The more Ma Huijuan spoke, the more excited she became, and she was completely immersed in the situation controlled by her own emotions.

Dongfang Siyi found that she had confused objective facts with subjective speculation, and she herself might not be able to distinguish between them, which are objective facts? Which ones were just doubts in her heart? And how many reasonable speculations and how many unreasonable conjectures are there in those doubts?

Dongfang Siyi looked at Ma Huijuan, who became more and more angry the more he spoke: "Perhaps, he really doesn't have the kind of situation you said?" In addition to the love letters written to him, did you find anything else? Is there any evidence that he is having an extramarital affair? ”

Ma Huijuan thought for a while and said, "Maybe I'm too sensitive, which woman would be very calm in her love life?" Wouldn't you be angry when you see other women writing love letters to their husbands? To be honest, I really didn't find any evidence. His mobile phone doesn't have a boot code, and I can look at it at any time, and I didn't find out that he had any dealings with other women. However, if you don't find it, you can't prove it. ”

Ma Huijuan was also full of contradictions in her heart: "In the past few days, I have specially gone to find out that the woman who wrote him a love letter is from their unit. After he resigned and left, the woman didn't seem to know anything and was still working at the unit as usual. I can't help but suspect that maybe this is an illusion, and no one can tell if there will be a sequel to this story? Do they have any other agreements? I'm still very skeptical. ”

Dongfang Siyi looked at Ma Huijuan with some confusion and asked, "You have talked about love letters several times, I want to know what this love letter you are talking about." Since the direct cause of your divorce was also caused by this love letter and has a lot to do with this love letter, why didn't you provide it to the court as evidence? Why would he deny it? Where's this love letter you're talking about? What did it say? ”

Ma Huijuan was silent, and after a long while, she finally told the truth: "I tore up this love letter." When I saw this love letter at the time, I couldn't control my emotions and tore it in front of him in a fit of anger. At that time, I didn't really decide that I wanted to divorce him, but I was angry and said that I wanted to divorce him, but I didn't expect him to nod and agree to divorce without any explanation. I was even more angry, and I didn't think about leaving evidence at that time. ”

Dongfang Siyi found that Ma Huijuan seemed to be hiding something, but she didn't want to say more? Or is there something else going on? Dongfang Siyi thought for a moment and then asked, "Can you tell me what exactly is said in this love letter?" Who exactly is the person who wrote this love letter? Do you know her? Are you sure it's a love letter and nothing else? ”

Ma Huijuan thought of Liu Jiabao, who had resigned and ran away from home, and she also had a lot of questions in her heart: "This woman is my classmate and Liu Jiabao's classmate." I know that she has also had a crush on Liu Jiabao before. Don't make fun of me when I say this. When we were in middle school, we probably thought of each other as rivals, and we rarely interacted with each other, and we rarely talked to each other when we met. Even after many years, I don't have a crush on her. ”

A look of contempt appeared on Ma Huijuan's face: "Before I found this letter from his pocket, I didn't know that she was also in his company. When I saw the letter, I felt strange and naturally became suspicious. I asked him: Why is she in your company? He actually showed great disgust and asked: When I didn't arrive at the company, she was already in the company, do you think there is anything wrong with this? Does it matter to you where she works? ”

Ma Huijuan was still very angry when she said this: "He has never talked to me like this before. I was even more angry, thinking that he had touched this woman because of my question, so I couldn't help but ask him: Where she works really has nothing to do with me? But she wrote to you to have something to do with me, right? So tell me now, why did she write to you? What reason is there to write to you? You're going to give me a reasonable explanation. ”

Ma Huijuan felt that her request was very legitimate: "I asked him: You are in a unit, what can't you say in person?" Why do you still use this method of letter writing? How many letters has she ever written to you? Did you ever write a love letter? Do you know what he said to me? He said, "Does it matter to you what she writes me?" Based on the tone of his voice and attitude towards me, I thought that her relationship with him must be abnormal, and that she must have written him a love letter. Otherwise, his attitude would not have been so agitated. ”

Dongfang Siyi felt that Ma Huijuan was too sensitive in her attitude towards Liu Jiabao, and she may have lost her minimum rationality, and the love letter she said may be completely her imagination: "If they are superiors and subordinates, and she gives him a little written opinion, do you think that's okay?" Are you sure what she wrote to him was a love letter and nothing else? ”

