Chapter 634: The idea of founding a family

"Isn't that going to be a separation?" Huang Shi said, "A big family relies on a large number of people to unite the clansmen.

Once the family is separated, won't the family be dissolved?"

Qin An smiled and said, "Mr. Huangshi, if it was in the past, your understanding was right, and some families are married in the clan in order to maintain the purity of their bloodline.

But when I came, this notion was wrong.

Last time, Lao Gan asked me if my family wanted to stop it, and I said no, just let him form naturally.

Why do you want to?"

"Sir, I said, it's useless to stop it, because it's the trend," he said.

"Yes, this is the trend, because in traditional Chinese culture, the family is an important social unit, and the continuation of the family is seen as a responsibility and mission.

Whether you are a big family or an individual, it is your responsibility and mission to continue the future generations, and if the country wants to be strong, it is to rely on countless small families to form the big family of the country.

If the family does not continue, the country is bound to decline.

However, the division of the family is only the family's inheritance, not the family's culture and spirit."

Qin An paused, looked at everyone and said, "If you want to build a thousand-year-old family, you must first form a professional inheritance management system within the family.

For example, there is a patriarch in the family, there are elders, there is a genealogy, there is a decision-making mechanism, a management mechanism, and so on.

They are in charge of the family property, the main property of the family, not the private property of the juniors.

Therefore, the family also needs to have family assets and family industries that can continue to create effective inheritance.

Let's say I want to start a family, but I'm on my own, and I have three wives and three sons.

Then I laid down a lot of industries, there were steel workshops, pen, ink and paper workshops, shipyards, salt factories, garment factories and so on.

When the three children grow up, I will let them marry and have children, and then start their own business, and I will give each of them a workshop as start-up capital.

Those who have the ability will carry forward my inheritance, but sometimes I leave all my inheritance to him.

Of course, if I live a long life, and someone among my grandchildren or great-grandchildren stands out and is a genius, then I will give the property to my grandchildren, or great-grandchildren.

I will not give my inheritance to anyone because he is the firstborn, but I will give it to those who are able.

However, I will set up a rule, set up a system, and tell me that as long as his name is recorded in the family tree, then he has the right to inherit, and anyone has it.

Even if thousands of years have passed, ten thousand years, as long as the children of the Qin family in the genealogy have the right to inherit.

At the same time, the profits produced by the family's property are used in the family.

If someone fails in business, they can help, but there are also situations where they don't help, such as: those who are lazy don't help, those who endanger the country and the people don't help, and those who take the plunderers don't help, etc.

I'm not going to interfere with where the kids go. And I will definitely ask the children to leave their own side and go outside when they get married."

"What if they fail?" Huangshi asked.

"Mr. Huangshi, failure is a valuable life lesson, and if it is always smooth, I will be afraid." Qin An said, "Once you fail, you may not be able to get up for the rest of your life, and even if you do, this failure will become a demon, and once it comes to a major decision, you will hesitate.

Life is not afraid of failure, but fear of failure after a collapse.

Therefore, when my descendants become adults, they must go out and break through, the purpose is to accumulate the essence of society, so that they can know that there are people outside of people, and there is heaven outside of heaven."

"Taught." Huang Shi said, "Mr.'s arrangement, it seems to be a separation, but in fact, it is to create opportunities for the family and future generations, whether the descendants have the ability or not, it depends on their creation, and in the future, you will still help them."

And genealogy

has their names in it, which proves that they are the children of your Qin family.

Even if they're at the ends of the earth."

"Yes." Qin An said, "As long as the descendants give birth to offspring and go to the ancestral shrine to add the names of the descendants, he will be a member of my Qin clan.

As for whether or not they live in the Lord's house, it doesn't matter what.

And I wish that the people of the Qin clan would go to settle all over the world, so that the incense of my Qin descendants will never be continuous, and as for the future, no one can say.

There is also talent, the millennium family is not talking about it, there are a large number of talents in the clan.

Therefore, if I want to build a thousand-year-old family, I must let future generations be like dragons, even if the talent is dull, I will let him achieve something in one aspect."

"Sir, if the Bai family wants to become a thousand-year-old family, can they all go on their own like Mr.?" Bai Siqi asked.

Qin An bowed his head and said, "Yes. But does your Bai family have an industry? It's not the kind of land, but an industry that creates value continuously.

For example, there is a garment factory like me, what do you have in the Bai family?"

Bai Si thought for a while and said, "The Bai family has a caravan."

"Huh? Does the Bai family have a caravan?" Ying Zheng asked.

He really didn't know about it.

Bai Siqi immediately said, "Yes, the last time Lao Feng organized a caravan, there were juniors in the family who also organized one, and the number of people was much smaller than Lao Feng's, and because I didn't organize it, the number of the caravan was only five hundred."

"I see, no wonder I haven't heard of it, there were a lot of caravans formed at that time." Ying Zheng nodded slightly.

Although there are government registrations, many of them are registered in the name of the family, but there are also those registered in their own names.

The descendants of the Bai family must have been registered in their own name.

Qin An said: "It can be regarded as having an industry, so is there any management method? For example, if you have something important to post, how can you inform your people?"

"Sir, is there any good idea?" Bai Siqi shook his head and said.

In the past, as soon as he greeted him, except for a few people in the army, all those who could come would arrive at the scene, and there was no need to think about it at all.

But after the separation, it is difficult to notice.

Qin An said, "This requires you to set a rule, even if the family is separated, the clansmen will take the family as their important responsibility, and will not abandon the family for their own selfishness.

But there are also such people, I have watched a lot on TV, but none of them ended well.

So, Lao Bai. I suggest that when you go back, inform the clansmen and let them come up with a rule together.

Also, once the family is separated, the prestige of your head of the family will drop a lot."

"It's okay, for the sake of the family, everything is a small matter." Bai Siqi said.

Gan Mao on the side didn't care, he felt that it was not a good thing to split up, but it was okay to let the clansmen go on a roam.