for you to go to school. “

Rong Rong's stinky tofu was almost finished, and Wang Yan teased her: "Hey, my mouth is big, I'm almost finished." I didn't leave one for my mother. “

Rong Rong was embarrassed to get up and handed the bowl to Wang Yan: "There are two more, keep them for my mother."

Wang Yan took it and said: "Our family's glory is filial piety. Come, one for each of us. Rong Rong said, "I don't eat it, I'll leave it to my mother." Wang Yan finished eating and took Rong Rong home.

Wang Yan said in the car: "Rongrong, did Dad beat you?"

Rong Rong said: "My dad will beat me if he is fine."

Wang Yan said: "Your father is not the kind of person who has nothing to beat, he is so tired every day that he doesn't even have the time to drink water." You must have not studied well, and if I were at home, I would have played too. Rong Rong was silent. Wang Yan said: "Mom will leave the day after tomorrow. You have to do your homework well at home and don't let your dad worry about it. You see that your father is tired like that every day, and when he comes back, he can't even wash his face, so he goes to sleep. “

Rong Rong agreed: "Hmm." The mother and daughter didn't speak again, and after arriving at the factory, Rong Rong went to do his homework.

At night, he coaxed Xiaomu to sleep. Wang Yan said to Chen Xiang: "I met Mr. Shen, the head teacher of Rongrong, and Mr. Gao of mathematics today."

Chen Xiang asked: "The teacher has complained, your daughter is not doing well."

Wang Yan said: "No, the teacher praised Rongrong for being smart." I took the first place in the class in the second math test!" Chen Xiang didn't believe it, "She has good grades, and the teacher can still send text messages to complain every day?"

Wang Yan said: "The teacher doesn't call it a complaint, but hopes that your children will do their homework well." "You know what? The teacher said that Rong Rong didn't play with other children after class, and lay on the table by himself. “

Chen Xiang asked, "What is she doing?"

Wang Yan said: "What are you doing, the child is lonely, I feel uncomfortable listening to it." You are like a psychopath every day, you don't know how to communicate with your children, and you beat your children. “

Chen Xiang was silent for a moment when he heard Wang Yan say this. He asked: "Then you said that she didn't write her homework seriously every day, and she didn't write everything she would do, and she pretended." What do you say?"

Wang Yan said: "Take your time, you communicate with her more." Especially don't hurt Xiaomu in front of her. In that case, the child will feel uncomfortable. “

Chen Xiang said: "Xiaomu is so small, it is natural to hold her and hurt her." Rong Rong doesn't hurt either, it's just that she's older, so I'm strict with her. “

Wang Yan said: "The child doesn't think so. Especially, when you scolded her and beat her in Xiaomumian, she lost face. When the child is older, he understands more about something, and he has something to talk to the child. I bought her a stinky dried tofu today, and she was so happy. If your own child doesn't know how to hurt, who will hurt?"

Chen Xiang felt that Wang Yan was also a little reasonable. The child is older, and when he thinks back to when he was in the fourth or fifth grade, he also feels that he understands a lot about everything.

Wang Yan said: "I read an article that said, 'Love is the best education.'" I think it makes sense. When children feel that their parents love them, they are willing to communicate with their parents and tell the truth to their parents. You see that you have worked very hard to open a factory, and if you don't educate your children well, what are we busy with?"

Chen Xiang discovered: After Wang Yan came back, Rong Rongmo wrote homework and endorsed her mother all the time, not herself. When he saw himself, he hid away. He thought that his discipline might be really wrong.

Chen Xiang told Wang Yan that the mall called him and urged him to pay the rent for next year's store. Last year, someone changed stores, and they took over a store. After a year, the business was not very good, Wang Yan persuaded Chen Xiang to remove the store and recruit some salesmen to run the community, which could save costs and the goal was direct. However, Chen Xiang believes that the flow of people in the store is okay, and in the first year, the sample adjustment is not in place. He wanted to try it for another year.

Wang Yan said: "If you make money, we can still pay the rent of the store next year, and try for another year, you don't make any money now, what will you pay?"

Chen Xiang said: "The traffic of BO Mall itself is okay, and we haven't found a good clerk in the past two years." The sample was also not adjusted. Let's get it well next year, and we should be able to make money. “

Wang Yan doesn't know what next year will be like, she also knows that they have just started a business, and it has not been five or six years since they started a business, and it is difficult to get on track. Maybe the store will really make money next year. She was also worried that she might have made the wrong decision to persuade Chen Xiang to give up the store. But what if you don't have money? Family, friends, and classmates have borrowed money, and there is no place to borrow it anymore.

Chen Xiang said, "Let's go to sleep first." I'll figure it out tomorrow. “

Yes, since starting a business, they often are exhausted, physically and mentally exhausted, and have nothing to think about, so they persuade themselves: let's talk about it tomorrow.

What does their tomorrow look like? Will they be able to afford to pay the rent and wait until the better days?