"Only I know that when I reach middle age, I finally live the way I hate the most. I don't know how this life will end, or what it will look like in the future."

"All I know is that my glamorous marriage on the surface is like a terminally ill patient, who doesn't look sick on the outside, but in fact there is no cure."

"There is a kind of forgiveness, which is called deceiving oneself. There is a kind of divorce, called running for your life. A cheating marriage is a marriage that has a terminal illness, if forgiveness is a cure for this terminal illness, so that such a marriage can live for a longer period of time, it is difficult to say how long this period can last, maybe a few months, maybe a few years, maybe more than ten years, but after all, it will still die."

"The marriage between me and Shang Biao was originally a marriage with a terminal illness. Although I chose to forgive and let this marriage last for a while, I didn't live long." Look at the book

"The damage caused by cheating cannot be healed at all, and the so-called forgiveness is just to give yourself and the other party a decent step. Even if the broken glass is put back together, it will never go back to the way it used to be."

"Even if I didn't choose to cheat in the first place, would this marriage go on forever? Even if Shang Biao gets rid of his cheating, I will still divorce him eventually, at most until my children go to college."

"But now that I'm cheating myself, and I feel that I lack the confidence to take the initiative to file a divorce with him, then I think that's it, just get by, and let it be."

"I also know that I am still unhappy, with so many secrets on my back, I am obviously anxious and irritable, but I am always forced to laugh."

"Cheating is like taking drugs, in addition to being addictive, it is also easy to fall into nothingness. In the process of cheating, when you are with your lover, you will indeed have a short period of joy, and you will even feel like you are alive again, but once you return home, face your husband and children, and realize that this is the reality, this huge contrast will only make people fall into confusion and nothingness."

"It's the same as 'addicts take drugs***, but when the toxicity is over, they fall into emptiness.'"

"Retaliating for cheating with cheating is nothing more than drinking to quench my thirst, but I am deeply trapped in it and can't extricate myself."

"I really wanted to tell him everything to his face, scold him, scold myself, and never get along with each other again, but I don't have the courage to even mention these things about me to anyone."

"I also know that this is very contradictory, obviously I am not afraid of the divorce of Shang Biao, but if I want to talk to him about these things myself, I admit it. It's the same as going to his parents' house, it's clear that I wasn't the one who cheated, but I didn't have the courage to face his parents and expose his ugly face in person."

There is no doubt that the interrogation of Tan Mimi has completely changed its taste, and it has become two men listening carefully to the emotional catharsis of a married cheating woman, and even inadvertently allowing her to complete a psychological dredging.

In the process of Tan Mimi's emotional catharsis and psychological dredging, it not only describes in detail the emotional experience and psychological journey of a woman from a good family who is "forced" to become a "broken shoe", but also completely shows the new means of a new woman in the new era to take revenge on her husband's cheating, that is, "you play yours, I play mine", "revenge for cheating with cheating", which can be described as a tooth for a tooth and blood for blood.

Tan Mimi took herself as a case and profoundly revealed a cruel truth: once a woman wants to cheat, she will only be better than a man.

Among these women who habitually cheat, some tend to be more greedy.

They not only covet their husbands' steadfastness, steadiness and can be relied on, but also like the thoughtfulness, gentleness and romance of their lovers. For them, having both is the best option.

If it is found out, of course, it is to return to the family, but they will not be willing to cut off contact with their lover, they will say that they have broken it, but they will not be willing to drive this person out of their lives. They would let their lover lie in their contact list, justifying that it was just an inconsequential person.

They distinguish marriage and love very clearly, and feel that they are trapped in marriage in front of their lovers, and there is no way to divorce, they can only love their lovers painfully, and in front of their husbands, they feel again

It's because you're not good at this, and it's not good at that, so I'm cheating, and I'm right.

There are also some women who cheat without thinking about whether it will lead to divorce. is a fluke mentality, as long as you hide it, you can not be discovered by your husband.

And when such a woman is found cheating, what she generally thinks about is not to break off, but to pretend to regret it, not only to deceive her husband, but also to continue to maintain an extramarital affair. This may stem from the "greed" in the essence of women's thoughts, and there are very few cheating women who are willing to gamble and lose and have the courage to take responsibility.