Ma Huijuan was silent, her eyes wandered away from the office window, and after a moment of silence, she finally admitted the truth: "I really just suspect that the letter is indeed only about work, and it is written very long." I didn't have the heart to read it, and I didn't want to finish it. When I saw her name at the end, I was too impulsive, and I insisted that she had written him a love letter. I don't know what's wrong with myself? Why is this happening? I'm in a mess now, and I feel like maybe I've really wronged him. ”

Dongfang Siyi looked at Ma Huijuan, who was deeply in doubt: "I think you should admit that the situation you have is one-sided, and the truth may not be what you think." Truth be told, there is no other evidence to prove this matter at the moment, you can't draw any conclusions, and therefore you shouldn't make any guesses, and you can leave this matter aside for now. You say you're at fault, and if you want, can you tell me what you think is wrong? ”

"I know I'm at fault too. Marriage is a world that belongs to two people, and it cannot be that only one person is at fault and the other person is perfect. I'm not an unreasonable person, I just think he lacks the responsibility of a man. As for what I was wrong with, I didn't think about it, and besides, I was really in a bad mood today, and I didn't want to talk too much about myself, and I didn't want to be difficult for myself anymore. Ma Huijuan's review of her own issues is more of an attitude, and she does not want to touch on any specific details.

Dongfang Siyi handed Ma Huijuan a glass of water: "His sudden departure is indeed not a correct choice, I understand your current mood." It will take a long time for your divorce case to go through the process. I hope you can calm down slowly, life will inevitably have storms, but most of the time it is still calm and unwavering. Do you know how I feel when I learn about your marital status? ”

Ma Huijuan took a sip of hot water and looked at Dongfang Siyi expectantly: "My heart is very chaotic, and I hope to find the real reason." ”

"I can honestly tell you that I only thought of one word, 'anxiety'. If you can consciously slow down the pace of your life before anxiety occurs, you may not accumulate as much anxiety that makes your relationship precarious. Because of anxiety, you become more and more out of tune with each other. Marriage is like a dance of two people, as long as one of them is not in tune, then the rhythm will be chaotic, the more chaotic it is, the more impatient it will be, and the more impatient it will be, the more chaotic it will be, so it will naturally produce a sense of anxiety. This anxiety is accompanied by mutual distrust, because distrust creates estrangement, because of the estrangement, there is a reluctance to communicate, because of the mutual reluctance to communicate, there is more mutual accusation and complaint, and then there will be conflict. Conflict is the tipping point of the emotional crisis, once the conflict becomes a frequent incident, the relationship becomes the most direct target that both people want to destroy, and the marriage will naturally be difficult to maintain. ”

Ma Huijuan listened quietly to Dongfang Siyi's analysis, and she suddenly had a feeling of jumping out of the common predicament of being a fan of the authorities. Dongfang Siyi did not talk about things, did not intervene in their rights and wrongs, and did not comment on which of the two of them was right and who was wrong, but told a very ordinary truth, which is easy for people to accept.

As long as you calm down, think about it without prejudice, and don't use subjective instead of objective analysis, you can sit down from this well-understood truth, find out your real symptoms, and find the root cause of your own disease, so that you can find a way to solve yourself.

Dongfang Siyi continued: "As long as we are alive, we cannot but face all kinds of pressures in work and life, and we have to face all kinds of contradictions, all kinds of self-psychological conflicts and choices. All of this can make us anxious. The process of anxiety accumulation is the process of accumulation of negative energy, with the continuous increase of negative energy, those negative factors will accumulate, the pain endured by the individual will continue to increase, the inner balance will be lost, and the mood will become worse and worse. ”

Dongfang Siyi said in a persuasive tone: "If we can work the other way around, through introspection and self-discipline, to overcome mutual distrust and promote mutual communication, anxiety will slowly disappear." This process is a process of increasing positive energy, and when positive energy accumulates to the point where you can control your emotions, your inner state will definitely change, your thinking will also change, and the surrounding environment you face will also change. The so-called relationship is not that the environment has changed, but that your state of mind has changed the environment, and this change will change in your favor under your control. The anxieties, contradictions, and conflicts you once had will be resolved, and everything around you will become positive, and even the sunshine will be warmer and brighter than before. ”

The messy thinking in Ma Huijuan's brain became clear, and the dead knot in her heart that she wanted to untie every day but couldn't untie was slowly loosening, and the resentment that had been hanging on her face was receding little by little, and her eyes became softer.

She remembered a sentence she had read in a book: "Marriage is the practice of two people." Finally woke up a little, as if asking Dongfang Siyi, and seemed to ask himself: "Am I wrong?" Is it really wrong? What's wrong? ”

Dongfang Siyi said with emotion: "I think love is not a work of design, but the fruit of two people's mutual pleasure." ”

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