Such women seem to have been born with a certain skill, and for the men who love them, they like to torture them, and of course they will be tortured themselves. After making a mistake, some people will cry bitterly and beg a man for forgiveness, do you think that is really in love with you as a man? That's because she knows that missing you, the green-haired turtle, may not be a better pick-up in the future, and doing so will also give them a comfort in their own hearts.

For men, it must be understood that most wives have no love for their husbands long ago before cheating. Even if there is a point, she was declared dead when she slept with her lover for the first time. After cheating, she loves her lover, not you. She and her lover are their own, and you are an outsider.

So, don't believe their so-called "I'm wrong" and "I'll change".

And Tan Mimi, in her own words, belongs to the category of "not afraid of the consequences and moving forward". These women are often the "mudslides" of the cheating world, capable of crushing everything.

They are not afraid of being found out at all, and they don't care whether their husbands forgive or not after being discovered, if you want to divorce, you will accompany you, and if you don't want to divorce, you will continue to live with you, but you will definitely continue to cheat.

At the same time, Tan Mimi also highly summarized the psychology and emotions of the cheating person from a woman's perspective and her own nuanced perception, and even her personal feelings and opinions on cheating.

The lecture was full of emotion, content, human desire, ideology and philosophy, and fully embodied the wise saying "life is a bastard", but it didn't sound like it had anything to do with the case they were trying to solve.

After all, Yang Feng and Ouyang are criminal policemen, and their duty and mission is to "eliminate harm for the people" and find out the real culprit of the current "Zhou Zhiying case", not like the aunt on the street, while eating melon seeds, listening to people's chatter.

Tan Mimi's confessions are not like "confessions", although they are different from their initial guesses, but they also explain some doubts very reasonably. They didn't expect to ask such a powerful "gossip" from Tan Mimi's mouth.

If you want to know whether what Tan Mimi said is true or false, it is not difficult, you just need to find her four lovers and verify them.

But Yang Feng directly asked her fourth lover: "Do you have feelings for this recent ......' boyfriend?"

Tan Mimi's expression was obviously much more relaxed, and after pouring out her emotional garbage in such an unbelievable way, she obviously felt relieved.

After hesitating for a moment, Tan Mimi finally nodded: "Sort of......

"Then why did you break up? Who brought up the breakup?"

Tan Mimi suddenly looked at Yang Feng very puzzled: "Comrade policeman, are you handling a case, or are you collecting gossip about Yan History?"

"You just have to answer the questions." Yang Feng continued to grimace.

These stinky policemen don't know what to pity at all.

Tan Mimi could only reluctantly and honestly answer: "It's because I feel that I have feelings that I will break up...... This is an extramarital affair, if you don't break up, will you take it home for the New Year? The breakup I mentioned, once you get deeper and deeper, will only become more and more dangerous."

"You're not afraid of being discovered by Shang Biao anyway, what danger can you have?"

"He wants to marry me and divorce Shang Biao...... I think he probably took it seriously, how can I marry him? I never lied to him, I told him at the beginning that I had a family, and I didn't think he would take it seriously, and it should be

He just wanted to sleep with me, and the ghost would have thought that he would take it seriously. As I said earlier, once the cheating parties get married, the novelty and excitement of this cheating affair will disappear immediately."

After a pause, Tan Mimi continued:

"Besides, I'm really not afraid of being discovered by Shang Biao, but I took the initiative to tell Shang Biao that I had another man outside and filed for divorce from him, which is different from being discovered by Shang Biao and having him file for divorce."

"I'm afraid that I'll fall into it, and my head will be hot, and I will break up with him if I really do something to marry him."

Whether it is Yang Feng or Ouyang, they don't know much about women, so they can fully understand the first reason that Tan Mimi said, but for the latter reason, it is a bit foggy.

A woman's mind and logic have never been able to be measured from a normal perspective.

Of course, Yang Feng really didn't care about that: "Did you tell him why did you break up?"

"I just said, my husband is very good to me, I can't get a divorce."

"Is he married?"

"Single, unmarried."

"After you broke up, did he pester you, including now, is he still trying to get you back?"

Tan Mimi's eyes immediately widened: "How do you know?"

Yang Feng continued to ask, "Did he say anything to you that made you feel strange?"